yeah thats pretty freaking toxic   i think the reason is because there is so much hate in rl  people get triggered safe spaces arent really safe to discus problems its just a sounding board of how awesome people are   we all have real problems and they need to be worked out the more the issues are ignored the more isolated a person is but try telling that to people that only want to wear rose colored glasses at all times you cant they get angry and call you terrible names  its weird to hear a phrase like toxic positivity but it exists and im glad its not here