her presence unlocks my paralysis  thats a big thing for me too i can do shit just dont make me do it by myself   i used to have a friend that lived near me who had adhd too it was fantastic because we could body double each other for shitty projects we didnt want to do around each others houses and we would work out together at the gym too because thats the only way i actually would keep my plans to go and no judgment because were both the same way she has since moved away sadly  i would love to figure out a way to start like an adhd support group where i live so i could make friends with other adhd people just to do shitty jobs together like you come over my house this week and help me decorate for my kids birthday and ill come over your place next week to help you organize that closet then when we finish well celebrate by going to get smoothies at the place we both like its a perfect set up plus ill frantically start cleaning my house 30 minutes before you comes over so its not a total reck but then i end up getting so much more cleaning done because youll ended up being a half hour late