yeah its weird like they asume you feel or have to feel the exact same way as them as far as i remember adhd and asd are both specrum disorders so how they think you have to feel the same way about it already doesent make sense my adhd is so impairing lately that i if it would be possible would maybe take the cure pill the positives that adhd can have like creativity might be enough for some people to feel better about their disorder they might actually get a slight benifit in sertain circumstances compared to others and thats awesome for them for me every other adhd symptom activly stops me from persuing something creative im stuck in a non creative job all my remaining freetime is spend either trying to get on top of my dishes and other household stuff or trying to relax and calm down from all the stress and anxiety i feel on a daily basis even the thought of i have to get groceries tomorrow bc if not i order take out again then i feel shitty about myself bc i eat like crap again spend unnescesairy money and break my routine is stressing me tf out im basicly at the max of my abilities just by being an adult and doing adult stuff instead of spreading toxic positivity because they cant entertain the idea that some people actually are disabled in certain areas because of a disability they should either try to give you advice that the think could work bc it maybe worked for them or dont say anything at all