its because weve been told so many times that we messed up because were lazy inconsiderate selfish rude etc  its because we were told often by our parents that if we were really sorry for our mistakes we would stop doing it  since we wouldnt stop obviously it was because we liked being bad  did you know that the word sinister just means left  as in left-handed  discrimination against left-handed people was rampant world-wide until only very recently  its still heavily stigmatized in some countries and there are plenty of grannies out there in the good ol us of a smacking crayons out of their grandchilds left hand  people with adhd are essentially left-handed people living in a right-handed world being bullied and accused of wickedness because the world isnt willing to let us approach tasks differently  were not wrong  were different  different isnt better or worse its just different