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"After Tuesday&amp;amp;#8217;s story about the most passive-aggressive post-date text ever, I found this next crazy story to be kind of acceptable. Am I nuts? Deadspin posted a dating disaster story yesterday sent in by a reader about a guy she dated in Philadelphia (P.S.--a shout out to our sweet reader Pam who tweeted me the story to make sure I saw it). They met on OKCupid, went a few dates, and then agreed to call it quits. The reader says he was attractive but kind of awkward. And to prove her point, after their decision to stop seeing each other, he decided to engage in his self-professed enjoyment of data collection&amp;amp;#133;by sending her a survey to fill out regarding her interaction with him! Under the headings First Impression, Date, Conclusion and Form, he asked her to answer a variety of questions, including &amp;amp;#8220;Mike is very self conscious about his hair. Does he have reason to be?&amp;amp;#8221; and &amp;amp;#8220;How are Mike&amp;amp;#8217;s conversation skills? He didn&amp;amp;#8217;t talk about himself the whole night&amp;amp;#133; did he?&amp;amp;#8221; You can check out the full date response form over at Deadspin. Let it be said that this Mike pays attention to details - he included a stamped and addressed return envelope with the survey. Am I losing it if I this is kind of hilarious? It seems to me from the joking tone of the questions that this was meant as a quirky kind of joke, especially since it seems like they had a decent time getting to know each other and an amicable split. Plus, come on, who doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t secretly want to know what a person you dated thought you could improve upon? But OK, I guess if someone actually sent this to me I&amp;amp;#8217;d be a littled weirded out. Do you think this is a Dating Fail or a Dating Funny? Would you ever want feedback from someone you&amp;amp;#8217;ve dated but it didn&amp;amp;#8217;t work out with? I assume you wouldn&amp;amp;#8217;t send a survey though. Or would you?? While we&amp;#x27;re on the topic of post-date feedback: *Dude Pull a Vanishing Act On You? There&amp;#x27;s an App For That *Ask a Guy: &amp;amp;#8220;When Guys Disappear, Is It Worth Contacting Them for Closure?&amp;amp;#8221; *Reader&amp;#x27;s Dilemma: &amp;quot;We Had Such a Great Date and He Never Called Me Again. WTF?&amp;quot; Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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