im in a similar boat i constantly get yelled at or passive aggressively talked to by my mother for all my life and i am getting tired of it she constantly thinks all the stress is on her although she works maybe a 10 weeks through a year my sister and her bf only works no more than 3 days a week while their money goes towards weed and going out to eat leaving me work 5pm-4am nightshift 5 days and hardly making enough to pay bills and eat if i miss one she gets all pissy even if i had takin paid time off and my job isnt even essential i build furniture  sorry for going on a rant i know how it feels and especially being almost 30 my self just want to get away from my family and coworkers for a while would be nice