same had a rent-a-mom for years and a personal assistant  one handled all the house chores and shopping other handled all the bills and reservations and calendar  life was grand  i could operate freely and let my add creative brain do its thing and made some obscene money  then i got married and my new wife didnt get it bullied me into firing everyone  house was a mess id just overpay all the bills by huge amounts so theyd stop showing up for like a year or two at a time and i was always disorganized and ended up seeing my income drop by about 450k usd in the span of a year because she couldnt accept that i needed the assist to operate at full capacity  sooo now im freshly divorced and rebuilding