Of course you're allowed your opinion. Never said you couldn't. To be honest though:

&gt; i'm not sure if OP is respecting that enough.

You're not really in a position to make any sort of judgement about their relationship based on the little information here. You're seeing one side because that was the point of this post. She's feeling happy to be getting some of the her she remembers back. You can see she's glad to be able to share that with her boyfriend.

You fixating on how hard it may or may not have been for her boyfriend is beyond the scope of your perception. Mine too, for that matter. You're bringing down the point of the post, intentionally or not, by pointing out "but what about that guy."

Why couldn't you be happy for her *and her boyfriend* without trying to force them to your standards of "enough" respect. Standards applied while knowing only what you see here.

So, sure disagree. I disagree with your opinion. Do I get that, or am I not "respecting that enough?"