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"   Question I\u2019m male and 25. I have lived with a fairly serious physical disability most of my life. My disability means that I have to use a wheelchair. It certainly should not rule out sex, or so I have been told. I have not found a partner up till now and that has been depressing me greatly. I am still a virgin, and haven&amp;#039;t had a relationship with a woman. I think I may have found someone now but I am not sure if I should tell her I&amp;#039;m still a virgin, or lie about it. It&amp;#039;s embarrassing. I am also unsure what she will expect from me \u2013 obviously she will have to be the more proactive. What can I do to help her? Is it possible for us to have fulfilling sex?   Answer Sorry to hear about how fed up you are. But you can sort out this problem! First off, if you can manage to get an erection, then you can and you will have sex.  Secondly, it sounds as if you expect that you can reach a climax and if you can, then your sex life can be really enjoyable \u2013 and you could probably become a father, if you want to.  As far as your new girlfriend is concerned, I think it would be crazy to lie to her. Do tell her you&amp;#039;re a virgin. I can&amp;#039;t promise you precisely how she&amp;#039;ll react. But I can tell you that many decent, kindly women would regard this as an exciting challenge!  Don&amp;#039;t expect too much on your first encounter. But I&amp;#039;m sure you&amp;#039;ll manage very well indeed.  More information about sex and disability is available from the Outsiders organisation, ring their helpline on 0707 \u2013 499 3527. Good luck to you. Yours sincerely Dr David Delvin, GP  Other Qs &amp;amp;amp; As Abuse has made her fearful of sex After cervical cancer is it still safe to have sex? Can I give him hepatitis B through unprotected sex? Can I give kidney stones to my partner through sex Can I have sex after a transient ischaemic attack (TIA)? Disabled people and sexual activity Does spina bifida prevent me from having a good sex life? Fibroids in the womb Having sex with menopausal women I get bladder irritation during intercourse I suffer from ankylosing spondylitis and am worried about my sex life Is sex risky during a woman&amp;#039;s period? My headaches after sex My husband\u2019s skin problem is affecting our sex life Orgasm and disability Sex after breast cancer Sex after diathermy Sex and intimacy after pregnancy Sex and spina bifida Sex during pregnancy Sex life after hysterectomy Sex problem after accident Sexual attraction after a mastectomy Sexual desire after a miscarriage Sexual relations and epilepsy She complains that her bladder hurts every time we have sex Sick feelings during sex We have cerebral palsy and would like some advice about sex  Last updated 15.10.2012 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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