this is the exact situation i was in just over 4 years ago i am alive and well although sterile have some sperm saved or eggs harvested if you can   nbsp    im only 26 i dont smoke drink or take drunks im healthy and active    nbsp   same here i want you to realize that most people who die from cancer are killed because they could not survive the treatment usually this is due to pre-existing health conditions if you are not old not obese and do not have diabetes or other significant health problems you will do fine   nbsp   contrary to what you may believe chemotherapy is an incredibly effective treatment there are many side effects but the drugs they will give you to curb those effects are miles ahead of where they were in the past chemotherapy is all about preventing cell division by targeting cells at specific periods of their mitosis side effects occur mainly because this also affects critical healthy cells especially in your blood and other rapidly reproducing cells youll feel tired youll sleep a lot and youll sometimes be in pain or ill anti-nausea drugs are amazing dont believe everything you see on tv shows that portray cancer remember that your mental state does wonders for your immune system if you stay positive and remember that you will beat this your body will respond   nbsp   good luck and feel free to reach out to me if you want to talk