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"I wrote a post recently about Sex With Mr. Big. While I was referring to men&amp;#039;s appendages, I was also speaking of personality, power and spirit. I was floored by the mix of results I received. Some women were adamant that they absolutely, without a doubt, needed a large man to fill them up - in more ways than one. Others were content with a huge heart. I heard from men also, all the way from the Size 4 camp up to the Big 10 Institute. Wowzer! Followed by a big fat Owwwww. In thinking about the comments, it became clear that like anything in life, it&amp;#039;s all about your perspective. What you are looking for in a one night stand might be extremely different than what you will consider for the long term. I, for one, feel fortunate that I&amp;#039;m attracted to my husband not just physically but for what he provides in the big picture. My perspective helps me not only enjoy our present, but even when I want to throw him out with the Yuban grinds, I get through it knowing that the good far outweighs the bad. It&amp;#039;s now time to hear from the men (and women) about larger women. I&amp;#039;m specifically interested in weight. My question is this: Say men marry Barbie at size 2, but after she has 2 kids, she&amp;#039;s a size 6. Or a size 16. Do you think your wife is less attractive, or is she more attractive because of what she&amp;#039;s added to your family? Is there a line between a woman &amp;quot;letting herself completely go&amp;quot; and accepting that she is no longer 19? I can&amp;#039;t say I personally struggle with weight. I would like to lose those 8 pounds, but I am so tall, it doesn&amp;#039;t really show. However, since I&amp;#039;ve been more conscious about what I eat, I&amp;#039;m more interested in sex. I know Rex loves me the way I am, but he sure seems more turned on when my waist gets smaller, making the twins seem that much perkier. And no, I don&amp;#039;t think he&amp;#039;s a pig, anymore than I think women are shallow for liking large appendages. Everyone has their likes and dislikes. What I find the most interesting is the gray area. Is a man happier with an averaged size wife (or a bit heavy) who loves herself and wants sex all the time, or a trophy wife who looks perfect but has a low libido? Does the happy medium exist?  What do you think? As for me, I&amp;#039;m going to lose that 8 pounds. But not tonight. Instead, I&amp;#039;m going to sip my Frappucino, which Rex is so sweetly buying for me as I type this post. And then I&amp;#039;m going to plop on the couch and watch Hells Kitchen. Which will only make me hungrier. (I wonder if Chef Ramsay is having extra curricular cooking with one of his contestants? Like he cares that I care... moving on.) For more on this subject, you can visit a frequent commenter, Beth. Catcalling, nude models, heavy set women... she covers it all, baby! (Or uncovers, I should say.) "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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