100 agreed about asd i have been diagnosed with it and have just been diagnosed with adhd the toxic positivity about asd is really infuriating all this time thinking about asd made me very angry or depressed and i didnt know why you hit the nail on the head here and gave me an epiphany this was why  x200b  it is now to the point where i dont even bother talking about it anymore or even like thinking about it because ill just get mad i dont tell anyone im asd anymore either unless the conversation will find its way where i could  it doesnt define me