that is a good idea  i have adhd and my wife has fasd  we both struggle sometimes with those basic tasks but often try to help and remind each other  even sometimes going as far as just giving compliments for getting basic things done  unfortunately there are times where we both slip together or we dont always remind each other in positive ways  however we do have an understanding in place that we dont take the bad days from the other person too personally and if things get bad we probably need to eat or something just to reset    x200b  its amazing how missing simple things can escalate into more if you just try and ignore it having someone come in to help with that reset is a great idea