i understand your frustration i was only diagnosed a year ago i turn 50 in july and everything made so much more sense during the evaluation on all my behavioral impulses as a kid teen young adult and now old dude my shrink also had adhd and i think that is how she spotted mine since i was seeing her for anxiety issues now i know they are intertwined to my past history   glad you are able to rant about it i think this sub is perfect to do so   keep ranting keep working on it