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"It&amp;#x27;s happened to the best of us: We come home from a first date so thrilled that we&amp;#x27;ve finally had a meaningful connection with a male other than our cat and wait for him to call. Except he doesn&amp;#x27;t&amp;amp;#8212;ever. Today a Smitten reader asks us, &amp;quot;WTF?&amp;quot; Our confounded reader writes this: Two weeks ago, I went on this amazing date with this guy I met online. We met for an early drink (just one) ,and then he took met to this really cool wine bar. We had the most awesome time, talked about everything under the sun&amp;amp;#8212;his job, my family, music. I don&amp;#x27;t think I&amp;#x27;ve ever had so much fun on a first date before! And I thought he liked me, too. He was touching my leg and kept complimenting me on my style and saying how pretty I was. At the end of the date, he was super sweet and told me how psyched he was to have met me. He even said he was excited to see me again. Now it&amp;#x27;s been two weeks and I haven&amp;#x27;t heard from him, but I&amp;#x27;ve seen that he&amp;#x27;s been back online. What went wrong? I can&amp;#x27;t figure it out! Hmmm... It&amp;#x27;s hard to know what&amp;#x27;s going on with him, but one thing I can tell you just from the little you shared, this is a HP (His Problem) not a YP (Your Problem). It could very well be something that has nothing to do with you! You never know what people are dealing with. God forbid, someone could be sick, he might be overwhelmed at work (the scenarios are endless), but that doesn&amp;#x27;t concern you if he&amp;#x27;s MIA. Unfortunately, he&amp;#x27;s not stepping up to the plate and giving you the attention you deserve. I&amp;#x27;m sure you&amp;#x27;re wondering if he may have lost his phone or erased your number by mistake, but the truth is he could find you online if he needed to. This sucks, I&amp;#x27;m sorry. It makes sense if this situation brings up some feelings of insecurity and rejection for you. When we don&amp;#x27;t have all the information, we make guesses to fill in the gaps, but there&amp;#x27;s really no point in doing that since we can&amp;#x27;t know for sure. My suggestion would to be to look at the date as a reminder that there are tons of hot guys out there and lots of fantastic first dates to be had! What do you think about our girl&amp;#x27;s dilemma? What advice do you have for her? Have any questions you&amp;#x27;d like us to weigh in on? Email us here. Other dating mysteries: * Guess How Long It Takes For a Dude To Decide He Wants a Second Date with You? * Ask a Guy: After How Many Dates Should I Sleep With a Guy? * The Guy&amp;#x27;s Perspective: What He&amp;#x27;s Thinking During the First Date Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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