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The husband complains about not falling asleep with the lights on, which makes him feel like he has to wait until the wife falls asleep to make any move. The wife suggests compromise and relaxation techniques to help him fall asleep quicker.
human
I really wish you could fall asleep before me sometimes.
gpt
What do you mean?
human
Well, I feel like I can't turn off the lights in our room without you noticing. I have to wait until you fall asleep to make any move.
gpt
I had no idea. Why does that bother you?
human
It's hard for me to fall asleep with the lights on. I don't get a good night's sleep.
gpt
I understand. Maybe we can compromise and turn off the lights a little earlier so I can have some time to wind down.
human
That could work. It would be nice to not have to wait until you fall asleep every night.
gpt
Yeah, and maybe we can try some relaxation techniques to help me fall asleep quicker.
human
That's a good idea. We can try some breathing exercises or meditation.
gpt
I'm willing to try anything to help us both get a better night's sleep. 
human
That's great to hear. Let's work on it together.