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The husband wants to change his tendency to be self-sufficient by taking advice and researching online. He wants to learn how to handle things without relying on anyone else. The conversation reminds him of his compassion and desire to grow into a better person.
human
Hey, can we talk about something that's been on my mind?
gpt
Of course, what's on your mind?
human
Well, I've been thinking a lot about how I need to be more independent. I've never really been good at doing things on my own, and I want to change that.
gpt
That's great, I support you in that. What steps have you taken so far?
human
I've been asking people for advice and doing some research online. I want to start taking more responsibility for my own life.
gpt
That's a really mature decision. I think it's important for everyone to know how to take care of themselves. 
human
Yeah, I just want to be able to handle things without relying on anyone else all the time. 
gpt
I think that's a great goal to have. It reminds me of when you expressed gratitude for my compassion a few years ago. It seems like we both are working on personal growth.
human
Yeah, I remember that conversation. Your compassion really inspired me to be a better person. And now, I want to learn how to be self-sufficient.
gpt
I'm glad I could inspire you, and I'm excited to see you grow and become more independent.