i had an emotional cheating situation almost 5 years ago my boyfriend knows about it and has moved on from it but recently my ocd has told me that i need to repeat every single detail of the situation to him to ensure that i haven’t lied to him and that he has full understand of who he was with can you imagine being him and re-hearing the time that your partner betrayed your trust he probably thinks i’m trying to rub it in or something sick like that but it’s not it’s my ocd telling me that i have to and i have to right now it’s fucked up not to mention the shame all over again