my partner has been arguing that i dont have adhd for years and whenever i bring it up she says thats not adhd thats just your personality  then a couple of weeks ago i found a self assessment for executive dysfunction and read her the symptoms and she immediately said yes that sounds exactly like you you clearly have that not adhd as if theyre not the same god damn thing  adding the compulsory h annoyed me too because im not hyperactive in the noticeable sense but my attention span is trash