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" One of my best guy friends is a total player who always strings girls along. If he actually does get into a relationship, he usually winds up cheating. He says that he just hasn&amp;#039;t met a girl who could actually hold his interest. Well, I guess he decided that I was that girl, because the other day, he confessed his love for me. I feel the same way, but I&amp;#039;m concerned about his cheating. He said that it would be different with me, but I&amp;#039;m not sure. What do you think? Not to be a player hater, but you need to be cautious. Very cautious. If at some point he had proved to be a nice, decent boyfriend, I might say, &amp;quot;Go for it!&amp;quot; because at least you&amp;#039;d know he was capable of a healthy relationship. But all you have to go on is his lying, cheating track record. That should be a big flashing warning sign to stay the hell away. Another red flag: Notice how he never takes responsibility for his infidelity &amp;amp;#151; he blames his bad behavior on the fact that the girls were lame, rather than admitting to his own shortcomings. This attitude is what allows a cheater to indulge in all of his selfish whims &amp;amp;#151; without regard for anyone else&amp;#039;s feelings. I know, I know. You&amp;#039;re probably saying, &amp;quot;But it will be different with me. He just hasn&amp;#039;t met The One...and I&amp;#039;m it!&amp;quot; Why is it that every woman thinks she&amp;#039;s going to save a man from his heinous habits? The truth is, most people don&amp;#039;t change, at least not very much. To expect that a player will magically morph into a monogamous man is asking a lot. Even if you do give it a chance, I worry you won&amp;#039;t ever be able to trust him. Knowing what he&amp;#039;s done to others, you don&amp;#039;t think you&amp;#039;ll get jealous if he comes home late one night or you catch him talking to another girl? I know you have feelings for him, and maybe it&amp;#039;s worth a shot. Hey, I hope I&amp;#039;m wrong! But if he ends up doing the same thing to you that he&amp;#039;s done to countless other chicks, you&amp;#039;ll not only lose a boyfriend but a good friend as well. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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