ok now i wish i could find a facebook post in a shipt grocery delivery service i picked up while being unemployed over covid forum that i saw a while ago   went something like what is an item youve gotten for customers that you consider a waste of money and the amount of people saying pre-chopped fruit and veggies theyre so easy to cut and taste better when you do it yourself and of course a lot of people added the caveat i mean i  understand if youre elderly or physically disabled but if youre not then its just plain lazy   i fought back the urge to go on a rant cause yes i am very aware  that i can surely buy the whole fruits and veggies and save a few bucks but especially after reading ur post op i realize i end up wasting so much more money doing so because remembering and staying motivated to chop those whole fruits and veggies is fleeting leaving them to inevitably rot   it is just so wild to me that indulging in any kind of convenience to aid in mental health without any significant cause from your physical health is still deemed as lazy and weak-minded in 2021 also it is ironic to me that they really think someone who will spend the money on delivery should draw the line at cutting fruits and veggies   i have days where i agonize about going to the store the usual so many options i can make a list but  im not great at sticking to it so many options ahhh where i spend way more time and money than i can afford and i realized that i shouldnt feel guilty if i treat myself to delivery or curbside pickup sometimes cause i can sit here and agonize and refuse myself of such luxury but i will still be hungry and feel even more terrible and unmotivated or i can just push the bs stigma aside and still get my sustenance there is definitely an often too overlooked value in allowing myself to outsource at least one or two tasks that i agonize over if it means ill have more energy and willpower leftover to carry out a smaller and less daunting to do list