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"\n\tAdvertisement - Continue Reading Below\n\t\n\n\n\nIs it possible that my guy is sometimes faking an orgasm?Yes, it's very possible. In fact, most men fake it every now and then, usually for the same reasons women do: feeling pressure to perform, wanting to get sex over with when an orgasm just isn't in the cards, or to spare his partner's feelings. And, the fact that so many women scoff at the idea makes it that much easier for guys to get away with it \u2014 a little groaning, heavy panting, some rapid thrusting, and you've got an Oscar-worthy orgasm performance.So, how can you tell if you guy is being \"genuine\"? Well, sometimes you can't. But being aware of some harder-to-fake nuances of the real thing can help you to discern the difference. Here are some clues: The male orgasm consists of a series of involuntary pelvic contractions, accompanied by an ejaculation. While your guy may be able to fake the thrusting, it's virtually impossible to simulate the rapid-fire contractions or ejaculation.  Just prior to and throughout orgasm, a guy's pulse rate and breathing will become very rapid, and may even cause a red flush to spread across his body. The head of his penis will swell, and his testicles will contract toward his groin.  After an orgasm, his penis will quickly return to its flaccid state and be extremely sensitive to touch, and he'll be physically exhausted. If you think that you man fakes orgasm once in a while, let it go. It doesn't mean he's not enjoying the sex or being intimately connected to you. But, if you suspect that he's \"acting\" on a more regular basis, first try to figure out why he might be having trouble peaking. Some possible culprits: emotional distress, needing a thinner condom, certain medications (like some antidepressants), even consuming too much alcohol. If you can't pinpoint a specific cause, then it's possible that he just needs a different, more intense type of stimulation, such as oral or manual sex to get over the edge.Whatever you do, don't accuse him of being a phony. Instead, say something like, \"You seem a little distracted in bed lately,\" and ask if there's anything he wants you to do to help increase his pleasure. That will open up a conversation, without putting him on the spot. And remember, if he is faking, he's probably doing so because he cares about you, and that's a great starting point for getting real about sex."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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