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" My new boyfriend is very experienced. I&amp;amp;#146;m not jealous of all the girls he&amp;amp;#146;s been with, but I&amp;amp;#146;ve always been really scared of  getting an STD. And when I&amp;amp;#146;m with him, I can&amp;amp;#146;t stop worrying about it, even though we practice safe sex. Will he mind if I ask him detailed questions about his past? You have a completely legitimate concern, and you&amp;amp;#146;re smart to be safe rather than sorry. But I&amp;amp;#146;m not sure interrogating him about his dating history is the best approach.  Trading intimate details about each other&amp;amp;#146;s romantic pasts is seldom a good idea in any relationship, and just because a guy has been with other girls, it doesn&amp;amp;#146;t make him the Chlamydia King. If you start grilling him because you fear he has an STD, he&amp;amp;#146;ll understandably feel defensive and maybe even a little angry. And the thing is, whether or not those feelings cause him to lie &amp;amp;#151; and they very well might &amp;amp;#151; you won&amp;amp;#146;t really have the answers you&amp;amp;#146;re looking for anyway.  The only way for you to get them is for him to get tested. And the only way to be fair about it is to get tested with him. Don&amp;amp;#146;t bring it up before, during, or right after sex. Instead, do it when you&amp;amp;#146;re fully clothed and somewhere neutral. You can be self-deprecating about your fear of STDs (&amp;amp;#147;I spend way too much time on the Internet&amp;amp;#148;), but don&amp;amp;#146;t let him off the hook. And if he refuses, you should make yourself part of his past. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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