i have been struggling for six months to clean my house but i have so many doom piles that i just can’t get myself to do it it’s so overwhelming that i’m paralyzed my friend just says oh split it up into time chunks so i do but the part i do just gets dirty right away again very small apartment so not a lot of storage makes me feel like a failure as a fiancé and woman stupid society expectations of women as the housekeeper and she’s a “terrible woman” for not being perfect sigh