i am struck by this comment my bf has adhd untreated diagnosed in early childhood no follow up and i joined this sub to try to gain insight into his world he is supremely frustrated when i bring up problems for discussion he translates comments discussion points problems and attempts to communicate and compromise into deep personal criticisms and rejections says he can’t make me happy no matter how hard he tries i feel the same - he’s very critical and angry about it and now he’s so frustrated that he doesn’t even want to try any more my question to op is honest and genuine why is this feeling you describe about disappointing people your whole life something you hang on tour adhd what would that be an explanation how can i be more supportive and constructive for my bf all advice welcomed thanks