hands down   first of all i understand how you feel ive been there before but living with self-pity and anger got really boring im medicated and it helps a lot   howeverdespite being medicated ive discovered how much my identity and the way i relate to the world has nothing to do with my attention span adhd has completely influenced my perception of society  no ammount of treatment will make us happy to plug into the lives of the average person it just wont   we arent lazy we just dont derive the same kind of satisfaction or fulfilment from things like laundry or dishes  really ask yourself what can i do to make things easier for me ive stopped folding my underwear and socks i just stuff them in the drawers because fuck it work smarter not harder you know   also  the systems in place that define much of modern life are just mediocre to adhd people public education was a big flop most jobs youll find without a degree equate to existential death in order to be happy in this life you have to be creative you gotta work in a field youre passionate about and pursue it relentlessly   i truly believe adhd brains cannot compromise on the old school things our parents told us about an honest day of hard work eventually it just gets boring and we quit   if you have the time privilege support etc etc to pursue your passions do it now