do you mind if i ask how you first noticed your autism  or how you were first diagnosed and since you also have adhd did that affect your diagnostic process at all  i don’t mean to pester and if you do not want to discuss it i won’t be offended i’ve just always wondered how much more difficult it is to diagnose autism when it’s paired with adhd since adhd is looked down upon by an older generation as kids who just can’t sit still instead of being seen as the mental disorder it is so color me curious and i’ve also always been a bit nervous to ask the questions about myself honestly