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The husband confronts his girlfriend after reading a message board post about kissing another man. The wife suggests confronting the woman about the situation and reminds him to take initiative and communicate his needs.
human
I read a post on the message board from someone claiming to have seen my girlfriend kissing another man. I think I need to confront her about it.
gpt
That's a difficult situation. Maybe you should talk to her and find out what really happened.
human
Yeah, but I'm always so hesitant to ask for what I want. I feel like I'm being a burden or bothering her.
gpt
You can't just wait for things to happen. You need to take the initiative and communicate your needs and concerns.
human
I know, I just don't want to come off as pushy or controlling.
gpt
It's not about being pushy or controlling, it's about expressing yourself and your needs. Communication is key in any relationship.
human
You're right. I guess I need to learn to be more assertive and ask for what I want.
gpt
Absolutely, and it'll only make your relationship stronger. Plus, it'll prevent misunderstandings and conflicts in the future.
human
I see what you mean. Thanks for the advice.