i wish i had found this subreddit long time ago i feel like i have let my add partner down all these years its just sometimes it can be pretty frustrating when things arent moving in a relationship i got so impatient recently and made a timeline with pics d and sent him with dates filing tax getting license and yes im an accountant when he filed tax i sent it back with a check mark haha i thought this would motivate him i dont know sometimes i wish i can stop hurting him struggle is real for non-adhd too