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"&amp;amp;#8220;I get told I give amazing oral sex and I know how to work it. My last relationship, I always surprised him with a good oral sexxion and he loved it. He then tells me I&amp;#x27;m a perfect girl while he&amp;#x27;s breaking up with me. If I&amp;#x27;m perfect why let me go?--Good Head Bad Mind &amp;amp;#8220;You&amp;amp;#8217;re a perfect girl&amp;amp;#8221; is something we say to lighten the blow when we are breaking up with you. Others include: &amp;quot;I can&amp;amp;#8217;t deal with a relationship right now.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;I&amp;amp;#8217;m too selfish.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;You&amp;amp;#8217;re too good for me.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;You&amp;#x27;re someone I want to marry, but we can&amp;#x27;t date right now.&amp;quot; &amp;quot;It&amp;amp;#8217;s not you it&amp;amp;#8217;s me.&amp;quot; We don&amp;amp;#8217;t say these things to cause debate or inner turmoil, we say them because we want to feel better about what we are doing and we think using language like this will make it hurt less. Some of us know better. Some of us know that cutting the cord immediately and totally is the right way to end things. And this goes for both men and women doing the breaking up. As for the relationship of blow jobs to breakups, I&amp;amp;#8217;m sorry, but none really exists. You can be the most amazing lover in the history of lovers; once we are psychologically or emotionally over someone, that sexual power is almost negligible. So, congrats on being awesome at blow jobs, but that really has nothing to do with whether a guy will stay with you or not. In a failing relationship, great sex will buy you a few weeks. A few months, tops. Have you ever stayed with someone longer because of good sex? Ever broken up with someone because of the opposite? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. Can be totally Anonymous! More on What Men Want at Glamour.com Jake Admits: &amp;amp;#8220;I Have a Crush on My Doctor!&amp;amp;#8221; Sex Tip From a Guy: Slow Down, Cowgirls Ask a Guy: Long After a Breakup, I&amp;#x27;m Ready To Have Sex Again; Will My Inexperience Work Against Me? Photo: Thinkstock "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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