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" I&amp;#039;ve made it clear that I&amp;#039;m into this guy at my job. He seems interested but hasn&amp;#039;t asked me to do something outside work. He&amp;#039;s shy, so I&amp;#039;m afraid he&amp;#039;ll never make a move. Should I make it instead? First, think twice about whether you want to dip your pen in the company ink. Many couples meet at work, but office romances can get very complicated &amp;amp;#151; especially if you&amp;amp;#146;re on different rungs of the corporate ladder. And should you date and break up, you still have to spend five days a week with this person. Awkward.  Your coworker crush might realize this &amp;amp;#151; he may have gotten burned before &amp;amp;#151; and be a bit gun-shy. After all, there are all sorts of office politics to worry about, not to mention sexual-harassment suits that scare the bejesus out of a lot of guys. Then again, he may just be slow. Men are not great at picking up signs, so your flirting may strike him as mere water-cooler banter.  If you really want to pursue this guy, the best &amp;amp;#151; and safest &amp;amp;#151; approach would be to ask him out on a group date. Grab a drink with a bunch of coworkers. Out of the office, he&amp;amp;#146;ll most likely be much more relaxed as well as more open to your advances. If he&amp;amp;#146;s interested, believe me, he&amp;amp;#146;ll let you know. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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