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The husband is angry after losing a tennis match because he worked hard on his game. The wife reminds him that losing shouldn't affect happiness and comfort with himself, but reminds him that happiness and comfort should still be respected regardless of the outcome.
human
I can't believe I lost that tennis match. I'm so angry at myself.
gpt
It's okay, honey. You win some, you lose some.
human
But I worked so hard on my game. I should have won.
gpt
You did your best. That's all that matters.
human
I know. I just hate losing.
gpt
Remember when we talked about how you used to feel comfortable and happy being alone?
human
Yeah, what does that have to do with anything?
gpt
Well, losing a tennis match shouldn't affect your happiness and comfort with yourself. You should still feel good about who you are, regardless of the outcome.
human
You're right. I shouldn't let one match define my self-worth.
gpt
Exactly. And remember when we talked about how happy we were when we first got together?
human
Of course. I still feel that way.
gpt
Me too. So don't let this one loss bring you down. We still have a lot to be grateful for.