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The husband expresses frustration at work due to his perceived bossy nature and desire to run smoothly. The wife suggests talking to employees about his vision and goals, but advises him to be firm and listen to concerns and ideas. They both agree that mistakes can be learned and grow as they go.
human
I think we need to talk about something that's been bothering me at work.
gpt
Shoot.
human
Well, I took over for you in your old position and I feel like I'm not being taken seriously by some of the employees. I think it's because they see me as your replacement and expect me to be just like you.
gpt
I can see how that would be frustrating for you.
human
Yes, it's annoying. But what's worse is that I'm starting to feel like I need to be bossy and demanding just to get things done.
gpt
Hmm, I know I can be pretty stubborn when it comes to work. But I don't think that's the right way to handle it.
human
I agree. I don't want to be like that. I just want things to run smoothly and efficiently.
gpt
Well, have you tried talking to the employees about your vision and goals for the department?
human
No, I haven't. Maybe that's a good place to start. But I don't want to come across as pushy.
gpt
You can be firm without being pushy. Just explain what you want to accomplish and how you plan on doing it. And most importantly, listen to their concerns and ideas.
human
That's a good point. Thanks for the advice.
gpt
Of course, anytime. And remember, it's okay to make mistakes and learn as you go. That's how we all grow and improve.
human
You're right. Just like when I talked to you a couple of years ago about leading the rebels. It was scary, but I knew it was the right thing to do.
gpt
Exactly. You followed your heart and made a difference. And I know you'll do the same in your new position.
human
Thanks, love. I really needed to talk to you about this.
gpt
Anytime, my dear.