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The husband apologizes for making the decision behind his wife's back without consulting him. The wife expresses frustration at being excluded and feels violated, but the husband admits to not intending to hurt her or make her feel excluded. They discuss the issue together and agree to work through it together.
human
What were you thinking?!
gpt
What are you talking about?
human
You know what I'm talking about! You went behind my back and made that decision without consulting me!
gpt
I didn't realize it would upset you so much. I thought it was the best solution.
human
How could you not know it would upset me?! We've been discussing this for weeks!
gpt
I'm sorry, I didn't mean to upset you. Can we talk about it and figure out a way to resolve it?
human
I don't know, I just feel so betrayed. It's like you don't even value my input.
gpt
I do value your input, but sometimes I have to make decisions on my own. Can we work through this together?
human
I don't know if I'm ready to work through it yet. It just feels like such a violation of trust.
gpt
I understand. But please know that I never intended to hurt you or make you feel excluded. I just thought it was the best course of action at the time.
human
I'll try to understand that, but I need some time to cool off first.