Client fwiw: life happens.  You could have attempted to see another provider that night but in the long run you're just going to have to eat the cost of the hotel room.

If you've seen her in the past and this has never happened before, I don't see a specific reason to not see her again.  Now you have a better idea of scheduling issues you may have with seeing this provider in the future.

I have had a similiar situation to this happen in the past with a provider I had not seen previously and decided to cut my losses and not contact her again.