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"Last Monday, I asked you if you&amp;#39;d rather have multiple orgasms or simultaneous ones\u2026.\nPinterestFacebookFireworks\nPHOTO: Getty Images...and 60 percent of you chose simultaneous over multiple. Because so many of you expressed being stumped on how to go about it, I called expert Dr. Ian Kerner, who&amp;#39;s also a guy and my favorite go-to for sex advice (and not just because he wrote a book called She Comes First, though that is a big part of it).\nKeep in mind, the simultaneous orgasm is not something that comes easily. &amp;quot;There&amp;#39;s only a small percentage of couples who can reach orgasms at the same time,&amp;quot; says Dr. Kerner. So don&amp;#39;t get &amp;quot;hung up on the simultaneity of it. A woman should have her orgasm first, because once he does, he will lose his erection in close to 60 seconds afterward.&amp;quot; Um, I kinda love this guy.\nHere are four sex tips to help you on your journey to synchronized bliss.\n1. Get close\n&amp;quot;The thing for women to understand to best ensure a parallel orgasm is before transitioning to intercourse, be as close to coming as possible. Take advantage of manual and oral foreplay to get you near to orgasm.&amp;quot;\n2. Devise a strategy\n&amp;quot;You know your man&amp;#39;s sexual stamina. Most men maintain penetrative intercourse for about two minutes. Sync up to your partner to get yourself inside that two-minute zone.&amp;quot;\n3. Find your position\n&amp;quot;Get in the driver&amp;#39;s seat. When the guy is on top, he&amp;#39;s in control and doing most of the thrusting. If you&amp;#39;re on top, you can slow things down and speed things up. Remember, &amp;quot;Most women consistently orgasm in the cowgirl position.&amp;quot; Side-by-side is a good one, too. &amp;quot;That way you can synchronize your breathing, and almost use his penis like sex toy. Plus it&amp;#39;s easy to add manual stimulation to help him (or yourself) along.&amp;quot;\n4. Time it\nNo need to get out your stopwatches. Just let him know you&amp;#39;re close. &amp;quot;Guys don&amp;#39;t know when a woman is close to coming so give him the verbal tip off that you&amp;#39;re on your way. It&amp;#39;s like he&amp;#39;s trying to land a plane.&amp;quot; Now, that&amp;#39;s a visual I like.\n__So, what do you think? Do you want to give it a shot? Do you think it&amp;#39;s something you&amp;#39;d like to try? Do you feel like you could pull it off?\n__\nWant to try a sex challenge this week?\n* This Week&amp;#39;s Sex Challenge: Play Bossypants in Bed\n* Weekend Sex Challenge: Take Him to the Theater (In Your Bed)\n* Weekend Sex Challenge: Show Him Your Impulsive Side\nPhoto: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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