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" I lost my sex drive! My boyfriend and I used to have sex all the time. What&amp;#039;s wrong with me! Let&amp;#039;s go over the possibilities. The reasons are either physical or psychological:   You&amp;#039;re both really busy, and your mind is elsewhere. You&amp;#039;re stressed-out and worried about your job or your bills.  You&amp;#039;re taking antidepressants, which can knock out your sex drive.  You&amp;#039;re mad at him for the dopey thing(s) he said to you.  He&amp;#039;s kind of lame in bed, and you&amp;#039;re bored with the same-old same-old.  You&amp;#039;re not having orgasms, so you&amp;#039;re losing interest.  You&amp;#039;re drifting apart in other aspects of your relationship.  You&amp;#039;re just too tired.  You&amp;#039;re just not that into him.  Low sex drive is more common in women due to the fact that men have testosterone surging through their bodies (and their boners), which is why they think about sex 24-7.  To regain your sex drive, you have to address the reasons why you think it&amp;#039;s low.  If you&amp;#039;re stressed-out, for instance, you have to de-stress. Use a yoga position plus breathing to quickly relax and up your energy. (Lie on the floor with your arms parallel to your body, and, supporting yourself on your arms, raise your torso, lifting up your abs and sucking them in as you breath out. Do that 10 times for a quick lift.) Or ask your boyfriend to give you a sexy massage. (Babeland.com has these really fun candles made out of soy that melt and then turn into massage oil.) A tantric exercise used for low sex drive is to sit in the lotus position, sucking in your pubococcygeus muscles as you breathe and mentally directing the energy toward your &amp;quot;yoni.&amp;quot; (your vajajay). Men are always thinking about their penises, so we should do the same and direct our thoughts down there. Try it. It will shift your thoughts to sex.  If you&amp;#039;re not feeling interested in sex with your boyfriend, it&amp;#039;s sometimes a symptom that you&amp;#039;re not satisfied with some other aspect of the relationship. I always think that when you find yourself having less sex, you should communicate more. If you&amp;#039;re mad at him, talk to him about it in a nice, nonconfrontational way.  Or maybe it is the sex. I&amp;#039;m always amazed when people are too embarrassed to talk to the person they are having sex with. If you&amp;#039;re bored with his sexual techniques (or lack of them), you have to take charge and go out of your comfort zone. Use a different position, do it in a different room or at a different time, or go to a &amp;quot;nice&amp;quot; sex store (like Babeland or Good Vibrations) together and see what new stuff they have that might interest you. (It&amp;#039;s always revealing to find out what you like.) "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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