i had the adhds until i was 48 when i was told by a friend to just try harder i went home and did the trying harder it didnt work at first so i tried harder at trying harder which almost worked but i found i had to really try harder once i really really tried harder i was finally able to try harder at which time i finished every project id ever started and abandoned in my life whilst contacting and mending my relationship with each and every person ive carelessly let slip away meanwhile being perfectly capable on any given day of walking into a room any room with full knowledge of why i went in there and also having immediately learned how to make refer to and remember the location of my to-do list which i only make one of now because again no adhds oh and furthermore i actually do the things on said list instead of watching the clock tick by while playing insipid timesuck tapping games on my mobile phone and internally screaming at myself to move one freakin muscle just one any one to get up and do something that needs to be done in the house rather than watching time streak by with increasing anxiety about what i promised my wife id do and what i actually did which is jack shit   oddly trying harder hasnt improved my proclivity for run-on sentences