system
The husband is tired of being in control of his wife's decisions and has spoken up but she ignores him anyway. The wife suggests taking charge and showing her that she can be a leader instead of waiting for someone else to do it.
human
I just can't take it anymore. She's always in control and I'm tired of it.
gpt
Who is in control? What are you talking about?
human
The other wife. Every time we have a gathering, she takes over and makes all the decisions. It's like I don't even matter.
gpt
Have you tried speaking up and sharing your ideas? Maybe she doesn't even realize she's doing it.
human
I have spoken up, but she ignores me and does what she wants anyway.
gpt
Maybe it's time for you to take charge and plan the next gathering. Show her that you can be a leader too.
human
I shouldn't have to prove anything. I should already be the one in charge.
gpt
But if you don't take action, nothing will change. Remember when we had that issue with the kids' schooling? We had to step up and make a decision ourselves instead of waiting for someone else to do it.
human
You're right. I just need to show some initiative and take charge. Thanks for your advice, honey.