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" I&amp;#039;ve never really got along with my sister \u2013 we&amp;#039;re very different people who wind each other up. My parents have a wedding anniversary coming up. How can I call a truce?  Siblings can conjure up feelings of resentment and hurt like no one else. The problem? The (mostly unspoken) roles and rules you grew up with. For example, &amp;#039;Your sister is the youngest so you need to take care of her&amp;#039; or &amp;#039;Girls do more chores than boys&amp;#039;. Often when we&amp;#039;re with our family, we revert to these behaviours. For a healthier relationship with your sister, be clear about what you want. Do you want to talk more, fight less or let go of anger? The clearer you are, the more likely you&amp;#039;ll be to commit to change. Make the choice to regain control of the relationship by trying to reconcile, rather than get even. Tell her how you see things. Own what you say, so use &amp;#039;I&amp;#039; words, not blaming &amp;#039;you&amp;#039; words. Say you&amp;#039;d like to establish a better relationship. And finally, be OK with the outcome. Studies suggest 60-70% of family members will want to reconcile. If she doesn&amp;#039;t? You&amp;#039;ve still come a long way by trying to understand your relationship. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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