im 29 if someone wouldve told me 10 years ago even 5 years ago about what my life is like now i wouldve laughed them off the face of the planet i have changed so much learned so many things met so many wonderful people i was plagued with anxiety and depression my whole life - my anxiety is nearly gone and depression holds a small presence now even if it wasnt ive learned to love myself the way i am so much can change in just a few years whether its external or internal so hang in there   despite how we feel about it people with adhd are incredibly resilient and determined we are hard working not lazy and we keep going every day despite facing immense challenges we all are uniquely accustomed to overcoming hardships we can do this