this is exactly why i’m not a big fan at all of the whole coddling disguised as empowering bullshit excuse for “mental health activism” lol  like “oh yeah my adhd is totally a “superpower” look at how i can get accommodations at school and still miss the due date of schoolwork or have a higher chance of developing a substance abuse problem or forget that taxes were due until a week later”  “superpower fuck yeah and it comes with a bonus ”  ”emotional regulation difficulties and the same fucking 10 seconds of a random song on repeat in my head for an hour”  and then you have “activists” who’ll encourage this mindset to “empower” but want to baby you too   they can fuck off with their sanctimonious attitudes there’s no “internalized ableism” which is also a contradictory statement in itself because it implies that you’re discriminating yourself for having a disability yet simultaneously you’re supposed to view yourself as not having a disability to counteract that ableism makes no goddamn sense