this hits way too hard especially when you think you complete something but youre one step short and it just isnt enough  this happened the other day where i actually  remembered to tidy up a bit and i put some items in a pull out bin  from under a table it didnt occur to me to push it fully back under and while my boyfriend was grateful for the tidying up even he mentioned it was just one step short  from his and everyone else point of view it looks like i dont care enough about the task when in reality it didnt even occur to me there was another step