i dont mind the jokes as long   a theyre actually jokes and not just using the word as a synonym like you said  and b they know that theyre not being literal and know what ocd actually does  i actually didnt think i had ocd until recently because my whole life if i brought it up the response i got is   youre not clean enough to have ocd   people literally think that the disorder just makes you clean everything   most people dont even realize how far it can go  i didnt even know what the word intrusive thoughts meant until i met a friend in an rtc   i dont mind jokes as long as people realize that its not reality