i’m a 51 f and recently started to suspect adhd because my daughter was diagnosed and i feel exactly this constantly scrambling to keep up getting things done high performing but not trusted by my peers because i seem flaky and inconsistent beating myself up about it extreme bouts of productivity but then becoming extremely overwhelmed to the point i cannot think or function like all the info in my brain has literally clogged feeling like a fraud wondering what’s wrong with me pummeling my own self esteem to the ground