Your insecurity is showing.  Don't attack people who are making a different choice than you, especially when it does not impact you in any way.  You doing this only makes it obvious that you aren't totally comfortable with your own choices (and I don't blame you, it's a shitty situation to be in).



The hardest thing to do here is to just admit straight up that you are willing to accept some risk and increase risk for others in order to benefit the mental health of yourself and your family.  That may sound rude at first, but you know what it also means?  It means you are being honest (with yourself and others) and will remove the need to attack others who chose differently.  Those are good things in a time filled with bad things.