i love you sweetie i could only laugh when i read your post anything else would have been too painful if only it were that easy right and  gosh why didn’t i think of that thank you dad mom teacher er physician…did i leave anyone out i’m sorry you had to experience what your dad said to you and i admire you for seeing the dark humor of it you are going to be ok and do great thingsin your eyes you can see the absurd humor that threads through life and that’s a gift take good care