this is an awesome an inspiring story but i need to make an off topic comment  i absolutely love the way you formatted this post i read the title and was interested but then opened it and saw a wall of text thus my brain just noped out until i read your note on top so i glanced through reading the titles then reading the bolded sentences once i got through those bits i was invested interested and very curious so i read the entire post though in a non-standard order and frankly am quite pleased with myself  thank you op for taking the time to write this for writing it well and for your beautiful formatting i hope your wonderful nannyhousekeepier helps you achieve exactly what youve set out for and more