what the heck this is too relatable so i very often suspect that i’m a narcissist without even realizing it and when i’m being emotional or venting or talking about my problems i doubt myself and think that i’m only doing it to manipulate my partner or my friend or whoever i’m talking to i asked my partner if that’s true and he said no but part of me feels like i manipulated him into feeling like he can’t actually talk to me about my narcissism i mean no one has ever told me i was narcissistic or even selfish or manipulative or anything but i still feel like a selfish narcissistic bad person is this a common type of thing to deal with for people with ocd my symptoms i thought were really only focused around my intrusive imagery problems