“but if you really had it your kitchen would be spotless”  i actually went a long time not realizing i had ocd due to thinking “well what i’m dealing with is pretty special and awful but it must not be ocd cause i never feel the urge to clean anything” someone who claimed to have ocd from being “neat” heard me explain my symptoms once at the time of me not knowing it was ocd and laughed at me for it the irony