my mom is that type of advice giver too and she doesnt understand that i cant even keep a planner going because of my adhd  best part is when i tried to really have an in depht conversation about it with her the other day and all she got from it was oh  maybe i have it to because that sounds like me lol   no you keep your little happy planners that youre so proud of you have a routine where you even check all your social media without a fault in the same order every day and then you sit on your ass do none of the chores because you dont feel like it and play mobile games instead in which you meticulously do all the side quests and tasks then you go to the store at the same hour every day to buy all your things without needing a list because you just remember and youre capable of focusing on a task you have to do and just do it and youve already proven many times that you never experience sensory overload and dont even understand it infact according to you its not even real and im just unapproachable and aggressive  you dont have adhd youre just a lazy woman with a bad case of if it sounds quirky to me i have it otherwise it doesnt exist  ps im angry and tired of her shit