i dont know how people do so many things and have so many stories  i feel these same thoughts i would definitely word it the same way but im not sure if we mean the same thing  do you mean you cant keep track of many plans for things too far in the future so your social life suffers   or you cant believe peoples ability to retain memories of their crazy times  i am only beginning to look into adult adhd because i definitely experience a lot of the common symptoms but i notice that i typically have a good memory i know some people experience forgetfulness but this is the one symptom i dont experience