i love this subreddit because of how often it hits close to home i feel it helps me understand that i am not alone and that while i am abnormal i am normal in my abnormality   there there are posts like this where i feel like the bonkers nature of my brain is put on full display for myself for the first time   yes grammarly had to remove a comma from the above  i tell myself to pause in my canter as i speak and so i put those in my text