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The husband expresses feelings of not getting the attention he deserves, but acknowledges his efforts and wants constant validation. They agree to work on trusting each other's worthiness and finding ways to make each other feel loved without constantly wanting attention.
human
I just feel like I'm not getting the attention I deserve sometimes. I need to feel special.
gpt
I understand that, but sometimes it feels like you pout and withdraw when you don't get your way.
human
I know, I just can't help it. I feel like I put in a lot of effort into our relationship and I want that effort to be acknowledged.
gpt
I appreciate your efforts, but sometimes it feels like you're expecting constant validation.
human
Maybe I am, but I just want to know that I'm appreciated.
gpt
Of course you are appreciated, but we also have to remember that we both have busy lives and can't always give each other our full attention.
human
I know, I just have this fear that you'll stop loving me if I'm not constantly reminded of how special I am to you.
gpt
That's not true at all. I love you for who you are, not just for the things you do for me.
human
Thank you for saying that. I just need to work on trusting that and not getting so hung up on wanting attention all the time.
gpt
I think that's a great idea. And maybe we can work on finding ways to make each other feel special without it being dependent on constant attention.
human
I like that. Maybe we can plan a special date night or write each other love letters.
gpt
Yes! That sounds perfect. See, we can find ways to make each other feel loved without it being so draining on either of us.
human
You always know just what to say. I'm so lucky to have you.
gpt
And I'm lucky to have you.