this is something that i appreciate my husband for so so much hell find my coffee and just ask if he should reheat it or pour new coffee for my birthday he got me a whiteboard and colorful markers if theres important stuff i have to remember then he puts a couple sticky notes around the house my haphazard brain is treated with love and laughter  however some people have been far less than kind about my forgetfulness and absent-minded schedule sucks for them though because lets face it when were excited and on a roll the adhd is strong and fun as hell and i really think everyone should get to participate in that at least once