yes its such a relief were all feeling like outsiders in our daily lives so its nice to have a place where we feel accepted  theres something about my attitude that bothers some people not that im particularly negative or pessimistic–im just a little different–but it seems to scare some people because they see a lack of conformity as a threat people keep trying to correct me as if im too stupid to understand how im supposed to behave its all very subtle but it still feels like a put-down nobody does that here i mean it also helps that my gender isnt as obvious as it is in real life but thats more of a reddit thing than a radhd thing