doesnt everybody do the dishes like that i do everything like that have been for 40 years one difference is that now i dont beat myself up over it i even run my successful business like that i am fortunate that my skills allow me to make a good living in under 20 hours a week a sensible approach would be two ten hour days and five days off but i work maybe a hour at a time here and there so i am working almost every day and i get the donuts because thats how it is i now love my life shouldnt have waited so long by the way i married a woman mildly autistic and very ocd we embrace who each of us truly is no promises to reform or try harder our life slogan is it just is our license plate reminds us just iz