Mary Meigs, Sarah's niece, describes Sarah's and Elizabeth's choices in husbands: "They selected for husbands, businessmen who were as much alike as Tweedledum and Tweedledee.
Later, Meigs describes Sarah's marriage as "dreary .. like a man and wife yoked together like a couple of oxen, plodding along in gloomy silence or to the sound of a monologue."[REF] .