live in a house with 2 adults spouse and myself and our child who also has adhd im in my 40s and just started medication after a long battle to get it   it has been really beneficial  doesnt fix everything but has helped more than anything else with the anxiety i can actually get up and do things im no longer frozen by indecision   however im in the us and insurance will not cover meds for people over 18 its super frustrating we definitely need more support for adults with this disability