most are about kids because theres still a stigma on mental health but people will research the crap out of anything when it comes to their children   i just got diagnosed with adhd  im in my early 40s  i also have a child who was diagnosed a year and a half ago  i researched it because of her and realized that i need to get tested for it    no  it doesnt go away  mine is the type that is genetic  i see it in my dad and he never knew  mine kept spiraling into depression  because i never learned how to deal with it when i hit that wall  i have to stop working for now because i dont trust myself to be reliable   im sorry i dont have an answer for you  i am on meds and doing cognitive therapy i am making my diet exercise and sleep a priority whenever possible    remember your brilliant moments   if you havent already  you will have moments when everyone is looking at a problem the same way and cant solve it when its obvious to you    all those words and all i meant to say is that i can relate  i also feel that people dont get it unless they have it