i am really sorry you go through this with your family my son is adhd and honestly i really struggle with lessening frustration and letting my frustration show posts like this are why i joined the adhd sub to begin with to understand what he may be thinking and feeling he is in elementary school and with school being online and very independent-driven it has only gotten harder for him i sometimes need to remind myself that he is trying and he wants to remember things and stay on task  it is very hard to remember in the moment that he is not purposefully slacking off  thank you for this reminder of how i can continue to try to do better with and for him