whenever my brother misplaced anything he comes ask me for help  my things are a mess like the only unblocked part of my bedroom floor is a path from the door to my bed my desk doesnt have any inches of visible surface and my presence seems to attract chaos  but because of that i know where things often end up when theyre lost have you checked the clothes you were wearing what were you doing have you checked inside the car  unfortunately that skillset came after a lifetime of losing things that were valuable to me and being dismissed as being dramatic for being upset at losing them without getting offered help  i still dont forget that time the hat i wore everyday for more than 8 years fell behind the couch because someone sat where they shouldnt and no one helped me look for it