oof this was beautiful thank you for this   i’m really sorry about your loss unaddressed adhd can be absolutely soul crushing in every avenue of our lives i appreciate your vulnerability with this sub  someone reached out for help on another sub i asked him to look at radhd to see if there was anything that related to him there wasn’t enough to convince him that adhd was the catalyst for his issues however we’ve kept in touch in our pms and we talk all the time i try to coach him through intimacy issues finding value and understanding himself we don’t know each other at all but i feel served when i can be there for him   internet culture has become the wholesale destruction of everything truly valuable in our existence but when we explore the internet to the depths that truly bring us together it reminds me how important we are to one another   you’re super awesome i hope you bring smiles and peace to everyone around you you seem like that’s the energy you give off appreciate ya