so you bringing up societal pressure got my head spinning with a ton of thoughts one of my hyper focus things is human society culture and the loads of hypocrisy and irony that exists within it  you getting a nanny to help you around the house is labeled as weird by society but the rich and elite have maids gardeners nannies and private tutors for their children etc and nobody labels them weird  it just makes sense even on an economy level that when you are really good at a thing you should be paid for a service if you really suck at a thing you should pay for it do he done right there is a very good reason why you will never see me working on my car i am not good at car stuff so i get a mechanic if you suck at managing your home life getting someone to help you is the completely logical solution  well done on your bravery and in a big way fighting the status quo that keeps a lot of people from living otherwise “normal” and happy lives