cleaning is really difficult for me my ability seems to keep on top of dishes at the most laundry tends to pile up until i freak out and cry and do it over one of my weekends its kind of funny and kind of sad but my husband and i would argue about cleaning the house a few times a year because thats how bad it would get  he has ra and adhd-c so i notched it up to a combo of those things when he goes through his dysfunctions and he would get frustrated because the few things i said i would be on top of i never seemed to do more than disheslaundry but cleaning the upstairs in general he had the downstairs  it didnt make sense for either of us why i couldnt stay on top of simple things like that until i got my diagnosis recently