yes you know a person really cares about you when they listen even though we both know it doesnt make sense   also they will laugh at you when you need it ive been to the point of tears from my anxiety and when i explain it my bf sees the threads of anxiety i put together and hell laugh and hold me and tell me its okay and that he cant believe how my mind works   and then im in tears because his laughter is contagious he brings out the best from the worst