i really think that a huge number of people are undiagnosed i swear at least 40 of my coworkers throughout my life have been either diagnosed or suspected they had adhd i think this plus people overreacting and calling themselves adhd with little basis and general stigma leads to people scoffing at it if i were to say all that at work it would just be a chorus of “bitch me too” with older people it’s “that’s not realeveryones a little adhd”