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"We learned a few weeks back that most of you don&amp;amp;#8217;t expect your husband to be the breadwinner. But how would you feel if he wasn&amp;amp;#8217;t bringing home any bread at all? Many years ago I worked with a woman whose husband stayed home with their baby boy. When they started this arrangement (and stopped paying for outside childcare) I think she was really happy with their decision. She seemed to be on the fast-track at work, and his career was more creative and less financially promising. Still, two or three years in, I think she started getting a little bitter. She was frustrated with her job (I do work in publishing, after all) and staying super-late several days a week. Her husband would call around 7, once their son was in bed and he was watching TV, and ask what she was doing and when she was coming home. There were nights I swear you could see steam pouring out of her ears. And I kind of get that. I can see where a hard-working mom with a stay-at-home husband would start to feel resentful. I know that raising a child while running a household is hard work&amp;amp;#8212;I&amp;amp;#8217;m not belittling that job! I just don&amp;amp;#8217;t think this setup would work for me. Would you guys want your husband to be a stay-at-home dad? Do you think you would start to feel bitter on the days (or nights) you were busting your butt? Would you prefer this arrangement, which would allow your kids to be raised by a parent rather than a stranger? Or would you want to be the one to stay at home, even if it meant less money for your family? More pressing questions: * Want to See Rosemary&amp;amp;#8217;s Save the Dates Before Her Guests Do? * Who&amp;amp;#8217;s More Likely to Cry at Your Wedding: You or Your Groom? * Which of These Shrugs Would You Wear on Your Wedding Day? More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering or logging in to Glamour.com! Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;amp;#8217;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow Glamour on Twitter. Photo: Thinkstock "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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