the celebration flare is beautiful   out of curiosity have you tried a shared google calendar or whatever the fuck it is i suck using it but my so and i use a shared calendar to mark off large events i forget about them all the damn time but i occasionally check it and feel a bit of relief   i really want one to share with my so and with some other friends so it works better but im not sure at what point so i have a calendar vs at what point do i have unpaid secretaries