i got diagnosed 6 weeks ago it was a huge relief to know that hey i wasnt actually just stupid or lazy i was doing my absolute best and it shouldve been enough  ive been on varying doses of medication for 5 weeks now it helps im beginning to understand myself a little better now as a person im not lazy - i work really hard ive experienced the feeling of paralysis when trying to start tasks many times that overwhelming i cant do it and i dont know how to start but i definitely still have lazy moments its not that i cant do this one thing i really just dont want to like taking the kitchen bins out - itd barely take any time but because its kinda gross i dont want to itll be hard because i know i dont like doing it im working on that though ive got a little rota going where i tick tasks off for the day which is kinda nice   its like an i cant vs i wont thing with me right now  of course its different for everyone for some they might feel like me with lazy moments and for others its completely just down to their adhd maybe once i reach the right dosage on my medication ill change how i feel being called lazy by anyone including yourself absolutly sucks but being lazy isnt the end of the world you can work on it itll be made harder because of adhd but as another commenter said any progress is still progress when i feel like that it helps when i take a minute to appreciate little things ive done through the day even if it was just waking up or putting socks on  i hope you find a good way to cope with how you feel and that you get the support you deserve edited bc i posted the comment when i wasnt finished by accident haha