wow wish i had read this a while ago when i started losing a solid relationship i had with a guy when we went long distance let him slip away in front of me because all the feelings and words i wanted to say to him would just evaporate when we were apart because i would hyperfixate and lose my sense of time  appreciate reading threads like this where i get to take home some wise words and grow a little bit more someone always surprises me with a different perspective on things i can relate to and couldn’t put into words before