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"The New Moon hunk has nothing but kind words for his raven-haired co-star, Kristen Stewart, but he says that he could never date her. The reason?&amp;quot;I think she&amp;#x27;s too independent for my blood,&amp;quot; Lutz revealed. &amp;quot;She&amp;#x27;s so spicy.&amp;quot; Too independent? What does that mean?! Reading this frustrated me so much. I was raised by strong, fearless, sassy women who taught me to be the same way. I assumed that my self-sufficiency would be a turn-on for guys, but it seems to freak a lot of dudes out. &amp;amp;#8220;Guys have to feel needed,&amp;amp;#8221; my friend Gabe explained. &amp;amp;#8220;We have very fragile egos, and if we don&amp;amp;#8217;t think a girl has any use for us, we get scared and run away.&amp;amp;#8221; I don&amp;#x27;t think that all guys feel this way, which is a good thing because I have no intention of becoming less &amp;amp;#8220;spicy&amp;amp;#8221; and neither should Kristen! I guess the solution is to find a dude who&amp;#x27;s just as autonomous as I am. It&amp;amp;#8217;s just like my grandma Gigi always said, &amp;amp;#8220;Love isn&amp;amp;#8217;t about looking at each other, it&amp;amp;#8217;s about looking out in the same direction.&amp;amp;#8221; Has a dude ever told you that you&amp;amp;#8217;re too independent? How did you respond? For more on being an independent woman... Do you lean on your guy too much? How a self-reliant girl can learn to loosen up and relinquish some control! One of our favorite fearless females: Maria Shriver! More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering or logging in to Glamour.com! Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;#x27;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow Glamour on Twitter. Photo: Getty Images"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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