i have a childhood memory that haunts me for this reason my ex-friend had the hyperactive strain of adhd and she turned round to me one day and said “hey maybe you have adhd too” bc of the way i was acting or something and my mum went “oh don’t be so silly you don’t have adhd”   here i am age 21 diagnosed with severe adhd just over a year ago not noticed by parents bc they either didn’t give a fuck or they didn’t think i had it bc i’m not hyperactive i have purely concentration issues