i work in a nonprofit with a lot of volunteers i was in the weeds on important tech during a fundraiser drive through meals and was in total hyperfocus “get it fixed now” mode one of the early 20s volunteers started into some kind of jokey remark he does this normally his social cues are off bc of aspergers high energy bc adhd i was having none of it—i chased him off to the kitchen in a way that was very abrupt for how i normally react  what nobody else knows is that me not chasing him then would have ended worse