there are few things that can make me absolutely lose my shit but this is definitely one of them spontaneous combustion really describes how i feel inside when thats going on  my husband is one of those tv-or-music-always-on kind of people whereas im very happy in absolute silence especially if im concentrating on something so there are times when hes trying to talk to me and maybe i just got home from a 45 minute drive after a long day at work and the dogs want my attention and i havent even gotten out of my work clothes yet and the tv is this constant noise in the background want to explode  he also very likely has adhd but it presents a bit differently from mine and he doesnt get overstimulated the same way definitely gets the whole sensitivity to rejection symptom though as do i and i love him to bits and dont want to hurt any feelings so its always a bit of a careful ballet to navigate those situations without any damage