i think those people and i was definitely one of them if not worse before i was floored with adhd mdd mood disorder with mania and idk what else my dad told me in my worst mental state “fuck the past and move on” i guess referring to my traumas i responded with “that’s pretty offensive you showing no compassion for anything” he then told me “how about you tell your counselor that your offended all the time and see what she says about that” this is the same dad who told me he didn’t believe in adhd when i was diagnosed in middle school i’ve gone through my whole life untreated and feeling guilty to even bring up the fact i was diagnosed with it i’ve left it in the deep crevices in my mind for my entire life and it’s destroyed my jobs relationships school cleanliness of my space motivation literally everything and i still battle every fucking day with “is it real or is it not” “maybe i’m just fucking lazy” and a whole host of other things daily