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" Q: I&amp;#039;m happily engaged, but ever since my ex-husband cheated on me, I&amp;#039;ve worried that it&amp;#039;ll happen again. My fianc\u00E9 is very handsome and outgoing, so I always end up watching his every move when we&amp;#039;re out. I get on edge when I see him interact with women, whether they&amp;#039;re friends, acquaintances, or total strangers. How do I make it stop? --M.B., 45, MASSACHUSETTS A: It&amp;#039;s totally natural for you to feel this way after what you&amp;#039;ve been through--it&amp;#039;s a slow road to recovery when someone you love has betrayed you. Don&amp;#039;t beat yourself up for worrying. You should be incredibly proud of yourself for bouncing back and letting love in again! But it sounds like you still don&amp;#039;t believe you&amp;#039;re worthy of having a partner who is loyal to you. When you start to feel nervous, remind yourself that you deserve this amazing, handsome, friendly guy who loves you very much. The person you&amp;#039;re going to marry is not the same person you were married to before. I can&amp;#039;t tell you when you&amp;#039;re going to stop feeling so on edge, but I do know that time is an incredible healer. You&amp;#039;ve already taken the first--and scariest--step by giving your heart to someone new. Ask Soleil anything about your complicated friend, family, marriage, or work situations. Send questions to soleil@redbookmag.com (include your initials, age, and state), or tweet us @redbookmag with the hashtag #Soleil. Questions may be edited for clarity and length. Soleil Moon Frye is the author of Happy Chaos. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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