i put an ad in the nanny category and this was effective  theres a lot to unpack here a lot a lot im actually just put off balanced and horrified reading this i know you meant this as a triumphant moment for you but i just you hired a housekeeper and just made it incredibly awkward by calling them a nanny because you personally have issues and hangups about your ability to care for yourself whether or not those concerns are based in reality  when people do what you do the people answering those ads think you have some sort of mobility issue or what have you and phrasing it the way you did it really reads like youre lumping yourself in with those that do need in-home care when your situation is more fitting for calling merry maids  im glad you found help and had some sort of epiphany but also wow wow yikes a little bit too yikes