i also am religious and you have to accept that we are all deeply flawed and god understands this and wants us to get the medical help that we need ocd is a medical issue caused by a chemical imbalance in our brains while jesus does indeed love you and he can help you cope he will not cure you or i or any of us right nowbut he will when his kingdom comes in the meantime he can help us cope but we need doctors to assist us even the apostle luke was a physician matthew 912 says “healthy people do not need a physician but those who are ill do” maybe you can share that with your mom i hope that helps