oh my gosh the arguments about whether or not it could be in the trash can are endless at our house i’m the one with adhd my husband is more or less neurotypical “its in the trash” is always one of the first places my mind goes my husband gets so upset because he is adamant he didn’t throw it away well except for the time he accidentally threw my ipad in the trash bin outside which luckily we found before it was collected yay still he gets upset everytime i suggest  we check the trash one day he gets mad and says “i threw something of yours in the trash one time and now you’ll never let me live it down”  i looked at him blankly for a beat and said “i’m not suggesting we check the trash because of the one time you accidentally threw something away i’m suggesting we check the trash because of the dozens of times that i have” because he’s neurotypical accidentally throwing something away is a once in a blue moon occurence so he didn’t understand that it’s something i’m in constant fear of doing because i’ve done it so many times already