yeah thats what i appreciate about this sub as well i understand there are people who disagree with the rules but i think the mods are doing a really great job at managing a very difficult thing  the thing is adhd really sucks for most of us that doesnt mean we cant do awesome things that doesnt mean we are destined to a life of failure and frustration but a lot of us are intimately familiar with failure and frustration and a lot of it is caused by adhd   its so nice to have a place where it is safe to express that to rant about our asshole brains and to just scream into the void if it gets too much without getting toxic positivity victim blaming and platitudes in return