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The husband expresses feelings of hurting people close to him and wants to find a way to control his anger. The wife expresses support and acknowledges that she can be guarded but doesn't always express her feelings well enough. They also discuss finances and agree to focus on each other's communication skills.
human
I need to talk to you about something that's been bothering me.
gpt
Of course, what is it?
human
I'm having a lot of trouble controlling my anger lately. I know I've been saying hurtful things to you and others, even though I don't mean to. I really want to find a way to control it so I can avoid hurting the people I love.
gpt
I'm sorry to hear that, honey. That must be really difficult for you.
human
It is. I feel like I'm hurting those who are closest to me, especially you.
gpt
Is there anything I can do to help you?
human
Honestly, I think I need to see a therapist or counselor to work on this. I just don't know how to control my anger on my own.
gpt
That sounds like a good idea. I'm here to support you and help you in any way that I can.
human
Thank you, that means a lot to me. And I also want to make sure we're both communicating well with each other. In the past, I felt like you were pushing me away and I wasn't sure if you loved me. I don't want those feelings to come back up again.
gpt
I'm sorry you felt that way, but I do love you. I know I can be guarded with my affection at times, but it's not because I don't love you. I'm just not always good at expressing it.
human
I know and I understand that. I just need to hear it every once in a while, you know?
gpt
Of course, I'll make sure to tell you more often. And I also want to address the issue of the offer I made that you weren't happy with. I didn't mean to take advantage of you, I just thought it was a fair deal.
human
I appreciate that, but I just want to make sure we're both on the same page when it comes to finances. I don't want either of us to feel like we're being taken advantage of.
gpt
You're right, and we'll make sure to have open and honest communication about money. But right now, let's focus on getting you the help you need to control your anger. I love you and I support you.