seriously my manager gave me a deserved hard time for forgetting to update someone on a project i was working on  id written an he email updating them on my progress but forgot to hit send and didnt realize it was still sitting in my drafts folder until asked about it yay she wasnt trying to be mean but she kept reiterating that this was important because x y and z i ended up spending the better part of the day just castigating myself feeling like shit and getting noting done     later when we talked about it she said that the problem was that id done the hard part but forgotten the easy part she knows about my diagnosis so i pointed out that that was the problem the easy part is hard for me id literally had no doubt that id sent that email i just hadnt     i dont know what my point is here except i feel you