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"Jennifer Lopez has suggested that being able to love yourself is the key to a successful relationship.  The American Idol judge said that she has learnt &amp;quot;the biggest lesson&amp;quot; in love after splitting with husband Marc Anthony in July.  &amp;quot;&amp;#039;I think I&amp;#039;ve finally learnt the biggest lesson of all,&amp;quot; she told Glamour. &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;ve got to love yourself first. You&amp;#039;ve got to be okay on your own before you can be okay with somebody else. &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;ve got to value yourself and know that you&amp;#039;re worth everything. And until you value yourself enough and love yourself enough to know that, you can&amp;#039;t really have a healthy relationship.&amp;quot; Lopez added that she is hoping to find love outside of the public eye in order to give any fledgling romance &amp;quot;a chance&amp;quot; of success.  &amp;quot;&amp;#039;I think to give something a chance, to really get to know somebody, you want to do it out of the public eye,&amp;quot; she said. &amp;quot;You know the media - they want to rush everything.&amp;quot; Lopez broke down in tears while singing about love at a concert last weekend.  She later explained that she had been overwhelmed to &amp;quot;bare a little bit of [her] thoughts&amp;quot; through the song, adding that her emotional outburst had been &amp;quot;acted out, kind of&amp;quot;.  Lopez is said to be &amp;quot;casually dating&amp;quot; Bradley Cooper.  Watch Jennifer Lopez discuss her on-stage breakdown below:  "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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