agreed and i have the same experience ive always assumedthought it came from my parents style of lecture and guilt trip but maybe its a more universal adhd experience the emotional disregulation means i cry the second anyone is firm or demanding of me regardless of my emotional state a lot of the time and im a 350lb 30yr old 63 man  and opposition defiance means i as a rule will agree to peoples faces and then resent it later and do whatever i want im working on not defaulting to that but its definitely my instinct i do it to myself even and thats the cause of most of my self-destructive behavior   meds have helped me react more evenly to things but im finding they are not a pill-solution to this sort of stuff which i didnt expect and am kind of glad for i personally think its important to use the meds to help build skills for all times