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"Dear Single John, After two years with my guy we called it quits. Mutually. We both agreed that we both needed to do a lot of self discovery and become independent people. His family has stayed in contact the last year or so. They, along with mutual friends, say on a regular basis that he misses me. In October we were in a wedding together. Things were awkwardly comfortable. We shared a room with another groomsman. Neither of us were drunk, so we were in the right mind to know what we were doing. This obviously led into an intensely hot makeout session. What does this mean? Do I pursue it again because the feelings I have are just as strong now as they were when we met. Or was it just a random thing? -Blushing Bridesmaid Weddings are intense. I love wedding hookups. They&amp;amp;#8217;re kind of expected, but it&amp;amp;#8217;s always nice to get swept up in the romanticism of it all and get naked with someone whose dress cost more than my rent. Unfortunately, you got together with a guy who you used to share rent with, and who you may still be in love with, which complicates things. But let&amp;amp;#8217;s call a spade a spade here: You arranged to share a room with him. It&amp;amp;#8217;s not like a surprise. This wasn&amp;amp;#8217;t a makeout tsunami that just hit you; this was a makeout Operation Enduring Freedom. Like I said before: weddings are intense. All that romance and mushy talk and booze; it&amp;amp;#8217;s a challenge NOT to end up in love with someone, never mind in bed. Is it possible you just wanted to participate in all that romantic stuff, and had the perfect person to do it with? Could this not be a little bit of pretend &amp;amp;#8220;I love you,&amp;amp;#8221; which can be pretty fun, and occasionally risk free? I think it&amp;amp;#8217;s natural that you&amp;amp;#8217;re questioning whether a relationship is a possibility again (what&amp;amp;#8217;s a good game of pretend if we don&amp;amp;#8217;t think it&amp;amp;#8217;s at least a little bit real), but that doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t mean it&amp;amp;#8217;s necessarily a good idea. The reasons you broke up still stand, and think about how easy it is to romanticize someone or something during one perfect night. This sounds likes something you should just see as a nice glimpse into the past. But only you know for sure. Has a hookup every made you reconsider getting back together with an ex? How about a wedding? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. More on Hooking Up at Glamour.com Orgasms: 8 Ways to Increase Your Chances of Having the Big One Sex Tips: A Ridiculously Easy Way to Make Sex Even More Intense He&amp;#x27;s Naked: Where Do I Look? Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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