after 10 years of marriage my wife and i have a understanding if i get overstimulated i just say “i can’t think right now” this means “i’m overstimulated  about to blow some shit up if you continue to pokeprodtalkask questions” this usually happens when i am doing something that requires full concentration but also happens with any combo of being frustrated hot in an uncomfortable position or in a tight space  i say that we have an understanding now because when we first got married and i was overstimulated i would just ignore her or not answer her and she would push and i would end up exploding in frustration