knowing that these were also symptoms of adhd is honestly how it finally clued me into the fact i had adhd in my mid-20s   i was loud and talkative and hyper focused a lot as a kid but especially because i was a girl but also because i spent just as much time in the corner quietly day dreaming i’ve been told my whole life i have my head in the clouds and aren’t disciplined enough to stick with anything no one clued in on the fact i wasn’t nt