that’s awesome   as someone with autism i usually just lurk this sub since there are some symptoms that both occur in adhd and autism   this made me feel super validated in a decision i made a little while back   i paid someone to clean the inside of my car previously i’d been in the mindset of “it’s something you can do so paying someone to do it instead isn’t right”  but damn the amount of stress it took off of me was so worth the cost not to mention he did a far better job then i ever could have   helped me realize it’s okay to get help why did i put that rule on myself that said i must be the one who cleans my car   good post op i’m glad you were able to find someone who helps make your life more manageable