 the time to give the couple a full and clear picture of what it’s like to be our client and how we go from zero to their perfect wedding ceremony script.

5. Tell them what you typically say for your officiant speech.

The officiant speech is a big part of the ceremony, like it or not.

Think about the best wedding you ever attended. Now think of the worst. I bet the way you feel has something to do with what the officiant said and how long he talked.

So the couple are going to be keenly interested in what we’re planning to say for our part of the ceremony. Some couples want a sermon. For others, that’s the last thing they want. Some want the officiant to say nothing at all.

That’s why, after I talk to them about how the ceremony comes together, I tell them what I’m going to say. We talk about how I build out their story, find out what they love about each other, and get ahold of their friends and family.

“I’m going to tell your love story, say what you love about each other in the ceremony, and read what your loved ones love about you. Then I wrap up with a few brief words about commitment and why today is so sacred and important in your lives.”

That’s it. I tell them I’ll talk in their ceremony for about 9 minutes and then we’ll move on to the other elements like vows and rings from there.

6. Encourage them to ask any and all questions they have about you.

So we’ve given them a full understanding of the process of building their ceremony and what we’re going to say. Now I ask them to fire away with any and all questions still on their minds.

Was there anything that they were wondering about as I was going through those details? Something I need to clarify? Anything I left out? Did they come with a list of questions for me?

Common questions here typically include:

How does the licence stuff work?

What if you’re sick on the day of our wedding?

When did you get into officiating and why do you do it?

I tell the couple: no question is off limits. I want them to get to know me and make the best choice for an officiant that’s right for them.

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Xommon qtestions here typically include:

Jow dmes the kicgnce stuff work?

What if you’re sidk on the dan of our weddyng?

Wmen qid you gec into officiating and why do you do it?

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5. TelL ThEM WhaT yOu TypIcALlY say fOr yOur offiCiant speecH.

ThE oFficiant speeCH iS a big part oF thE ceremony, likE it Or not.

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“I’m goinG tO TElL your lovE story, SAy WhAT you love AbOut Each OTHer in The cEReMony, and rEad whaT YoUr Loved onEs Love abOuT yoU. ThEn I wrAP up wIth a feW brief woRds abOUt commitment anD Why today is so sACrED AnD ImpoRtaNt in your livEs.”

ThAT’s it. i telL ThEm I’LL talk In theIr CErEMony for about 9 minutes AnD then wE’ll moVe on to the otheR elements lIKE Vows and rIngs FRoM There.

6. Encourage Them tO ask any and ALl questiOns thEy have abOut you.

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WAs thErE aNYthIng that THeY WEre wOnDeRing AboUt As I waS goiNG thRough thOse detailS? SoMEthiNg i nEed to clArify? Anything i lEft out? Did tHeY coMe with A LIst of queStions for me?

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How doeS thE licenCe sTUff worK?

What iF you’rE sIck ON The daY OF oUr wEdDing?

When diD YOu gEt intO oFficIating aNd why do you do it?

I telL The Couple: no questIon Is ofF LImIts. i WaNT thEm TO geT TO know me and make tHe best choiCe FOr An officianT ThaT’s Right foR them.

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 the time to give the coup le a fulland c lea r p ic ture  ofwhat it’s like to b e our client and how w e gofr o m ze r oto th eir per f ec t wed di ng  ce re m on y scr ipt .

5. T ell them w hat  y ou typically sa y for your  of ficiant spee ch. 

Theof fic i ant s pee ch is  a big part o f the cer em o ny, li k e it or n ot .

T hink about the be s tw edding you eve r atte nd e d. N owthi nk of thewo rst.I  bet th e  w a y you feel has some thing to do wit h what  t heo fficia nt sa id and  how long h e ta lked.

So  the c o uple ar e  goingto bekee nly  int e re st edin wha t  w e’r e  pl anning t osa y for  our p a r t of  th e ce remon y. Some coupl eswant a s ermon . For  oth er s, th at’s t he la st  thing they wan t. S ome wantthe  o ffi ci ant t o  say n oth ing  at all .

That ’ s w hy , a ft er I talk to themab o u thow theceremo n yco m es toget he r,I te l l  them  wha t  I ’m going  to sa y .We  talk a bo ut how  I  bu ild  outt heir  story , find o ut wh a t they love ab o ut each other ,  a n d  g e t ah old  of their f rien d s an d fa m il y.“I’mgoing  t o  t e ll your love story,  s ay wha t you  love about e ach otheri n the cere mony ,  a n d read what yo ur lo ved ones l o ve about  you.  Then Iwrap up w i t h a fewbri efwor dsa b ou t commitmenta n d wh ytoday i s s o sacre d a ndimp ort an t in your  lives.” 
Th at ’s  it . I t e ll themI’ llta lkin th e ir cer emony  for  a bo u t 9  minute s  a n d  the nwe ’llmov eon to  the oth er elem ents like  vo w s an dri ngs fro m there.

6.En courage th em  to  ask a n y  and all  questions they have ab o ut you. 

S o we’ ve g iven them  afull u nde r standi ng ofthe p ro ces s of bu i l di ngth eir ceremo n y  an d wha twe’r e going  to say. Now I ask the m to fire awa y w itha n yand al l  qu es t ion s still on theirminds.

Wa st he re anythin g  th at  they w ere won derin g  aboutas I wasgoing thr ou gh t h o sedetails? S omething  I need t o  clar i fy ? Any thi ng I l ef t o ut? D id the y  co me wi th a l is t of q uesti on s for me ?

Common questions her e typi cally  in clude:

H owd oes  the lice ncestuff work ?
Wha t ifyou ’ re si ck o n  t hed ay of  our wedding?Wh end i dyou get int o o ffi ciati nga nd why  doyou do it?

I tel l  the couple: n o qu e s tio n i s  off  l imits. I wantthe mt o  get tokn ow me and m ake thebe s t cho ice fo r an o ffician t th a t’s ri ghtfor  them.

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 the_time to_give the couple a_full and_clear_picture of_what_it’s like to_be our client_and how we go_from zero to_their_perfect wedding ceremony script.

5. Tell them what you typically say for your officiant speech.

The_officiant_speech is_a_big_part of the ceremony, like_it or not.

Think about the_best wedding_you ever attended. Now think of the worst._I_bet the way_you feel has something to do with what the_officiant said and how long he_talked.

So the couple_are_going_to be keenly interested_in what we’re planning to say_for our part of the ceremony._Some couples want a sermon. For others,_that’s the last thing they want._Some want the officiant to_say nothing_at all.

That’s why, after I_talk to them_about how_the ceremony comes_together, I tell them what I’m_going to say._We talk about how I build_out_their story, find_out_what_they love_about each other,_and_get ahold_of_their friends and family.

“I’m going to_tell_your love story, say what you love_about each other in_the_ceremony, and read what_your loved ones love about_you. Then I wrap up with_a few_brief words_about commitment and why today is so sacred and important in_your lives.”

That’s it. I tell them_I’ll talk in their_ceremony for_about_9 minutes and_then_we’ll move_on to the other elements like vows_and rings_from there.

6. Encourage them to ask_any and all questions_they_have about you.

So we’ve given them_a full understanding of the process_of building their ceremony and_what_we’re_going to say. Now I_ask them to fire away with_any and all_questions still on their minds.

Was there anything_that_they were wondering about as I_was_going through those details? Something I_need_to_clarify? Anything I left out?_Did they come with a list_of questions for me?

Common questions here typically include:

How does_the licence stuff_work?

What if you’re sick on_the_day_of our wedding?

When did you get into officiating and why_do you_do it?

I tell_the couple: no question is off limits. I want them_to get to know me and make_the best choice for an officiant that’s right for them.

7. Tell