i suppose ill get downvoted for this but ive got to ask why didnt you just jump in and finish the dishes   so far weve got your girlfriend giving you a taste of her tea getting you coffee and donuts while you go for a run organizing in the kitchen tea shelf cleaning the cat box emptying the dishwasher and now youre here getting karma off her dx   maybe im missing something but i thought the punchline would be something like after she unloaded the dishwasher i jumped in to finish up she brought me coffee and donuts after all