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"This girl had recently gone on a date with a guy she would see every few weeks, Steve. They would always have an amazing time, amazing sex, and each and every time she would assume that this meant things would progress into more regular hang outs.And each and every time, she was wrong. &amp;amp;#8220;I don&amp;amp;#8217;t get it&amp;amp;#8212;he texted me for a few days after and then poof! He just vanished. AGAIN.&amp;amp;#8221; I just shrugged lamely. I had no clue either and could only offer my own painful stories of similar jerks and their baffling behavior. Trying to turn a one-night stand into a relationship? Check out how! So I turned to my wisest guy friend, Sean, for advice. &amp;amp;#8220;Here&amp;amp;#8217;s the thing,&amp;amp;#8221; he said officially, &amp;amp;#8220;men can fall in love for just one night. We can compartmentalize feelings and not think about anything further than that night. It&amp;amp;#8217;s a core difference between men and women.&amp;amp;#8221; This sexy celeb hates the &amp;quot;hard to get&amp;quot; act--and boys love her! &amp;amp;#8220;But if you have such a great time with a girl, why wouldn&amp;amp;#8217;t want to have more great times and actually date her?&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8220;It has to do with the whole &amp;amp;#8216;spread the seed&amp;amp;#8217; caveman thing.&amp;amp;#8220; Are you dating a true jerk or just a typical male? Then he said something that made me realize just how dumb boys can be. &amp;amp;#8220;This guy Steve knew with 99-percent certainty that your friend was a sure thing that night. But if he went out to a bar, the chances of him getting laid or even meeting someone tolerable were considerably lower. But yet, that concept of the unknown, of the possibility was so enticing, most guys choose that.&amp;amp;#8221; I FEEL LIKE I&amp;amp;#8217;M EATING CRAZY PILLS. &amp;amp;#8220;So lemme get this straight,&amp;amp;#8221; I said, trying not to weep with frustration, &amp;amp;#8220;guys would rather troll the bars, chatting up potential losers, than hang out with a cool chick and have great sex?&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8220;Well&amp;amp;#133;yes. Sometimes.&amp;amp;#8221; I stared at him numbly. While this certainly isn&amp;amp;#8217;t what any woman wants to hear, the truth is always helpful. He said that my friend should tell Steve that she&amp;amp;#8217;s not going to be his jump-off anymore and if he decides to man up and date her, he knows her number. Hear Jake&amp;#x27;s thoughts on keeping the thrill after the chase! What do you make of this? What would you tell Steve? Is Sean telling the truth or (please god) just some terrible lie?? Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;amp;#8217;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering or logging in to Glamour.com! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow us on Twitter. Photo: Getty Images"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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