lmfao this is me and my spouse working at home my hyperactivity usually results in talking when he comes home hes overstimulated and i used to just talk and talk and talk because i havent seen anyone all day and i miss him my medications are also mostly worn off by the end of the day so the hyperactivity really kicks in then my rsd kicks in when he rejects my talking his rsd kicks in when im upset   good thing is we found a therapist who specializes in adhd and it was so helpful im really sad to find out some couples cant work through these executive function problems and end up breaking up  now he has like an hour or so to unwind without me talking and he comes to me when he is ready