i just had my first baby and am mostly exclusively pumping my partner takes the night shift and sleeps during the day i do the opposite so i set alarms at night for every 2-3 hours so i can get up to pump theyre loud as hell but nearly half the time i turn them off anyway and go back to sleep only to wake up hours later with engorged and leaky boobs milk stains on the sheets sometimes it looks like several ounces leaked out onto my sheets  it is heartbreaking and so frustrating but im usually too tired to care the next time it happens lmao