omfg adhd is the culprit for this i always just thought i was a bad family member i love seeing my family and i am always supper happy when i am there then i dont hear from them for a few months because i forget they exist until they call me again   note to self write down family members names on a paper so i remember they exist and can call the ones i havent seen in a while other note to self make a note on calendar to remind me when to call relatives