thank you for sharing maybe its the hypersensitivity but my eyes appear to be wet  so sorry for your loss i know time will not bring them back but i hope it is kind to you with happy memories of them  im 34 and only just beginning to understand that i have adhd and its exhausting ive been unknowingly masking so long and so hard to fit in that trying to unmask is tiring and anxiety inducing im so lucky to have this community here and on twitter as well as my amazingly supportive wife to put up with me and help my understand my own brain  thank you for your amazing way with words and clearly a kind soul