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The husband found out that his best friend has been cheating on him and feels betrayed. The wife suggests talking to her side of things but emphasizes the importance of finding balance between concern and control. They agree to work on reconciling their relationship and agree to work on it together.
human
I just found out that my best friend has been cheating on me.
gpt
Oh my god, I'm so sorry. That must be devastating.
human
I can't believe it. She's been lying to me for months.
gpt
Do you have any idea why she would do something like that?
human
I don't know, maybe she's just not happy in her own relationship.
gpt
Have you talked to her about it?
human
No, I haven't. I don't even know if I want to.
gpt
It might be good to hear her side of things. But ultimately, you have to do what's best for you.
human
I just feel so betrayed. I've been friends with her for years, and she never even gave me a hint that anything was going on.
gpt
It's understandable to feel that way. But don't blame yourself. It's not your fault that she made the decision to cheat.
human
I just don't know how to move past this.
gpt
It's going to take time, but you will get through it. You're a strong person.
human
Thanks. I appreciate your support.
gpt
Of course. That's what partners are for. Speaking of support, I still feel like we need to talk about your need for control in our relationship.
human
What do you mean?
gpt
I know you want to know where I am and what I'm doing all the time, but it's not healthy. It makes me feel suffocated and like I have to constantly report to you.
human
I just worry about you. I want to make sure you're safe.
gpt
I understand that, but there's a difference between concern and control. We need to find a balance that works for both of us.
human
Okay, I'm sorry. I'll try to work on it.
gpt
Thank you. I appreciate that. And we'll work on it together.