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"I have another great book recommendation: He&amp;#039;s History, You&amp;#039;re Not \u2013 Surviving Divorce After 40, by Erica Manfred. This is a comprehensive book, and it covers a lot of the bases for those of us who have been set adrift mid-life. Erica decided to touch on just about every aspect of what divorce does to the world of a middle-aged woman. There are chapters on grief, finding a lawyer, living alone (and liking it!), finances, dealing with your children (grown or not so grown), figuring out what went wrong in your marriage, dating (especially online dating), and moving on with your life. She even has separate chapters dealing with reconciliation (should you choose to go that route), and dealing with the pain of betrayal and another woman. I like the way she really checks off the list of just about everything you&amp;#039;ll need to cover, and she does so with humor, warmth, and a real feeling for just how crazy this whole process really is. Her advice is no-nonsense, and rather than get meticulously in-depth on things like finances and lawyers, she gives you helpful advice and resources to get specific answers to what you need to know. There&amp;#039;s also an additional &amp;quot;Resources&amp;quot; chapter at the end, will all kinds of helpful websites, books and other information that you can really use. I don&amp;#039;t have a lot of time to scour every divorce book out there, but this is one I&amp;#039;m glad I put my nose in. Do any of you have a book recommendation? You feel so lost when you&amp;#039;re going through all this, any kind of good information is a piece of driftwood you can cling to in an ocean of chaos. I&amp;#039;d love to have more to add to my reading list. What book helped you the most? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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