i dont know if this is relevant but im also happy with this subs lack of toxic positivity finding the right medication and getting therapy has made me realize how much adhd has been a debilitating condition for me i know how people point out that adhd is linked to creativity but im a creative person even when im medicated the only difference is that im able to properly channel that creatively and actually execute projects from start to finish   since getting my medication down and using my organizational skills im definitely less spontaneous but id trade a calm and orderly life where im actually spending time and energy on things that are meaningful to me rather than trying to chase down my latest dopamine hit