this  so beautifully written and so well explained  my psychiatrist was fantastic and stressed the importance of me seeking additional help in other aspects of my life right after college when i was dirt poor i got myself a very nice lady who came to my house twice a week and did exactly what yours does  even if all i could afford to eat was ramen that week i made sure i could afford her i’m in my late thirties now and the same nice lady comes twice a week the living space is a lot bigger the messes are more complex and she doesn’t move as fast as she used to so she “visits” and helps me make a plan for the week  she doesn’t take my money anymore so i drop it all in her bank account once a year  she became one of the single most important people in my life as far as being a productive adult and managing my adhd goes i lucked out and she also turned into one of the most important people in my life period as time went on  i’m happy for you op