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The husband expresses concern about his wife's frequent use of his things without permission, reminding her of past inappropriate behavior and reminding her of past inappropriate behavior. They agree to keep the conversation open and continue checking in with each other moving forward.
human
Can we talk about something that's been bothering me lately?
gpt
Sure, what's on your mind?
human
It's about how you always take my things without asking. I understand that we're married and all, but it would be nice if you considered how I might feel about it.
gpt
Oh, I'm sorry. I didn't realize it bothered you that much.
human
It's just that I feel like you don't think about me as a person, you just see me as a walking ATM or something.
gpt
That's not true at all! I just thought that since we're married, it wouldn't be a big deal if I used your things sometimes.
human
I understand that, but I still think it's important to ask for permission first. It's just a matter of respect.
gpt
Okay, I'll make sure to ask from now on. Is there anything else that's been bothering you?
human
Well, it does remind me of that time when I asked you not to invite your friends over without asking me first.
gpt
Oh, I remember that. I'm sorry about that too. I'll try to be more considerate of your feelings from now on.
human
Thank you, I really appreciate it. It's important that we both feel respected and valued in our relationship.
gpt
I couldn't agree more. Let's make sure to keep this conversation open and continue checking in with each other moving forward.