im so glad you found a place you are able to have real talk about your struggles  everyone needs that for sure  i just feel the need to comment on what you said the people in the other group say about people that do not have autism  i find the idea of feeling superior to others because of your genetics abhorrent  that is akin to feeling superior because of your height skin color or where you were born  it is disgusting and anyone suggesting such things is foul  im sorry you had that experience    ive only recently been diagnosed with adhd-i and learned about this nurodiversity business  i think its sad to see so many new movements that divide us all into different groups and make people that dont belong to your group the other