every time my parents attempted that whether it was a few simple words threatening to take away my phoneother perceived distractions or straight up grounding me it either made me unreasonably angry and determined to be obstinate or just flat out feel like a miserable sack of shit whod never be able to do anything right   once i got home from my first driving lesson which i had been stressing over to the point of hair loss for weeks to find my entire room cleared my laptop books and sketchbook gone and a note saying that because i had forgotten to clean up to my moms standards the day before i could no longer have any electronics or go anywhere for the next two weeks i wasnt even allowed to go outside and jump on the trampoline with my neighbor worst two weeks of my life and certainly only motivated me to cry and punch my door not get to cleanin