the only thing i’ve been able to become really good at is sports because there’s a coach telling me what to do and other people to keep me accountable and on track it takes a community sometimes involving other people helps and it can help kick your ass into shape when there’s a bit of fear of falling behind your peers joining a community that is also participating in what you’re doing can be really great i can’t do anything without other people being involved honestly but that’s okay after using a community to become more rigid and responsible in my sports i’ve just become more conditioned to do well on my own try joining a community of people who are trying to accomplish something similar to you or seek a coach or mentor for whatever you’re trying to do it may help