got the same  problem i tell my parents that the reason im resistant to just pick up everything and do what they said to do that very second is because i need to focus on what im doing and itll be hard to get back to what i was doing before and they just dont seem to get it  they want me to do everything right when they say to and i tell them maybe it would help if you gave me some notice beforehand so i could do it when im ready but nope