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The husband feels like his wife is always listening to him, but the wife apologizes and offers support. They discuss past compromises and discuss how they can work together to make sure they feel heard and valued in the relationship.
human
I just feel like you're always ignoring me, like my thoughts and opinions don't matter.
gpt
What do you mean? I'm always here to listen to you.
human
Yes, you listen, but then you don't seem to respond or engage with what I'm saying. It's like talking to a wall.
gpt
I'm sorry if it feels that way to you. I guess I've been feeling a bit distant lately.
human
That's exactly what I mean. It's always me who has to initiate communication and make an effort to connect. I'm tired of feeling like I'm the only one trying in this relationship.
gpt
I can understand why you feel that way, and I'm sorry. I want to make an effort to change that.
human
It's just frustrating because it feels like we always have to compromise on things that are important to me, because you're unwilling to budge.
gpt
Can you give me an example?
human
Well, remember when I wanted to take that job in another city, and you refused to move?
gpt
I remember that, but my career is also important to me. Besides, we found a compromise where you could work remotely.
human
I know, but it always seems like I have to be the one to give in. I just want to feel like my needs and wants are considered too.
gpt
I hear you, and I'm willing to work on it. Maybe we can both make an effort to be more mindful of each other's needs and communicate better.
human
That sounds like a good plan. And maybe we can also talk about some of the things from the past that are still bothering us.
gpt
I'm open to that too. Let's work together to make sure we both feel heard and valued in this relationship.