Another way is merely "one of the many modern substitutes for love,... nothing but the urge to turn away from oneself and to lose oneself in other people's business".
ɐnˈʌðɚ wˈeɪ ɪz mˈɪɹli "wˈʌn ʌvðə mˈɛni mˈɑːdɚn sˈʌbstɪtˌuːts fɔːɹ lˈʌv,... nˈʌθɪŋ bˌʌt ðɪ ˈɜːdʒ tə tˈɜːn ɐwˈeɪ fɹʌm wʌnsˈɛlf ænd tə lˈuːz wʌnsˈɛlf ɪn ˈʌðɚ pˈiːpəlz bˈɪznəs".