i cant count the amount of times ive told my girlfriend that i listen to a parenting podcast the night before about a cool topic that she might want to listen tothen she asks me what did they say about iti usually end up telling her to listen to it because i dont want to misquote it  or they are watching a movie in the living room and i have to askhave we seen this before  i like doing body work on cars but i for some reason always needed to ask to confirm what to sand with or the next stepnot that i didnt know to do it but wanted to confirmfound out a couple years later everyone just thought i didnt know what i was doingwtf