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"He has friends. They are girls. He&amp;amp;#8217;s close with them. It makes you uncomfortable. What to do&amp;amp;#133; Dear Single John, I live with my bf and we talk about getting engaged. Everything is perfect&amp;amp;#8212;except his friend Mandy. They have been friends for a long time with no sexual history. She has her own boyfriend, but he sucks. As a result, she tends to rely on my boyfriend a LOT. She asks him to go places with her when her boyfriend bails on her, asks him to move furniture for her since her boyfriend is busy&amp;amp;#8212;and this Valentine&amp;#x27;s Day, she made my boyfriend cupcakes and tried to come on our date with us. It&amp;#x27;s all very innocent, but her actions are making me uncomfortable. I want my boyfriend to say something, but he thinks its all nothing. --Hands Off Please It may be innocent, especially because it sounds like your BF has no romantic interest in her, but that doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t mean it&amp;amp;#8217;s OK. It&amp;amp;#8217;s totally inappropriate for her to try and hijack your V-day plans, and to bring your bf V-day cupcakes, no matter how close they are or how stupid some of us may think Valentine&amp;#x27;s Day is. Your bf needs to man up and tell her to back down. And he can&amp;amp;#8217;t blame you. Your name should not even come up. As a guy with a couple female best friends, I&amp;amp;#8217;ve been this dude before and have dealt with the jealousy. Sometimes, my girlfriends have been jealous for no reason other than there was another woman I cared for. But sometimes they had good grounds, in that I wasn&amp;amp;#8217;t setting proper barriers. You don&amp;amp;#8217;t want to be ungenerous or jealous, but your protests sound not like those things at all, and totally reasonable. He needs to lay down some groundrules, but make sure it doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t become a thing where he thinks you&amp;amp;#8217;re trying to drive a wedge between him and Mandy. Does your guy have female friends that make you uncomfortable? Have you ever dated a guy whose female friends didn&amp;amp;#8217;t? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. More on Relationships at Glamour.com What&amp;#x27;s With All the Spam in the Comments Section? Sick of all those annoying ads in the comments section lately? So are we! We police the site regularly and delete spam as soon as we can, but recently, the volume of spam has increased dramatically. We&amp;#x27;re working on a way to block them permanently, so please bear with us, and know that we&amp;#x27;re as eager as you are to get rid of these pests. Meanwhile, please continue to use the Report Abuse button to flag spam--it really does help!--and continue to leave your brilliant feedback below. If you have any urgent questions about the spam, please contact us. And a special note to you, spammers; we officially declare you a major DON&amp;#x27;T. Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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