youre lovely op i just wanted to say to younger adhd people things do get better once youve faked-it-till-you-made it to a higher point in your career   once you have in-demand skills and insights which many adhders do have in high degree people will be a lot more flexible i had such a shit time trying to keep up with expectations for entry level roles but now im a respected go-to expert in my field hyperfocus means i turn out quality work much faster than others and im enough of a lateral thinker to pick up on vital issues that other people miss  my home life is a mess of course but i am respected outside of that and people are keen to work with me despite knowing i will cause them frustrations in some areas