im a 32 year old that had a therapist bring up the possibility of add a few weeks ago and after researching it a bit more it explains a lot of situations that have happened to me  today i found out about this subreddit and started to read the top posts and when i irenes this one i was like nah i dont have this but then reading the comments its so clear that it affects me in more than one way  im now in tears and trying to explain to my partner what happened