hey man i know this post is 12h old and so i doubt you’ll see this but i see you man i spent my whole life struggling trying to figure out wtf was wrong with me i pushed myself to emotional breaking points over and over and over again i enlisted in the navy with my girlfriend and we were married while in together i did 7 years and the whole time i pushed myself at the absolute limit even when i didn’t have to constantly wondering what the hell is broken in me i’m 31 years old now and i was diagnosed with adhd 2 weeks ago why was i diagnosed because my wife was diagnosed a month ago and when she shared with me what adhd actually manifests as i was blown away i’m now one week into medication and being mindful of the actual condition i we have and it’s been one of the best weeks of my life my wife and i will be celebrating 8 years of marriage this summer and i believe it will be the best year so far as we happily raise our likely adhd little boy you’re not alone you’re not a freak some of us don’t know for a long ass time and it’s not a kids thing i was addicted to nicotine for 12 years and didn’t realize i had these symptoms until i went clean you’ve got friends here and we’re all just figuring this out together  tldr i’m an elder millennial and i just found out i have this shit so it’s ok we’re here don’t get discouraged