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" Things have been wonderful lately. It&amp;#039;s as if this marital calm has descended over the Frazer household. Fights are nipped in the bud before they even start. Rex brings me surprise flowers. I slip unexpected chocolate bars into the freezer for his nightly sweet tooth. We&amp;#039;re hardly living a romance novel, but we&amp;#039;re working as a team. I have said it before and I&amp;#039;ll say it again: My biggest tip for happiness is loving what you have, not what you don&amp;#039;t. It really works - at least for me. (And I&amp;#039;d love to hear your tips.) A song that really captures this for me is Kenny Chesney&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;The Good Stuff.&amp;quot; It revolves around a guy who races down to a bar after a blow out with his wife. The bartender asks, &amp;quot;What it&amp;#039;ll be,&amp;quot; and he says, &amp;quot;The Good Stuff.&amp;quot; The song continues: He didn&amp;#039;t reach around for the whiskey.  He didn&amp;#039;t pour me a beer... His blue eyes kind of went misty... He said, &amp;#039;You can&amp;#039;t find that here.&amp;#039; &amp;#039;Cause it&amp;#039;s the first long kiss on a second date Mama&amp;#039;s all worried when you get home late And dropping the ring in the spaghetti plate &amp;#039;Cause your hands are shaking so much It&amp;#039;s the way that she looks with the rice in her hair Eating burnt suppers the whole first year And asking for seconds to keep her from tearing up Yeah, man, that&amp;#039;s the good stuff. That&amp;#039;s about where Rex and I are. It took ten years to write our little country song, but it&amp;#039;s a lovely place to be. If we get matching rockers and start drinking lemonade on our cull de sac at 7PM, however, please reach through the internet and bxxtch slap me. (It&amp;#039;s bad enough we sometimes sit on the front curb and chat about trees, kids starting school, retirement and what we&amp;#039;re going to eat for dinner this weekend. But hey, man, that&amp;#039;s the good stuff.) What&amp;#039;s the good stuff in your marriage? * Photo of Rex and the kids during a typical weekday dinner on back patio. Pip lost a tooth in her steak, Papa swept her up in a congratulatory hug, making his head fair game for a &amp;quot;head nugie&amp;quot; by Stink. Again, that&amp;#039;s the good stuff. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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