you know what i can honestly say that i dont think im a bad person i think im a badass however im aware that people i get close to need to and i encourage them to set up boundaries for what they are willing to emotionally take on i draw hard lines with them if i feel like they are attempting to solve my problems for me its surprising how many people do this i encourage them to take time away from me if they feel overwhelmed by the force of nature that is my magnificent self i make sure that they know exactly what i need from them and what i will not tolerate from them they also know that i will do anything i can for them they have only to ask and above all else they i make sure they know that my crazy ass loves them