my mom has ocd different type than me and she used to work in a kitchen the men there would purposely leave huge messes wouldnt clean any dishes wouldnt mop would leave food caked onto the outside of the dishwasher etc so when my mom came into work shed have to stop everything and clean before she could cook because there were no dishes for her to use when she confronted them they said well youre a woman and you have ocd so we know you love to clean we did it for you my mom was so close to cursing them out but one was her superior she had to explain she doesnt love cleaning she has to do it because its her job and her ocd isnt cleaning-based its making sure everything is lined up evenly and organizing things they still left huge messes for her to clean up until the day she quit people who think they understand ocd but really dont are obnoxious