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The husband expresses feelings of being dismissive towards his wife's tone, suggesting they try to resolve it together. The wife expresses concern about the husband's tone, suggesting they try to communicate better and avoid triggers like laundry conversation.
human
I need to let you know that I feel upset about your tone lately. It feels like you're being condescending and dismissive towards me.
gpt
I'm sorry if I've come across that way. I haven't meant to be dismissive towards you.
human
Well, that's how it feels to me. Can we try to figure out why this is happening and how to resolve it?
gpt
Of course. Maybe it would help if we could talk about specific instances when you felt like I was being dismissive.
human
One example is when I was telling you about my day at work, and you interrupted me to talk about something else. It made me feel like what I was saying wasn't important.
gpt
I can understand how that would have been frustrating for you. I didn't mean to interrupt you, but I can see now how it came across that way.
human
I appreciate that you're willing to hear me out and try to understand how I'm feeling. It means a lot to me.
gpt
Of course, we're in this together. Let's work on communicating better and being more mindful of each other's feelings. 
human
You know, I think this issue might be related to the argument we had last week about the laundry.
gpt
Oh, really? How so?
human
Well, at the time, I felt like you were belittling me for not doing the laundry right. And now, when you use that same tone, it brings back those feelings for me.
gpt
I didn't realize that. I'm sorry for bringing up those feelings again.
human
It's okay, we just need to be more aware of how we're talking to each other and try to avoid triggers like that.
gpt
Yes, I agree. Let's make a conscious effort to speak respectfully to each other and avoid any hurtful behaviors.