yes i even bought a subscription to this magazine “addtitude” and most of the articles are for parents and shit i fckn hate the fact that adhd is seen as a children’s disorder  like the adults with it need help more than being a child with it adhd is soooo much more debilitating as an adult and in the real world than it is as being a child where a lot of these things don’t matter near as much in the world of a child like the whole image around adhd is so messed up abd it’s hurtful and isolating the stuff you struggle with is brushed off to being lazy or incompetent and that it’s all an excuse to school’s employers  and basically any area you need to succeed in life it ruins friendships and relationships and it’s not even possible to describe to someone who doesn’t have it as they will all give you “ why don’t you just change “ or something along those lines it’s so beyond frustrating