another good way of looking at this is just because your experience with ocd doesn’t line up with another’s experience with ocd does not make it invalid   ocd thinking patterns are pretty much a blueprint and most of the time unless speaking specifically about exposure based treatment content really doesn’t matter but it’s really important to not take one’s experience with ocd as god speak it’s important to note that ocd in general is not a blueprint there’s different shades and obsessions and one does not and should not overshadow the other