juː ˈɛnd ˌʌp blˈeɪmɪŋ ˈʌðɚz fɔːɹ jʊɹ pˈeɪn wʌtˈɛvɚɹ ɔːɹ huːˈɛvɚ ðoʊz ˈʌðɚz hˈæpən təbi wˌɪtʃ mˌeɪks juː ɐ ɹᵻzˈɛntfəl pˈɜːsən.
You end up blaming others for your pain--whatever or whoever those 'others' happen to be--which makes you a resentful person.