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" My boyfriend is very caring and attentive in bed, but sometimes I wish he&amp;#039;d be more aggressive and wild. How can I get him to loosen up without hurting his feelings? Your man&amp;#039;s probably sticking with his sweet-and-tender sack style because if you&amp;#039;ve never told him anything different, he thinks that&amp;#039;s what you want. Chances are that once you let him know you&amp;#039;d like to shake up the sexual status quo, he&amp;#039;ll be willing to comply. Of course, you don&amp;#039;t want to obliterate his ego by critiquing his lovemaking skills, but there&amp;#039;s nothing wrong with simply asking him to touch you a certain way or suggesting you try a new mattress move. In fact, since he&amp;#039;s not a mind reader, he&amp;#039;ll likely appreciate the frisky feedback.  If you&amp;#039;d rather not be as direct, you can bring out his inner animal by initiating some pulse-pounding passion yourself. Next time you&amp;#039;re fooling around, pull his face close to yours and kiss him hard; push him onto his back and hold his wrists over his head as you ride him like a horny cowgirl; grab his buns and pull him toward you when you&amp;#039;re doing the deed in the missionary position. Then, have him follow your primal lead. And, make sure he hears your moans and groans so he knows just how much you like his wilder side. Or, whenever you get a sudden libidinous urge, give in to your erotic impulses and jump him for a quickie. Treating him like a sex object every now and then -- and letting him know it&amp;#039;s okay to do the same to you -- should fire his desire. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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