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"  We hear you used to perform with an improv comedy group and get to use those skills on Five-0. How do you keep your wife laughing? My new character is totally different than Jin. He&amp;#039;s friendly \u2014 and he actually speaks English! So there have been a lot of light moments on set. I&amp;#039;m funny at home too, but not deliberately. My wife is usually laughing at me rather than with me. Is it true that you&amp;#039;ve kept every love letter you&amp;#039;ve ever received? What&amp;#039;s up with that? Yeah, even ones from elementary school that are like, &amp;quot;I hate you. Meet me at lunch.&amp;quot; I have this overly romantic notion that when I&amp;#039;m 80 I&amp;#039;ll be in a rocking chair on the front porch and sift through them, remembering happy times.  Um, what does your wife think about that? Most of them are from her. We still write each other. On birthdays or special occasions we&amp;#039;ll write a note in a card and hide it around the house, like next to the toothbrushes. What&amp;#039;s the most important thing you&amp;#039;ve learned from almost 20 years of marriage that you want to teach your sons?  To think about the other person&amp;#039;s perspective before you speak. There is as much wisdom in listening as there is in speaking \u2014 and that goes for all relationships, not just romantic ones.  It&amp;#039;s Friday night, date night, as we do this interview. If you weren&amp;#039;t working, what would you and your wife be doing? Having a quiet dinner at a restaurant with a nice view, then maybe a movie. But usually we&amp;#039;ll run errands. It&amp;#039;s a joke between us that after a beautiful dinner, we&amp;#039;ll say, &amp;quot;Let&amp;#039;s hit the supermarket?&amp;quot; But with two boys and a new puppy, we don&amp;#039;t get out much. We&amp;#039;re usually home doing stuff together as a family, like watching Modern Family. So which of the Modern Family couples are you and your wife most like? Julie Bowen and Ty Burrell. I can relate to the mom being the commander of the house and the husband falling in line and saying &amp;quot;yes&amp;quot; to whatever she wants. Good survival technique.  Speaking of survival, on Lost, Jin chose death over living without his wife. What&amp;#039;s more important: the occasional grand romantic gesture or regular little ones?  My wife will tell you it&amp;#039;s the little things, like driving my boys to school on my days off so she can rest. We&amp;#039;re not into PDA, but every time we end a phone conversation, we say &amp;quot;sarang,&amp;quot; which means love in Korean. But we don&amp;#039;t say it with the proper accent, so Koreans don&amp;#039;t understand what we&amp;#039;re saying and neither do Americans. It&amp;#039;s our little secret \u2014 well, until now.   --TIFFANY BLACKSTONE DANIEL AT A GLANCE The last thing he learned to do: RIDE A MOTORCYCLE Old TV show he wants remade: THE LOVE BOAT &amp;quot;I watched it every Saturday as a kid.&amp;quot; Fave Turkey Day side dish: KIMCHI &amp;quot;In Hawaii, where I live, they even serve it on burgers.&amp;quot; "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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