haʊˈɛvɚ, ɐ kˈʌpəl ðæt ɪz ɪkwˈɪpt tə mˈænɪdʒ dˌɪfɚɹˌɛnʃɪˈeɪʃən wɪl ɛkspˈiəɹɪəns ɛkspˈiəɹɪəns ðɪs æz ɐn ɑːpɚtˈuːnᵻɾi fɔːɹ kəmjˌuːnɪkˈeɪʃən ænd nᵻɡˌoʊʃɪˈeɪʃən ɹˈæðɚ ðɐn kˈɑːnflɪkt.
However, a couple that is equipped to manage differentiation will experience experience this as an opportunity for communication and negotiation rather than conflict.