for me i get this with people really bad because as well as having ocd i am generally a very organised and neat person which is separate from ocd but people know that i am organised and neat and so if i mention ocd or if i tell them i have ocd they just assume it’s about me liking to have things organised like i told my friend about my ocd and she was like ‘oh that’s why your room is so perfectly neat’ and i had to explain about that not being what ocd is