i dumped the friends i grew up with three years ago after one said she and i were the group fuck ups  she’s a surgeon and i have a masters degree she’s biopolar and i have adhd and cptsd as i’m guessing she does as well   the group winner a spoiled princess who got a degree in event planning and married rich  i left the group and started making twice as much money within weeks   that programming is insidious i’m now making 4 times what i was making 3 years ago when i left the group   if i stayed i never would have escaped my role