you are awesome and you totally deserve the care that you need i am currently trying to convince my partner it’s worth it i really push myself to care for the home to the point that i am mentally exhausted and irritable all the time from pushing myself so hard so he thinks that i’m doing “just fine” and we don’t need any help he doesn’t believe in paying anyone for services that we “can do” and was raised very conservative and that mental illnesses are made up he thankfully accepts me and is trying to understand adhd he at least says to me that he believes in it i’ve explained to him that it’s science based even in people without any disabilities studies show that hiring extra help actually benefits the entire family there are ted talks on it i’m going to just do it soon anyways i think this was my sign