First, therapy will not fix you, you must do the work and take the tools the therapist gives you and put them into action and do the hard work. Find a new therapist and if you don't get results, look at yourself. It is so important in a relationship to be able to stand on your own two feet. The only relationships that work are the ones where the couple want to be there rather than need to be there. 95% of what we do is unconscious so we do need outside help. I go to Codependency meetings and also a therapist and it has helped me tremendously. Good luck. You deserve so much more.