oh man i never thought about it like that but it makes so much sense i used to get into a lot of trouble with my friends because it was excruciating to do group work with me i would always wait until the last minute to get my part of the project done and by that point someone else would have noticed and would just do it for me i understood why they were angry but i could never quite articulate why i was angry as well because i meant to do it it felt like they were angry for something i never intended to but i could never quite explain why and im sure from their perspective it just looked like i was waiting for someone else to give in and do my work  hah actually when i think about it adhd explains a lot of why i was always terrible at group work nearly destroyed a lot of my relationships because everyone assumed i was a slacker when i actually spent three days trying to make myself do the work until i finally went online the night it was due and saw that someone else did it already