yep get this all the time when me and my wife argue i just sit there and stare at her trying to calculate the appropriate response she always says why arent you saying anything and just staring at me when you brought this up what she doesnt realise is that im going through 100 different responses trying to work out how she will respond to them if it will be taken the wrong way does it make sense will it hurt her feelings etc its a nightmare lol its weird because im brilliant at reading people and their emotions maybe thats why i struggle because im thinking into it all way too much