so what is the best way to work with someone who has adhd and help them accomplish important goals ex   filing taxes my 28f fiancé 31m is a contracted worker so getting taxes done is important  getting on his own insurance parents still pay getting on his own phone plan parents still pay  i’m at a loss on how to approach the situations to encourage him to take action we have a child together and i feel that sometimes a lot gets put on my plate when i already feel like my plate is overfilled   any advice is appreciated thanks  edit for spelling   sorry for layout i’m on mobile