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The husband avoids confrontations because he doesn't like conflict and prefers to reason calmly. The wife expresses frustration with him for not listening to her husband's concerns about dress and communication, but the husband suggests finding a solution together.
human
I just don't like conflict. That's why I try to avoid confrontations with you.
gpt
But sometimes it's important to confront each other when there's a problem.
human
I know, but I always try to reason with you and explain things calmly instead of getting into a fight.
gpt
I understand that, but sometimes it feels like you're not really listening to me.
human
I am listening to you, I just don't want to argue. Remember when we talked about how I dress? I just want to look good and feel confident, but I'm not doing it to make you upset.
gpt
I know that, but sometimes it feels like you care more about what you're wearing than how we're communicating.
human
That's not true. I just don't want to fight unnecessarily. I want to find a solution to our issues without hurting each other.
gpt
I want that too. Maybe we can find a way to communicate better without feeling like we're attacking each other.
human
That's a good idea. Let's work on that together.