well not acknowledging that disability exists and acting like autismadhd is a super power is also just internalized ableism because not acknowledging the negative emotional effects of ableism in education in how things are designed gestures broadly at capitalism only furthers it      acknowledging that some things are just inherently harder for people with disabilities is part of deconstructing ableism to make life less fucking hard      i personally support neurodiversity and believe in equity vs equality you can google that if you need to  i believe someone can be disabled and neurodiverse because some parts of adhd are good or would be good in a world structured for us and some parts of adhd are just inherently bad      seeing everything as bad is internalized ableism seeing everything as good is also ableist because it doesnt acknowledge our struggles that doesnt mean our lives are absolutely terrible or we need a cure it is what it is diversity between people some things are just harder so we need some help and thats ok