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" Dear E. Jean: I&amp;#039;ve been dating a guy for two years. We spend every single weekend together and love each other. We also see each other during the week. It&amp;#039;s fabulous. Except I just found out that ALL his online dating site accounts are still active and he logs on to each one once or twice a week. How do I confront him and get the truth? Should I break up with him?\u2014Curious Miss Curious: Ha! You&amp;#039;ve stumbled onto the most heinous secret of online dating. Since I founded GreatBoyfriends.com, I&amp;#039;ve become hyperaware; it&amp;#039;s a HUGE problem. People can become addicted to the excitement of seeing who&amp;#039;s checking them out. And they can&amp;#039;t stop logging on. I suspect your boyfriend falls into this category. So yes, the poor bugger needs to be confronted, but not with one of those grim &amp;quot;I thought we were a couple&amp;quot; convos. No. Rather, update your own profile. Make it roguish and irreverent. Change your picture to one that is four times as gorgeous as you normally look (this could require major hair and makeup, but so what?). Then send him a saucy note about how you, like, rilly love his profile and think he&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;hott! LOL!&amp;quot; Attach his favorite photo of the two of you, but Photoshop him out of it. I promise he&amp;#039;ll get the picture. Then when you see him in person, ask him to take down his profiles. P.S.: If he wants to log on to something, tell him to sell stuff on eBay, watch his stocks, or check out his horoscope at ELLE.com. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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