this i wasnt diagnosed with adhd inattentive until i was 23 my parents didnt think i had it because my brother had it and he was on the hyperactive side they just always thought i was depressed anxious and quirky and it made my relationship with my entire family so strained because that wasnt right  it wasnt until my roommate started talking about how she was going to see if she had adhd that i finally looked into it it was insane how much i found out and how many answers about my own life were answered that day   i still become emotional about the amount of things i had to cope with alone and how insecure i became because i just thought i was stupid