Also, as other people have pointed out, Depp was legally found to be a domestic abuser in the UK long before he brought the case to Virginia so he could rehab his public image. Heard was abusive too, but saying “just look at Jonny Depp” is a perfect example of where women are given a much harsher microscope than men when discussing abuse. And even then, Depp faced ridicule and doubt too. 

Victims of abuse are regularly questioned in this way, as if they are lying for gain. Yet, the number of people who have lied about harassment for gain vs total people who have been harassed must be 1 for every million if not more