thank you   i can relate with the you dont care enough you dont pay attention to me enough youre not involved enough i heard this continuously during my 3 years of marriage and then she divorced i was devastated this divorce triggered something extraordinary in me it led me to seek adhd help and thanks to medication and psychotherapy i arose from the ashes stronger and amazing  2 months later i became a tv star and she texted me asking for money i didnt even respond because i truly didnt care anymore