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" Dear Dr. H, My boyfriend is a virgin and I am not, and I have to admit, his virginity bothers me a little. What can I do to make sure our first time is a good one? Read on for Dr. Hilda Hutcherson&amp;#x27;s response... A. Often in our culture, women are taught to lay back and allow a man to take charge and teach us the ways to sexual bliss. Believe me, this is not the road to a great sex life for a woman! There&amp;#x27;s no reason to feel shame or guilt about your sexual experience--or to hold back from showing him how to be great in bed. Think of it this way: How wonderful to be able to teach a man exactly what you like without any baggage from his previous experiences? And I bet he will be an eager pupil! Take charge the first time and gently show him the way. You might be surprised to find out he&amp;#x27;s a wonderful lover! Readers, do you have questions about how to take charge in the bedroom? Let&amp;#x27;s discuss here! Or, if you have a question about anything related to your sexual health, feel free to leave it in the comments section below, or send me an e-mail. And don&amp;#x27;t forget to check back regularly, right here on Vitamin G to see if I&amp;#x27;ve answered it. More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering for or logging in to Glamour.com! Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;#x27;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow us on Twitter! "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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