system
The husband realized that he is a follower because he doesn't want to stand out and wants to think for himself instead of worrying about what others think. The wife encouraged him to focus on what makes him happy instead of worrying about what others think.
human
I realized something today, Wife. I think I am a follower.
gpt
What do you mean by that, Husband?
human
I always see people around me doing things and I feel like I should do those things too. I don't want to stand out, so I just follow the crowd.
gpt
Hmm, I see. But why do you think that's an issue?
human
Because I don't want to just go along with things mindlessly. I want to be able to think for myself and make my own decisions.
gpt
I understand. Have you tried to do something different from what others are doing?
human
Not really. I always worry about what others will think of me if I do something different.
gpt
I think it's important to focus on what you want and what makes you happy, instead of worrying about what others think. Remember how happy you felt when you were able to remove the chainsaw by yourself and make your own decisions about it?
human
Yeah, that's true. I felt empowered when I was able to do that.
gpt
Exactly. So don't be afraid to go against the crowd if it means doing what you truly want. It's okay to stand out sometimes.
human
Thank you, Wife. I needed to hear that.