yes it’s so weird this and many other things but yes totally i do my best to not say anything about it when i have a new friend because there is always that turning point where it’s mentioned even with people who exhibit obvious traits themselves that one was really fascinating for me   couple of them seem like they know and either become patronizing or defensive or both one person who kept loudly talking at me whilst i was trying to troubleshoot her computer started going off about how she can “do do something while someone is asking questions hahaha why can’t you” i’m just   next type is constantly asking “oh is this annoying to youoh is this distracting to you” this last one i was surprised by because he is a good friend and we usually get along pretty well he constantly interrupts me which i have compassion for instead of getting flustered or angry i just calmly ask if i can finish my point or in some cases wait for him to stop blurting out wrong answersassumptions but it’s gotten really weird lately like every interaction he treats me like i’m disabled or something