im kinda in a place where all the progress i made over the years while being undiagnosed btw is suddenly not enough and im this close to spiral in a self deprecating mode ill try to keep it short but this is what ive been telling me all these years  most of the time its society fault for us thinking were not enough the advent of social networks just exacerbated this way of life where everything is fine everything respects a certain palette of color and is never out of tune  but its not like this like ever so what can we do  we can start practicing kindness toward ourselves and suddenly well see that theres a pattern of people that dont fit in like us people that dont match the societys standards of beauty intelligence way of thinking heck up until some years ago just having a tattoo and colored hair was something very groundbreaking but now i see it everywhere a world where people feel like theyre not strong enough is a world that needs to change  maybe its not you being unable to do the simple things maybe its the normal people not being able to keep up with a different way of thinking and from where i see it conventional ways of thinking never made the world progress