this happened to me 2 days ago my f35 nephew 37 not a typo my family is weird was going on and on about his roommates’ kid and mansplaining being a parent which i actually am  my mom and i would say something jokingly and he would take a piece and continue his rant he had had a lot of wine and i haven’t been drinking i should have just walked away but i was like “you’re in a place where you want to lecture but we’re just trying to have a lighthearted conversation i need a break” he just stared at me mouth agape thankfully we dropped it and by the time dinner was ready things weren’t too awkward