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The husband admits to picking fights with people because it makes people see him as confrontational. The wife suggests setting goals and practicing something else to build confidence, but also reminds him that being in control doesn't mean being aggressive. They also discuss how they can work together to improve their relationship and grow closer together.
human
I don't know why I do it, but I always end up picking fights with people. I just want to feel strong, you know?
gpt
I understand, but being aggressive isn't the way to feel strong. It just makes people see you as confrontational.
human
I know, I know. But sometimes it feels like the only way to prove myself.
gpt
Have you thought about other ways to build your confidence?
human
Like what?
gpt
Maybe you could try setting goals for yourself and achieving them. Or practicing something you're good at until you feel really confident in it.
human
I guess those could work. But what about in the moment, when I feel like I need to show someone I'm in control?
gpt
I think taking a deep breath and stepping back from the situation can be really helpful. And remember that being in control doesn't mean being aggressive.
human
You're right. I'll try to remember that next time.
gpt
I have faith in you. And remember, we're a team. If you're feeling insecure, you can always talk to me about it.
human
Thank you, that means a lot. You know, I'm really grateful for you. You've helped me become a better person.
gpt
Aw, thank you. I feel the same way about you. We've both grown a lot since we first met.
human
Definitely. Remember when I was unhappy with your hairstyle and you got that new, daring look?
gpt
Yes, I do. I was nervous at first, but I ended up loving it.
human
I'm glad. And that salad we had a few weeks ago was really good too.
gpt
Ha, I remember that. I'm glad you enjoyed it. But let's get back to talking about how we can work on your insecurity. We can do this together.