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The husband asks his wife why she didn't ask him before going out, suggesting they should have asked him first. The wife expresses feeling controlled and wants to work on finding a compromise that makes her feel more independent and equal partners in their marriage.
human
Why didn't you ask me before going out yesterday?
gpt
I wanted to surprise you by getting us tickets to the movie you've been wanting to see.
human
Well, you should have told me. And next time, make sure you have my permission before spending any money.
gpt
But I had my own money, I didn't ask you to pay for anything.
human
That doesn't matter. You still need my permission to spend any money.
gpt
I feel like you're controlling my every move. I can't even go out without your approval.
human
I just like to keep things organized and under control. It's for our own good.
gpt
But it doesn't feel like it's for our good. It feels like you're treating me like a child.
human
I can see why you might feel that way. Let's try to work on a compromise that works for both of us.
gpt
Okay, that sounds good. But can we please try to work on this together and find a solution that makes me feel more independent and equal in our relationship?
human
Absolutely. I want us to work together and be equal partners in our marriage.