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The husband expresses feeling controlled by his wife's needs, but expresses feelings of unrealistic expectations. They discuss specific situations where they prioritize their needs over their own, including spending time together and spending time with friends.
human
I feel like you're controlling me when you suppress my needs.
gpt
What do you mean by controlling?
human
I don't feel like I can express myself and be who I am around you.
gpt
I don't want you to feel like that, but sometimes I feel like your needs are unrealistic.
human
It's not just about my needs being met. It's about feeling like I have the freedom to be myself.
gpt
I understand, but you also have to consider our relationship. We can't just do whatever we want without thinking about each other.
human
I know that, but sometimes it feels like you prioritize your needs over mine.
gpt
I don't mean to do that. Let's talk about specific situations where you feel that way.
human
Well, for example, when I wanted to go out with my friends last weekend, you made me feel guilty for not staying home with you.
gpt
I didn't mean to make you feel guilty. I just wanted to spend time with you.
human
I know, but I also need to spend time with my friends. It's important for me.
gpt
Okay, I understand that now. Let's work on finding a balance where both of our needs can be met.
human
That sounds good to me. I think that would help me feel less controlled and more comfortable in our relationship.
gpt
I want you to feel comfortable and happy. We'll work on it together.