my mom always tells me “you’re going to need to marry rich so you can hire a maid” but she says it in a negative way and you know what when i finally move back out on my own i moved home during the pandemic i fully plan on having someone visit my home at least once a week you budget for the things that matter to you and it’s really not that prohibitive in cost people pay to eat out grab coffee etc and aren’t lambasted for it ‍  good on you for finding a helping hand i’d just considered finding a cleaner but a nanny is a great idea i’ll have to keep that in mind when the time comes