x200b  i find what we need to allow ourselves is time yeah that thing we are not very good at managing for me when meeting new people i am on and they  think i am so smart and witty but it is almost impossible to sustain when starting a new job however i find it takes me so much longer to pull everything together that people immediately assume i am dumb neither is true i am smart and witty but quite capable of being a dumbass and while it takes me longer to pull everything together when i do i am one of the best probably because i have had so much trouble putting my brain legos together but have done it in a non linear way all of this is to say time is the great leveller and believe it or not it is on our side  and lets not even talk about our superpower of hyperfocusing