omg yes  ive been trying to find the words to express this dilemma  one trick is to also schedule something nicer around it  and not as a reward   ohhh hey ill be at the post office so im gonna stop at the dollar store and maybe get chipolte for lunch whooo lets do this   go to the dollar store and some other thing first  its paralyzing to make the funner parts of the outing dependant on the hard part