i literally just had to cut some of my family out of my life for this reason a couple weeks ago at some point it started to become abusive because they couldn’t understand why their “advice” never got through i was becoming borderline suicidal because they made me feel even more broken and irreparable than i do without their help their response was that i needed to “get over it” and “everybody has problems”  whelp they’re no longer one of my problems anymore