i just got diagnosed this week with inattentive adhd and i have heard all of these more times than i would like to admit being told you don’t care enough by someone you truly care about hurts a lot being diagnosed at 27 has led to years of self loathing because i felt like my best wasn’t enough i was so happy after receiving my diagnosis because i could finally put all of those statements into perspective and for the first time in my life i was able to understand accept myself now that i know where all of these issues stem from i actually have a direction to move towards and i feel more positive about my future than i have in a long time