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"Today we&amp;amp;#8217;re helping out a reader who is receiving mixed messages from a guy she recently hooked up with. And to keep things fun, John will also answer this question today on Single-ish. Here is our lovely reader&amp;amp;#8217;s dilemma: Okay so I met this guy about 3 weeks ago at a friend&amp;amp;#8217;s house. He caught my eye from the moment I walked in but I&amp;#x27;m a shy girl so I ignored it. I found out later on from conversating with him that he was actually a really easy person to talk to. We had a few drinks (no, we were not drunk) and once we were alone he asked me if he could kiss me which I think is totally cheesy but I was just so into the guy that I did. We then had about a 2 hour make out session and then fell asleep. I woke up that morning next to him and decided he was just too cute to let pass by and wrote my number on his arm. I was extremely nervous to see if he&amp;#x27;d text me because I had never done anything like this before but he did! He wrote that he had an awesome time with me and we proceeded to a little bit of small talk. Later that week we hung out a few times but he made no moves whatsoever. Then one day we were at my friend&amp;amp;#8217;s house again and he said he needed to talk to me. He let me know that he really liked me but he wasn&amp;#x27;t ready for a relationship. This was a bummer to me because I really like the guy and I would like to see where this goes but if he doesn&amp;#x27;t want a relationship, what&amp;#x27;s the point? We&amp;#x27;ve been continuing to hang out and we do make out and what not, but I haven&amp;#x27;t had sex with him. What should I do? Should I continue to see him even though I feel like I&amp;#x27;m gonna fall for him? --Anonymous And now for my two cents: Thank you so much for emailing me, Anonymous! First, I have to give props. Writing your number on a guy&amp;#x27;s arm is a pretty awesome move. Now for the news that might be hard to swallow. If he&amp;amp;#8217;s telling you he doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t want a relationship, it means he doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t want a relationship. I know a lot of girls hear this and think they can change the guy&amp;amp;#8217;s mind. While that may work out in rare situations, you deserve a guy who is as into it as you are. Perhaps the reason he&amp;amp;#8217;s not &amp;amp;#8220;ready&amp;amp;#8221; for relationship is that he&amp;amp;#8217;s still getting over a bad break up. Or he has feelings for someone else. Or he just wants to keep his options open and have fun. Whatever his thought processes and issues are, they shouldn&amp;amp;#8217;t be your burden to sort out. Even if you really like him, he&amp;amp;#8217;s not going to be as serious about starting something. You&amp;amp;#8217;re going to be the only one putting in any effort. And that is just not fair to you. I&amp;amp;#8217;d say move on. Have you ever been in a situation like our Anonymous friend? What do you think she should do? Why do girls stick with guys who don&amp;amp;#8217;t want relationships? The challenge? P.S. Do you have a dating dilemma you&amp;amp;#8217;d like us to address? Email it to me here. You&amp;amp;#8217;ve got questions, we&amp;amp;#8217;ve got answers. * Why were we closer when we lived in different countries? * Help! We lost the spark! * What to do when he&amp;amp;#8217;s afraid to commit. More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering or logging in to Glamour.com! Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;#x27;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow Glamour on Twitter. Photo: Jupiter Images. Image used for illustrative purposes only."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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