&gt;I understand. I wasn't trying to limit your venting.

I know, don't worry.

&gt;I've learned that everyone is a hypocrit. We all have our morals and ideals but once something is "weird" or "icky" it loses its value. 

I think it's worse than that, people genuinely don't realize it.

&gt;My husbands male coworkers have asked him what it's like to "fuck Sasquatch", what its like to "eat 70's pussy" and then get all defensive and up in arms when he can't "take a joke".

My BF is also getting a lot of that, coupled with the occasional "are you sure you are not gay?"