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The husband accuses his wife of constantly hanging out with friends and neglecting her. They discuss spending quality time together, but disagree on whether she should drop everything or control who she spends time with. They agree to discuss alternatives to finding a new job closer to home and discuss planning a weekend getaway together.
human
I just don't get it. You're always hanging out with your friends and never have time for us.
gpt
Excuse me? We spend time together all the time. You're just being possessive.
human
Possessive? I just want to spend more time with you. Is that so wrong?
gpt
No, it's not wrong, but you can't expect me to drop everything for you every time you want me to.
human
I'm not asking you to drop everything. I just want to feel like spending time together is a priority for you.
gpt
It is a priority, but I also have other important relationships in my life. You should have friends too.
human
I do have friends, but that doesn't mean I want to spend all my time with them instead of you.
gpt
Then let's make a plan to spend more quality time together. But you can't control who I spend time with or make me feel guilty for having friends.
human
I know, and I'm sorry for accusing you of neglecting me. I just feel like we've been drifting apart lately.
gpt
I understand that, and I feel the same way sometimes. Let's work on it together and find a balance that works for both of us.
human
Speaking of finding a balance, have you given any more thought to finding a new job closer to home?
gpt
I have been looking, but it's not easy with the current job market. Plus, I like my job and the people I work with.
human
I know, but the commute takes up so much of your time and makes it harder for us to spend time together.
gpt
I get that, but finding a new job is easier said than done. Can we please discuss something else instead of always talking about my job?
human
Yeah, you're right. Let's talk about planning a weekend getaway. We can spend some quality time together and get away from our busy lives for a bit.
gpt
I love that idea. Let's start looking up some options and make a plan soon.