i do this when watching even short things like videosshows it feels embarrassing because i’ll be deep in my own head then my husband makes some comment related to what we are watching and sometimes i just try to noduse context clues of what i most recently paid attention to in order to make some kind of related comment back he can tell though most of the time and it’s pretty awkward he’ll be like “did you hear when he said xyz” or “were you paying attention to blah” and i often don’t want to tell him that i faded out for a while because then he wants to go back and have me watch again usually if it’s something i’m really interested in i can pay full attention and remember a lot of detail