OMFG the child support frenzy.  I know several men who refused or weaseled out of paying child support because "I'll take care of my kids."  Every one of them was a *liar*.  Without exception.  If he intended on taking care of his kids, he would not withhold money from his *minor children*.  I knew one guy who was working a high-paying job, treating his multiple girlfriends to shopping trips and nice dinners, driving a fancy car (in New York), wearing designer clothes, and going out to drink top-shelf vodka and throw cash at strippers regularly.  His ex wife and two very young children lived in a homeless shelter, and one of his girlfriends had to force him to go down there and have him buy his kids new clothes and school supplies.  He wasn't a millionaire, but he was well-off enough that a few hundred dollars a month wouldn't have seriously affected his lifestyle, though his children probably wouldn't have had to live in a shelter.

People act like child support is something that greedy no-working women cooked up to personally take the put-upon hardworking man's money, so they can live like queens.  These are also the same guys who are angry that their ex wife "won't let them" see the kids (more often than not, for good reason), but rarely ever fight for custody.  They don't want their kids.  They don't want to take care of their kids.  They want to spite their ex wife.