i think it doesnt work because most of us already try everything  pointing out to be an adult is then basicly an accusation of not taking responsibility which is wrong if an person is already trying hard   i can understand why people think we dont really try  i do think its because they think they know that the problem is a lack of will which might be often the problem but thats basicly the reason why i hate generalizations it really sucks if you have an executive funktioning disorder