my husband and i alway say that we need an “alice” from the brady bunch we both have adhd  so do our 2 boys who bounce around like ping pong balls in the evening leaving trails of disaster although they’re getting a little better   i’m 46 and i teach 6 year olds i need an assistant there too my grandmother was a teacher and somehow managed to have a maid would be amazing   but we did just hire a professional organizer who came in  conquered our out of control basement  “office” aka- junk room so amazing then we had the house deep cleaned also amazing both pricey but needed   it’s just all so much sometimes doesn’t help that dinner is usually 2-3 different meals for various reasons   op- so happy for you thank for sharing your life-improving move