i just had an idea im going to teach a hand signal ill do it before either of us snap so it doesnt end up looking like the finger or a fist shape-were a no-hittingspanking family   at the moment ive had multiple conversations with my kid about not pushing my buttons after 7 thats when cinderellas ride turns into a bitchy pumpkin  my kid and i both have adhd my poor husband  update kids not interested so i wont be able to let you know if it works oh well