fuck the invalidating comments you are experiencing something awesome and i hope it lasts forever you were brave to come here looking for support and i believe that those who try to undermine your joy even if coming from an understandable place of frustration themselves are demonstrating a selfish inability to hold space   ive had a break like this before that only lasted a few hours doesnt mean i cant be happy for you or am gonna get anything out of telling you this shit is not gonna last smh at people everyones different i believe in validating others experiences and choosing to believe something different is possible for all of us who want it go you