im so sorry you are going through this i wasnt diagnosed until i was 49 and about to lose a job working for an abusive a-hole one day she called me into a conference room to teach me how to perform a procedure in our enterprise software program completely stone-faced with the door closed she told me to read the directions watch her do it and then she watched me try to do it totally rattled i skipped a step and she went full quiet psycho repeatedly asking me why did you do that wrong i just showed you and then watched you do it wrong what is the problem it was awful but not the first time this happened a couple weeks later she stopped by my desk sobbing and crying how bad she felt after she realized what a fucking bitch she was i did nothing to placate her and just said ok  my contract was not renewed and i went on unemployment for a couple months and when finally diagnosed and started medication when i started to look for another job i sat down and thought about focusing on the exact things i am both good at and enjoy the next thing was to re-vamp my approach to interviewing i was taught or adapted to believe that you need to act like you can be whoever they want you to be this time i put all of my faults together and told them 1 i need help with details and deadlines 2 i need to be able to get up and talk to people and cant be isolated from the team anyway its taken me almost 20 years to find a job with people who i work really well with they are even supporting my going back to school with a tuition reimbursement even more reassuring i work at the same university where i had the previous job above  i had a setback this month and working during covid-19 restrictions has been tough but i reached out to my boss just to say im feeling a little off and out of touch and she let me make some adjustments the more i learn about adult adhd the more i able to see my strengths or why certain things that other people think are easy just arent picked up on my radar  interviews go both ways and you should be able to feel you are interviewing your interviewer for a good fit of course only disclose as much as you are comfortable with but there are still places out there that will meet you half way when dealing with adhd in the workplace go easy on yourself and good luck