ok i didnt realize this was an ocd thing too i thought i was just a shit  when im in a relationship im constantly preoccupied with doubtful thoughts intrusive thoughts of me being unfaithful or dipping suddenly  its hard to ever truly feel cozy or secure even when i love my partner to bits ooh dont even get me started on the intrusive thought of but like are you really in love how can you be sure youve ever felt true love  good luck my guy were all in this together