i was at the hairdressers once and the hairdresser was talking to my mum aboht cleaning i suspect and she said ‘i’m not one of those ocd people but’ and mum couldn’t be bothered to argue so said ‘i’m not either’ and i whipped my head around thankfully not while my hair was being cat and said ‘mother ocd is not somethign to be used like that’   i was 11 and hadn’t been diagnosed yet but i’d had a suspicion      the hairdresser shrugged and carried on at mums hair