i met my boyfriend on tinder and he turned out to be the best person i could ever be with hes incredibly patient it takes a lot to have him get annoyed with my ocd triggers and me asking him to wash his hands he knows certain things bother me ie taps and doorknobs and remembers them sometimes being one step ahead of me he also helps me get over triggers when he is upset all my triggers disappear and all i can focus on is making sure hes okay ive gotten hate from his two sisters one made fun of me for my ocd and the other wasnt happy because i had to leave a family event and didnt say bye to anyone it took a lot for me to even just get there i freaked out about it for weeks he was by my side for everything and told his sisters off his dad did too theres some days where i cant even believe i even found someone like him i got so fucking lucky i hope that everyone out there with ocd and any mental illness finds their person who will love them no matter how much interference their mental health causes i can promise you there is someone out there who will love you theyll find their way to you