oh my godi have this frustration constantly but i was never able to figure out why or how to describe it until reading this i figured i might feel imposter syndrome sometimes but the idea that my discomfort and frustration comes from imposter syndrome in both directions is light a light bulb went off in my head this is one reason why i feel like i can never explain myself to my dad when he is mad about me forgetting something or not being responsible i cant just be like its my adhd that makes me feel like im scapegoating