hello fellow op well i wanted to say you brothers girfriend is really nice and actually im in this very same situation but it got way better because my girl weve been together for 6 months now was confused with my add before and couldnt tell when i was drifting or if i was mad at her because i was not here but in less than 2 months she adapted herself to my chemical imbalance just like i did for her type 1 diabete since add makes you restless i dont mind getting awake in the middle of the night to take her blood sugar level and thing is my parents were like oh but just try harder parents but since last year when i explained them how it feels to be in my head for one day my dad fell off his chair i was dead laughing when it happened and they really understood me better and made it easier for me when im drifting