my whole life was tough love no going outside after school to meet with friends homework has to be done first get the best grades or we will be disappointed in you this is why it has taken me until i am 24yo to realise i have had adhd my entire life i cant help but be mad at my mom for this sometimes but i have to try and remember that if she hadnt tried i probably would not have a degree right now even if it was a dark time in my life