i feel this i clean vacation rentals for a living which does help alleviate the stress of my house being slightly dirty but it can often exacerbate my ocd symptoms and ill be up until 3 am deep cleaning my apartment   it doesnt help that my roommate used to be one of my closest friends that changes when you live with your friends is a huge slob and is super lazy she literally wont unload the dishwasher even if the sign on it says clean she only doesnt clean up because she knows i have terrible ocd and if she doesnt do it then i eventually will i can barely ever use the stove because theres always trash in the burners and it smells like burning plastic so then instead if making dinner i spend three hours cleaning the kitchen and scrubbing out the burners and then im too tired to make food