ɪf ɪt hɐdbɪn jˈuːzd bᵻfˌoːɹ ɔːɹ nˈɑːt, fɔːɹ mˌiː æz ðə sˈʌbdʒɛkt ɔːɹ vˈɪktɪm ʌv ðˈɪs, tə sˈiː ðæt wˈɜːd jˈuːzd ɪn ðɪs tˈɜːm ɪz hˈɜːtfəl.
If it had been used before or not, for me as the subject or victim of this, to see that word used in this term is hurtful.