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" My girlfriends and I have always dished about our sex lives, but now that I&amp;#039;m married I feel a little weird about discussing my husband&amp;#039;s anatomy or technique. How much is okay to share?  &amp;quot;Getting married involves a real shift in the bond between you and your partner and, as a result, what you want and need from your relationships with your girlfriends,&amp;quot; says REDBOOK Love Network expert Jane Greer, Ph.D., host of &amp;quot;Doctor on Call&amp;quot; at healthylife.net. &amp;quot;So it makes sense that while you used to share the nitty-gritty details of your intimacies with your pals, that same behavior might now feel like you are betraying your husband.&amp;quot;  How much is officially &amp;quot;okay&amp;quot;? That depends on your comfort level (and your guy&amp;#039;s). &amp;quot;There&amp;#039;s nothing wrong with turning to your friends to take the pulse on their feelings and expectations about their sex lives in order to think about your own,&amp;quot; says Greer. &amp;quot;Whether you&amp;#039;re there just to listen or you&amp;#039;re sharing in a general way is up to you. And if you&amp;#039;re concerned that your husband might care how much you share, ask him!&amp;quot;  If your friends are pressing you for more dirt than you want to spill, emphasize the new nature of your relationship: &amp;quot;Say, &amp;#039;I know I&amp;#039;ve always shared with you in the past, but now that Tim and I are married, we want to keep some things private,&amp;#039;&amp;quot; says Greer. And if you find yourself complaining to the gals about your sex life, she adds, the real concern is why you&amp;#039;re turning to them and not to your spouse: &amp;quot;Only he and you, not your group of girlfriends, can work to make your sexual experience more satisfying.&amp;quot; "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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