my boyfriend us a gem he is understanding and carrying he goes to all of my psychiatrist and psychologist appointments and was there with my mother the day i got diagnosed with ocd hes been there since day one the problem his mother she is a bitch im sorry but theres no other way to say it she is always talking about my weird obsessions how miserable her grandchildren would be with a mother who has ocd and that she would die if one of her grandchildren are born with my terrible condition among many other comments it really sucks but he always defends me and supports me and that all that matters to me