months try years a decade or more lol i had a friend in high schoolshortly after high school who in retrospect didnt respect me and didnt care for my company i cant remember how muchif they initiated getting together and hanging out but i can remember some instances where again in retrospect they were trying to get rid of me or talking down to me and my naive younger self just couldnt comprehend someone would act like a friend and then disrespect or try to ditch me there were even times after the fact that i tried to reach out to this person over social media because i had it in my mind that id just flaked out or gotten distracted and that was why we hadnt spoken for a while of course even though they responded they evaded any more actual attempts to remain in contact i got really angry about that not just at the person but at myself for not being able to take a hint or two