i have a weird dual response i’ve always performed really well for the tough-love type coaches you get in my face and yell what you want me to do specifically and i can get right to it if it means doing something that some one else wants or needs if it is vague “motivation” to do something for me i have the same reaction you do i already know i don’t like the lack of mental impetus i have at times i beat myself up over it i don’t need someone else to do that support and having an outlet to discuss my struggles has worked for me much better