this is something i struggle with with my daughter shes only 3 but has very strong adhd tendencies and i find myself yelling at her a lot then i feel like all i do is yell at her and i feel bad im trying a different approach with her where i try to acclaim her 3-5 times more than i criticize her one of the areas she is really struggling with is peeing in her pants instead of the toilet so i praise her every time she goes appropriately its not easy for anyone involved but i am trying to remember that she cant help it