yup i always ruled out adhd as what was wrong with me i was never the loud kid in class and did well in school i just didnt study or do homework so i was always a bc student    just never felt like i could hit my potential    honestly just knowing is making a huge positive difference in my life  being open and honest with my wife and co-workers is also making a huge difference in my life  highly recommend and if they dont support you its your sign that youre just not where you belong yet