don’t know if that helps you but on our very first date my now girlfriend of four years suggested to view my adhd as my superpower when we met i had been struggling a lot and suffered from a constant feeling of worthlessness after a mountain of setbacks in both my personal and professional life i confessed my diagnosis to her to give her a chance to leave the failure i felt i was early since then i always remind myself that i can do things with ease that most of the people around me aren’t equipped to do and openly address that there’s this other area of life that i am not suited for i mean super heroes all have flaws too life’s been really good for me since that change of my mind