I can't relate but I can say that I wouldn't worry about mommy and bumper groups. I know my monthly bumper groups has quite a few people over 40 and even more over 35. It's a pretty normal thing now, I think, because people are waiting until they are financially secure.

My mom had the opposite experience when she had me and my brother at 20 and she actually got judged much harder than older moms. She was viewed as irresponsible and immature and incapable of raising children because she was basically one herself. I remember it being really hard for her.