i have suffered from ocd basically my whole life and yes it is debilitating but i just dont take offense when people make ocd jokes i mean how do you know the person making the joke doesnt suffer from ocd themselves and you just arent aware of it i make jokes about my ocd all the time - sometimes to people who do know i have ocd but often to people who dont know which i find great fun as its a sort of hidden in plane sight joke i have with myself at the expense of people who i feel dont get mental health issues the other thing is every aspect of human psychology is a spectrum really isnt it to those of us who suffer the worst on that spectrum really own the rights to the language around it exclusively