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" Question I have been heterosexually active since my early teens but I have rarely ejaculated during foreplay or sex. I don&amp;#039;t have this problem if I masturbate alone. I have had a number of short-lived straight relationships.  Several years ago, with an open mind, I tried gay sex. I knew and liked a gay man so we went out a few times. The first time we were naked in bed together, I was sober and I vomited.  I know that I am straight but still I can&amp;#039;t come inside or outside a woman. I&amp;#039;ve tried sex with condoms, without condoms, I get in all sorts of positions, I love foreplay and caressing and taking my time but I just can&amp;#039;t come.  My current girlfriend is definitely the woman I want to marry and have children with. We excite each other a lot and we have a great relationship.  We talk about it but she doesn&amp;#039;t understand why I don&amp;#039;t ejaculate and it&amp;#039;s a little upsetting for us both because I have no answer. I don&amp;#039;t have any apparent physical problems so maybe it&amp;#039;s psychological.  I just want to sort it out. Do you have any advice?   Answer Yes. Sorry to hear about this. You have a well-known problem called delayed ejaculation &amp;amp;#8211; also known as delayed ejaculation, retarded ejaculation or ejaculatory incompetence. It&amp;#039;s very common, and it takes various forms.  But most commonly, the guy can come while on his own, but can&amp;#039;t do it inside (or near) a woman. As you can appreciate, that more or less describes you.  We have written an article on delayed ejaculation which I hope you will read as it will give you a clearer picture of the condition.   Clearly, you want to put this problem right and be able to have children. So when you&amp;#039;ve read our article, you and your partner need to go and see a sex therapist who is used to treating this condition. (More details in the article.) Very good luck to you both. Yours sincerely Dr David Delvin, GP   Other Qs &amp;amp; As Has my cancer operation left me unable to ejaculate? His spinal cord condition affects his ejaculation I always &amp;#039;come&amp;#039; too quickly I ejaculate in my sleep I have no feeling when I orgasm I have tried various techniques to treat my premature ejaculation but none of them seem to work I haven&amp;amp;#8217;t been able to come I orgasm too quickly I think my man suffers from delayed ejaculation If a man has had both testicles removed can he still climax and ejaculate? Is hypnotherapy a good idea for premature ejaculation? Is my inability to ejaculate linked to my vasectomy? Is there anything that can help me last longer during intercourse? My boyfriend cannot ejaculate when we have sex My husband gets a headache on climaxing &amp;amp;#8211; is this normal? My partner can&amp;#039;t &amp;#039;come&amp;#039; My partner has real trouble reaching orgasm My premature ejaculation is affecting my lovelife Premature climax Premature ejaculation The consistency of my ejaculations has changed The force with which I ejaculate has been declining  There are no intense feelings when I ejaculate Why are there jelly-like lumps in my ejaculate? Will hypnosis help my premature ejaculation?   Last updated 03.11.2011 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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