I think that Mel is still that same guy I had the pleasure of knowing all those years ago; caring and considerate, with a great amount of love in his heart.  If it makes people feel better to tear him apart, then that wouldn't surprise me at all. But all I hear when I listen to Mel ranting so outrageously on tape is someone who needs, desperately, to be loved. Yes, he needs professional help too, but let's not destroy him. He's a good man.