god i feel this so much  i’m a stay at home dad with three kids  a 6 year old who got my adhd a 4 year old and a 2 year old  we’ve just all been trapped in the house together for the last year  my whole day is a constant assault of screaming demands meltdowns and literally constant needs for validation    i don’t think i need to overtly blame the adhd here we all know how it is but like adhd makes it tough for me to deal and the easiest way for them to get through to me is to get loud and incessant  things can quickly devolve into them yanking and pushing and yelling while i try to function and they will fight each other for the chance to be the one who’s doing it  and all that with youtube kids songs playing on the tv and rent free in my head in some kinda adhd infinite cognitive feedback blender  anyway the inside of my head is basically curb-stomped scrambled eggs