i’m totally giving an unpopular opinion here but i feel like a lot of us have the power to decide not to be offended by someone’s off-color joke i mean we do actually have the ability to choose to ignore it right and that’s what beating and coping with ocd is about having control of yourself in every capacity   that said i totally get that’s a lot easier said than done everyone has had their own struggle battle and i’m not dismissing that  but i don’t care if someone without ocd doesn’t have it i think i would be happy that they don’t have to suffer like i did for 30 years before i got help i got help that’s all i really wanted anyway   anyway that’s just my opinion quarantine has so much time for self reflection ive learned that we can stop perpetuating stereotypes and we can choose not to care if we wanted to