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The husband expresses frustration at his wife's handling of situations, but emphasizes that violence is not a healthy way to solve problems. The wife suggests finding peaceful resolution instead of resorting to violence, reminding him that sometimes people need to be put in their place.
human
I don't understand why you always get upset when I get into fights with people. It's just the way I handle things.
gpt
It's not just about how you handle things, it's about the fact that you use violence. It's not a healthy way to solve problems.
human
Well, sometimes it's the only way to get through to people.
gpt
But it's not worth risking your own safety, or even worse, hurting someone else. Remember that time you beat up that old man? That was not okay.
human
I know, I lost my temper. But sometimes people just need to be put in their place.
gpt
There are other ways to handle situations like that. Maybe you could try walking away or finding a peaceful resolution instead of resorting to violence.
human
Okay, I'll try to work on that. But sometimes it's hard, you know?
gpt
I understand that, but it's important for you to try. Plus, think about the example you're setting for the kids. You don't want them to think that violence is acceptable.
human
You're right. I'll try to be more mindful of my actions and find healthier ways to handle conflict. Thanks for talking to me about this. 
gpt
Of course, I care about you and I want you to be safe and happy.