my family will never understand why this is adhd and cannot control it even lost a friend recently because she couldnt understand why im still like this shes known me forever but chose to believe i should be able to get up and do something and couldnt get it in her head that i just cant do that it really hurts when people cant get the idea of adhd in their head like they get it but dont fully understand the idea of it i try to get them to understand but something just doesnt take and drives me nuts