make yourself rules works like a charm eg dishes must be done before _______ can’t have more then two hampers of clothes before doing laundry  for me buying food with directions or following recipes helps me actually make suppers  go to the dollar store and get some cheap containers and bins if you can afford to everything gets a bin and everything has to go into its bin  most of all embrace the mess it will never end you will always be doing laundry and dishes for the rest of your life  we are the problem solvers we make things efficient we are thanos