so im unemployed but my husband is still working which means my job is looking for a job and keeping the house clean and stuff since im not bringing in any money i have a pretty decent routine down but i swear like twice a week ill be going through the breakfast part of my routine and ill get a bunch of facebook messagestexts from like four people and one of those people breaks up their sentences into several texts so each part of their sentence is a new fucking notification meanwhile another of those people messaging me is sending me paragraphs of social discourse that take a lot of focus and will power to read and then another person messaging me is probably my mom and shell end up calling me if i dont respond and then the fourth person is usually i dont know a friend trying to make online gaming plans for the weekend while asking me how im doing like im just trying to get through breakfast and all these texts are causing me to spend my morning anxious on edge and now angry and annoyed because im so fucking overstimulated  and i could ignore the texts but i dont need my mom calling me because there goes two hours of my day and ill have to repeatedly remind myself to respond to the other messages so i dont forget which means id be making myself anxious by not answering them   all that to say i have no solution just commiserating