i feel this so hard i hate when my so chews gum he’s not super obnoxious about it but for some reason it seems amplified when he’s doing it over the last seven years there have been problems 10 times that he’s been excitedly talking to me about something while he has gum in his mouth i get instantly irritated to the point i have to stand up and go do dishes or something because it makes me feel the type of anxiety like i need to stretch out of my own skin like a physical  emotional anxiety i’ve never told him because it don’t want to hurt his feelings plus i forget until it happens again when i get sharp mood swings i get super drowsy and forgetful i’m gonna go tell him now while i’m thinking about it that when he is looking for positive feedback from me spit out your gum