i always think too much when im texting msgs to ppl especially ppl who i like a lil or who i might have a chance to go out with many times i overthink my response i try very hard to analyze how the person would think when heshe sees my msg i imagine all kinds of responses before i finally send the msg sometimes it could take me like an hour its driving me crazy omg i dont think its even me talking to them if i have to elaborately plan out every right word to say i just want to be normal or original or whatever but not so fake like this