dam i’m sorry you got cancer i feel this on deep level i’m 33 and still struggle to get my self to the doctordentist i finally made a dentist appointment after a like 4 year hiatus and in my 20s i ignored what i later learned was a stuck kidney stone for about a year two years ago i had brain swelling and my one of my eyes stopped working i ignored it for a week before i went to the er for me making the appointment is where i struggle i just can’t do it i have learned that if i block of like 3 hours one day where my only goal is to make that call and get that appointment i can usually do it it helps to not be so hard on my self too and actually feel proud when i do finally make the call knowing is always better than not knowing feel free to reach out if you need to talk or really whatever always happy to help out a fellow adhd blood