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"facebook dialogPinterest\n\n _\n\nDear Rachel,\n\nOne of my best friends in the whole entire world is completely obsessed with her boyfriend. She just turned 15 at the end of last month, and he's 18, and theyve been together for almost 7 months. I cant remember the last time she asked me to hang out, and when I ask her if she wants to hang out, she wants to leave as soon as she can so she can go see her boyfriend. He's all she ever talks about. Most of the time when I ask her if she wants to hang out, she asks if he can come too at the last second. When theyre not together, which is extremely rare, theyre CONSTANTLY texting. Me and my other best friend, who is also best friends with her, have tried talking to her about it several times and nothing has changed.\n\nShe and I dance together, and dance used to be her life. Now she's even started dropping dance classes and failing to learn her choreography and shes stopped helping with classes, so that she can spend more time with her boyfriend. I can't even be upset with her boyfriend about it, because he's a great guy, and he's nothing but sweet to her and he does nothing but love her. But I'm so fed up, and I dont know what to do. I hope you can help. Thanks a bunch.\n\nJV\n\n_\n\nHey JV,\n\nThere are two things wrong with this picture:\n\nYour best friend has totally disappeared from your life. She was totally there for you and was someone you loved and hung out with - and now shes MIA. That hurts. A lot. No matter how happy she is with someone else, its hard not to take that personally. It leaves a painful hole in your life.Your best friend has lost herself inside a relationship. Watching someone you love disappear is scary. What your friend is doing is NOT healthy. It doesnt matter how crazy in love you are with someone; being in love does not mean losing who you are. The healthiest love relationships are ones that make you a better version of yourself - not the ones that make you drop classes, bag on your friends and shrink into someone who just lives for the next text from her guy."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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