so how would you suggest we teach little kids that they arent purposely doing this stuff without falling into the you have adhd so this is excused line of thinking i have a lot of issues with self esteem and wasnt even diagnosed until 29 now i am able to work through the eh i cant focus now ill set a time later without feeling like a bag of shit but in grade school i distinctly remember feeling shitty and not understanding why i couldnt do stuff