i went through something similar where i realized a year after being on meds that my longest friends treated me like shit manipulated me talked shit about me and didn’t respect me i put up with it because i honestly didn’t notice until i was more stable it’s like i would get angry about things in the moment but then move on because i never really processed it i’m mostly fine and over it now but reading this thread has been like “damn it was my adhd that didn’t make me realize not that i’m a pushover or naive” lol