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"Ashton Kutcher was quoted recently saying he could never be with a woman who would try and change him. Right. Once a cheater, always a.... moving on. In light of what Ashton had to say, I realized that while we&amp;amp;#8217;re always asking ourselves what men are looking for in a girl, rarely do we consider what they want to steer clear of like three strains of the plague. I asked my guy friends what make them run in the other direction when they&amp;amp;#8217;re getting to know someone. And, boy, did they have a lot to say. &amp;quot;I&amp;#x27;m not looking for a woman who wants to take my money or who wants to talk about where we are in our relationship. I&amp;amp;#8217;m definitely not looking for someone who wants to discuss previous sexual history, and she best not cheat on me with my friends.&amp;quot; - Tyler, 22 model &amp;quot;I&amp;#x27;m not looking for a girl who will put up with my bull. In my experience, women are too forgiving of assh*** personality traits. I want a girl who will call me out when I&amp;#x27;m acting like a jackass.&amp;quot; - Julian, 27, fashion blogger &amp;quot;I don&amp;amp;#8217;t want someone who bats her eyes or employs similar coy silliness to get away with stuff. It seems like you are saying, &amp;#x27;Oops, silly me, I&amp;#x27;m just a girl.&amp;#x27; Don&amp;#x27;t Betty Boop me. You&amp;#x27;re expecting me to subscribe to some antiquated damsel-in-distress crap, which just sets us all back 30 years.&amp;quot; - Paul, 30, actor &amp;quot;I&amp;#x27;m not looking for a women who has a lots of guys waiting for her in the wings. She should know she&amp;amp;#8217;s dope without a gaggle of guys constantly confirming it. And she should be really good at telling guys to f*** off at this point; she&amp;amp;#8217;s been doing it her whole life... I hope.&amp;quot; - Randy, 30, banker &amp;quot;I&amp;#x27;m not interested in someone who is cool with me turning into a hobo towards the end of every week. I do that because I&amp;#x27;m sad and lonely or not trying to impress anyone. I WANT to impress you. It&amp;#x27;s nice when a lady wants the best I got. But hobo sometimes is OK, because you love me for me.&amp;quot; - Ryder, 29, musician &amp;quot;The last thing I need is a woman trying to be my mom. Please please don&amp;#x27;t tell me to bring a sweater to the movies. I have a mom and she&amp;#x27;s annoying enough!&amp;quot; - Ian, 32, journalist I&amp;#x27;m not interested in a woman without a good sense of humor, who is insecure in a non-genuine way, who thinks Bridesmaids is THE SH**, who doesn&amp;#x27;t like books, or has a lot of things she won&amp;#x27;t eat.&amp;amp;#8221; - James, 25, music supervisor Are you surprised by their answers? Do you agree or disagree with what they say? More on what men want: * Dirty Talk 101: How Guys Really Want You to Talk About Sex * Sex Tips From a Guy: Cross This One Off Your Sex Positions To Do List * Hooking Up: A Super Easy Way to Discover What You (and Your Boyfriend) Really Like in Bed Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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