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"There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak.com (read more about them here), for their take on this dating conundrum: Q: What defines a woman to be a &amp;quot;freak in the sheets?&amp;quot; Excellent question. I&amp;#x27;m assuming you mean &amp;quot;freak in the sheets&amp;quot; in the complimentary sense, and are not referring to someone with two vaginas or a rogue digit growing out of her side. Obviously, the definition will vary from person to person based on one&amp;#x27;s level of experience. Oral sex seems kinda freaky the first time you try it, does it not? That doesn&amp;#x27;t mean there aren&amp;#x27;t some universal qualities that most people would agree define the rare, prized &amp;quot;freak in the sheets.&amp;quot; Above all else, the FITS is confident. No shrinking violet in the sack, she loves sex and makes no bones (heh) about it. She&amp;#x27;s comfortable with her body, enjoys being naked, and doesn&amp;#x27;t worry about a guy judging how she looks or smells or tastes. She has no shame or hangups about sex&amp;amp;mdash;she&amp;#x27;ll talk dirty, get busy with the lights on, pleasure herself while her guy watches. She knows she&amp;#x27;s good in bed, and loves to reaffirm it every time she gets horizontal with a guy. This confidence allows a FITS to be adventurous and unafraid to try new things in bed. If she reads about a new sex position, you can bet she&amp;#x27;ll be trying it on her man the next time they&amp;#x27;re naked. She&amp;#x27;s often the one to introduce toys or role-playing or even other people into the sexual relationship, and she takes great delight in being the first woman ever to _________ (insert semi-depraved sexual act) her guy. It&amp;#x27;s like the bumper sticker says: That thing your boyfriend does in bed? She taught him that. The freak dan les fiches is also unpredictable in the best box-of-chocolates sort of way: you never know what you&amp;#x27;re gonna get, but you know you&amp;#x27;re gonna get it good. A FITS likes to shake things up, keep a guy on his toes. She might whip out a flogger one night and a fur glove the next. She might handcuff him or find a tiny little erogenous zone behind his left knee that he never knew existed. She gets tired of bed sex and will ask for a little sumpin&amp;#x27;-sumpin&amp;#x27; in the kitchen or the shower or on the hood of the car. In the driveway. On Saturday afternoon. Finally, a true freak is passionate about sex, but I don&amp;#x27;t mean your basic, garden-variety passion that everyone thinks they possess. I&amp;#x27;m talking about someone who is completely sold out to the sexual encounter at that moment, giving every shred of her body and soul and energy. A FITS doesn&amp;#x27;t hold back&amp;amp;mdash;she&amp;#x27;s like the Tasmanian Devil &amp;#x27;twixt the bed linens. Whatever she does, she does it balls to the wall and without hesitation, distraction, judgment or regret. When you get with her, you&amp;#x27;d better bring your A-game, sir, because she never leaves home without hers. When it&amp;#x27;s over, you might leave her bed sore, bruised, sweating, even bleeding, but you&amp;#x27;ll also be a sated ball of blissed-out goo. There are other qualities that contribute to high sexual achievement&amp;amp;mdash;selflessness, stamina, creativity, others&amp;amp;mdash;but most fall under the big four listed above. And no one has them all, trust me, so don&amp;#x27;t think you fall short just because you aren&amp;#x27;t a world-beater in every category. I simply describe the ideal; how you pursue it in your quest for freakiness is, as they say, limited only by your imagination and your libido. OK, readers, time to spill: Are you a freak in the sheets (Rosemary is!)? What do you think defines a lady who is? --Written by Cary McNeal for guyspeak.com More from guyspeak.com: * Am I being too much of a tease to my boyfriend? * How can you know if a man enjoyed sex with you if he doesn&amp;#x27;t say anything? * Is my boyfriend trying to tell me he wants anal? * Friend GuySpeak on Facebook and follow them on Twitter. More Ways to Get Glamour Visit Shopglamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter. Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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