lovely your mother doesnt realize of course that you have to think about other things in order to functionand that unless someone else takes care of those other things for you and that they truly dont need to be tended to as a functioning human you have to strenuously train yourself to be aware of those other thingsand even then you will break training often without even knowing it because your slippery remindery brain will simply not report for work if your other concentrative functions are busy successful hyper-concentration can mean we forget to eat or take a bathroom break or check that our pets need something and you gotta make a phone call at 1000 and that kind of thinggotta love your people but they just dont have a fucken clue someday we will have robot assistants and add will be easier i am sure of it because they will backstop us