honestly i dont think we should get angry at them  theyre not doing this to exploit people like us or because they like to see other suffer for them its a joke because theyre convinced everyone would shrug something like that off because they cant conceive that someone could be hurt by something so irrational  i say this because even i when i see something like this have to struggle to conceive that someone could panick at something like this because to me it was always something i never took seriously even thought i have another equally irrational type of ocd  so if i struggle to get in the shoes of those that suffer for other types of ocd i can imagine that whoever wrote this comment probably doesnt even know what ocd is and never even thought he could upset someone with it  bottom line i think that instead of getting angry at something done without any maliciousness it would be better to explain what ocd is and why his comment was upsetting