i saw some post that was like “ people who don’t use their blinker literally won’t lift a finger to cooperate” and i thought hold on who tf neglects their blinker on purpose and it occurred to me that maybe the reason why everyone is so mad when i make mistakes or forget things is because if they had done it it would be because they were being uncooperative and antisocial ie they want someone else to do the thing and they don’t understand that is not what’s happening when i neglect things  usually every so often i really do just hope someone else will do it but that’s extremely rare