i don’t often comment here because i don’t have adhd i just identify w a lot of the struggles posted and get ideas and comfort out of many of the threads this one got me though i am often told i am exhausting to be around and i think this is one of the main reasons i can go to someone’s house or car and i simply start cleaning like mad i’ve turned it into a hobby that friends have come to be more or less appreciative of but i call it “minding their business” as a sort of lighthearted joke about how busy i prefer to get in other’s company i also call it the audience effect where when someone is coming over i am suddenly inspired to make my house spotless and couldn’t have found the motivation otherwise i’m just chiming in i guess because it has become such a big part of my life i totally get where you are coming from and i do it too