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"What would change??? \nI would feel peace.  Calm in the midst of the storm.  Storms will always be around. \nI would feel joy.  Not fake happiness.  Genuine joy.   \nI would enjoy intimacy with my husband.   \nI would accept that I am not perfect.  And that I don't need to be. \nGood enough would be just that:  good enough. \nI would truly believe good things about me.   \nI wouldn't have excuses. \nI wouldn't have justification for being angry.   \nI wouldn't have to be in control of everything...all the time. \nI wouldn't feel responsible for other people's happiness (or lack thereof) \nI wouldn't feel fake, phoney, or as if I was \"pretending\" all the time.   \nI would just be real. \nAnd that would be OK. \n"
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