"The actual idea behind time-out is to get the parent to cool-off. They are the real problem in a confrontation. It's rare that children need to ""cool off"".

The theory behind adult time-outs is that you deprive the child of your attention. Of course, in our electronic gadget society where children hardly ever see their parents anyways, that accomplishes nothing. So as a replacement for spending time with one's child and paying attention to them most of the time, someone invented the ""child time-out"" as a form of punishment instead. This is not an acceptable trade-off and that's why child time-outs are bad. They're still better than physical abuse of course.  Ark"