sooooo me now in my 30s ive hashed this out in most areas of my life but dating is um a problem when youre convinced youre an inherently broken person when my self-esteem is low i attract assholes when im feeling more confident i attract people who are neck-deep in their own issues looking for someone to fix them im secretly a bit envious of anyone with adhd or self-esteem issues who somehow have tripped into happy marriages