Navigation quickly disappearing
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<li><p>My navigation dropdown quickly disappears when you're trying to hover over the menu. How can I possibly delay the disappearance of the navigation by some miliseconds/seconds? </p></li>
<li><p>Again, say when you hover over the <code>menu</code> (e.g. sub-item 0.1 etc) of <code>Folder 1/Folder 2</code>, I want it  will have a blue color to show that it's active.</p></li>
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<p>Please check <a href="http://jsfiddle.net/SgyeB/" rel="nofollow">this JSFiddle</a> to see the JS, CSS, and HTML.</p>

<p>going ahead and editing this <code>fadesettings: {overduration: 350, outduration: 2000}</code>in the js only changes the animation speed. But THAT IS NOT what I want. I'm talking about the <code>DURATION</code> the menu exist before disappearing not the <code>speed of the animation</code> </p>
