i just recently got diagnosed and joined this sub i feel like every other post makes me go oh shit is that why im like this its been revelation after revelation particularly because i didnt know how to articulate any of these experiences  i saw this and mentioned it to my partner because we met at work and he trained me for the position he remembered me being annoyed sometimes when the why didnt matter but it did matter to most of the work so he didnt think much of it until now  god getting a diagnosis as an adult is a fucking trip especially since it didnt occur to me that i might have adhd until the last year or so