yes  i was constantly yelled at by teachers and my parents growing up  i rarely finished my homework  i was a terrible student but undiagnosed  my diagnosis was at 35 years old  i figured out i had adhd when i was 26 after i typed in my symptoms on google  i asked my parents for help but they didnt believe me and said i was just lazy  when i got officially diagnosed by a psychologist they just kept silent and refused to talk about it  i had already lost my career and bankrupted myself by this point