my dad says stuff like this to me all the time tragically he has undiagnosed and obviously unmediated adhd but he grew up in rural australia very poor and with an abusive father in the end just “getting it done” was exactly what he had to do his life hasn’t been without its struggles but he’s in a position now where he can almost entirely circumvent his executive dysfunction just by force of will he’s the strongest and most accomplished man i know and i wish i could just do shit like he does