i’ve been saying for a while now that i feel like i need some kind of “how to be a person” boot camp but the way you’ve laid this all out i think a “nanny” would actually be exactly what i need idk how i’d afford it but i seriously might try to move some things around to try to make that happen… my friend suggested hiring a cleaner a very very good idea as i’m currently living in a cry for help  but i think it makes much more sense to hire someone whose emphasis is more on the carehelping aspect than just coming in to clean