life has its burdensand im not going to be one of those people that dumps it on somebody else  i agree but i think its very very important that everyone knows that its ok to ask for help without my girlfriend i would be a much bigger mess than i am sometimes you need someone to get you through those hard times reassure you everything is ok and assist you with your illness   i think we should all understand this isnt dumpling it on someone else but there are ways of doing it that can be