i can definitely relate i think i’m pretty good at writing i always got top grades for my essays when i was in university and i’ve joined civil online debate groups on various issues before where people from both sides of the debate complimented my ability to get my point across but in real life i feel like a babbling mess if i try to talk about an issue even one i’m very confident about and familiar with because my brain just feels like it’s flooded with information i don’t know how to put into words in real time it’s very frustrating