i have the same problem and it really upsets me i’ve never had any organized space or device in my life when i get a new phone i rarely get to transfer anything because a i don’t have enough storage space to back up the insane volume of data i have and b it’s too much anyway and it will make my new phone unusable i got a new laptop recently and it’s been months and i still haven’t transferred anything except some school stuff because of how overwhelming and intimidating all my files are the only thing i’ve done recently that worked was i just deleted all my bookmarks on all my browsers and just created a few shortcuts for the most important websites also just school stuff mostly i remember being at my friend’s house and she was transferring her pictures from her phone to her laptop something she apparently does regularly and it honestly blew my mind she said she only transfers certain pictures and keeps the most important ones and she and many of my friends have their pictures organized either by date or category or whatever i can’t even fathom it it makes me feel really self conscious