i’m temporarily living with my parents as an adult and so many times i’ve said i’m going to do something over and over for a couple of days and then my mom will just do it one day and i’ll feel awful i try really hard not to do that but then i end up just doing everything right in the moment and dropping whatever else i was doing which screws up any type of routine or planning i try to maintain i’ll get things done for my parents and for the household as a whole but i’ll completely lose track of personal tasks and projects   no balance whatsoever damnit