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"  DEAR E. JEAN : I&amp;#039;m 28 and I think I may be addicted to my vibrator. It provides bliss 10 or 11 times in a single hour; but a man? It takes forever. I&amp;#039;m concerned on several levels: Is it blocking my ability to have meaningful relationships with guys? And my own body\u2014am I burning it down to a little unresponsive nub? Am I doing it too much? I&amp;#039;m worried, so I only do it every two weeks. Am I destined to hum myself to sleep alone for eternity?\u2014Creating Buzz BUZZ, MY BOOF : Let me get this straight: You&amp;#039;re experiencing the biggest Whoop Dee Do known to womankind 11 times an hour, and you&amp;#039;re asking Auntie Eeee about...guys? Take the fabled gizmo to bed with your lover. It will make your relationship more pleasurable, if not more wildly &amp;quot;meaningful.&amp;quot; (If it&amp;#039;s a problem for him, talk about it.) The real question is: Why limit your skills set to one gadget? Does Bonnie Raitt strum her guitar with only one pick? Does Maria Sharapova confine her game to her backhand? No, no, my dear. Geniuses became proficient in their domains because they train themselves to master new skills. Would we worship Julia Child if she&amp;#039;d refused to whip her meringue with a gravy whisk? Phoo. You need constant practice with other methods, including male thingamabobs, or, indeed, you risk short-circuiting your buttercup. Related:Ask E. Jean: Should I Leave New York to be a Big Fish in a Small Pond?Ask E. Jean: Would You Take Back a Man Who Doesn&amp;#039;t Do Oral?Ask E. Jean: If 2,000 Times You Don&amp;#039;t Succeed...Text Another "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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