i think i reallllly needed to see this today thank you this is such a good post  this isnt the same exactly but ive been doing this kind of with app purchases ive never really paid money into apps or anything like that before but if its affordable ive been giving in if i can stick with it for a while i mean only with a couple really helpful things   i always thought spending money on apps or anything that you could do yourself with more effort was a huge waste but im accepting i will never get around to setting up systems like that myself and it saves so much stress   idk that just felt the same to me even tho its totally different lmao i really like the concept of accepting im not going to do the thing on my 100th try and save the stress instead