It sounds like you're complacent. You might be used to dating the same type of person so you always feel the same emotions with every partner.  I think you need someone more passionate that can show you a different type of love. I think you haven't found the person that loves you how you like to be loved (because you dont know yet how you like to be loved) and that you actually truly are in love with. 


If my bf talked about me like you just did, I would be devasted. I think this means that you love her but youre not in love with her.  Both of you deserve better.