as a child one of my neuro normal stepbrothers left a piece of fruit in his bag which went off  as a result the rule for all siblings was to bring your lunchbox to the kitchen within 30 minutes of getting home the punishment for noncompliance was 6 cuts of the leather belt by the step father  i the only one who ate all his lunch every day and thus couldn’t possibly have had fruit go rotten was the only one to receive this punishment it happened multiple times a week for months until i  started to fight back during beltings and then started going without lunch to avoid the drama entirely which resulted in further punishment  you cannot beat it into an adhd child fucking coward