this is why people always tell me i act so different over text than i do face to face  its not a confidence or shyness thing i just literally cant translate into speech quick enough  i have to take what im thinking assign words to it reorder the thought in a way that makes sense to people remove unnecessary bits make sure youre staying on one thought at a time etc etc  people seriously underestimate just how mentally exhausting and frustrating it is to do that for every single interaction you have