the hardest part about trying to explain why “staying organized and planning ahead” advice is useless to me is that it isn’t useless it does work wonders - until one day i just wake up and completely forget that i was ever organized or that i used a planner i’ll literally find the planner again in a month when i’m searching for my lost birth certificate and look back at the filled in time blocks and think “who the hell was i that week why didn’t i continue doing this”  and then i hyper focus on blocking out the next year of my life instead of taking the shower that i needed only for me to forget about the planner again by the end of the week