ugh my mom does this all the time what makes it worse is that she will only mention the things i forgot to do but wont say shit about the stuff i did do    or if i did do something i didnt do it correctly or i forgot to clean up a tiny little spot then will interrupt something important to make a point of saying something about the thing i mildly messed up     its the worst and degrading but i always try to remind myself that people just suck and its not me personally its them being an asshole they dont respect anyone anyways so it doesnt even matter why they pick on you my mom picks on my siblings for all sorts of things and a lot of it is stuff they came help my sisters worst bully for her acne was my mom   people pick on people like us because they like to feel superior and pull the i told you so bullshit    anyways sorry to ramble you are not defined by the opinions of your parents parents arent always right and you havent actually fucked up that bad