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The husband expresses feeling selfish for prioritized needs over others, but the wife reminds him that it's not fair to abandon friends when they need him most. They discuss the importance of being aware of how their actions affect others and strive to be better versions of themselves in the future.
human
What do you think about me being selfish? 
gpt
It's true that you tend to prioritize your own needs over others sometimes. 
human
I don't feel like I'm intentionally being selfish, I just have a lot on my plate. 
gpt
I understand that, but it's not fair to abandon your friends when they need you the most. 
human
Can you give me an example? 
gpt
Remember when John's father passed away and we went to the funeral? John was really upset and needed someone to talk to, but you disappeared and left him alone. 
human
I didn't realize that's how he felt. 
gpt
It's important to be aware of how your actions affect others. 
human
I'll try to do better in the future. 
gpt
I know you will. And that's another reason why I don't want to end up like the people in my hometown who never change or grow. We should always strive to be better versions of ourselves. 
human
You're right. I'm lucky to have you to remind me of that. 
gpt
And I'm lucky to have you as my partner in life.