the worst thing about growing up and living with my mom again now is that she seems to always wait until i am on my way out the door to go to work to do something so i’ll tell her i don’t have time and will do it after work and set a reminder for later always without damn fail she will have done it instead of waiting for me to get home and do it and always without fail she will make sure i know exactly how mad she is about being the one to do it for however long it takes her to decide she’s done being mad  like why i have preemptive guilt basically the second she asks me to do something when i can’t because i know what’s coming lol