<http://schema.org/articleBody>
" \n When Arnold Schwarzenegger admitted to fathering a love child a decade ago while still married to Maria Shriver, we had no more confusion about why they recently separated. But even if Arnold grovels for forgiveness, you can&amp;#039;t blame Maria if she questions whether or not he can be faithful in the future. Will Arnold \u2014 and other cheaters \u2014 stray again? The answer may shock you...but makes total sense. &amp;quot;A small number of men have an addiction to cheating \u2014 regardless of what their relationship is like,&amp;quot; says Don-David Lusterman, PhD, author of Infidelity: A Survival Guide. &amp;quot;But most men stray because something is lacking in their union, be it sex, attention, or even excitement.&amp;quot; By the time a man cheats, his unhappiness has been building for a while. In fact, he may not even know how close he is to being tempted until presented with an opportunity. And whether he can be faithful after the fact really depends on how he and his partner deal with it together. &amp;quot;If it&amp;#039;s your guy, you both need to address the root cause of the problem,&amp;quot; says Lusterman. The key: Hit on what&amp;#039;s bugging him. &amp;quot;For many guys, the issue may be your sex life,&amp;quot; says Lusterman. &amp;quot;So learn to gauge each other&amp;#039;s contentedness.&amp;quot; Are you both satisfied? Are there any specific tensions? Are there issues you need to talk about? You can usually tell \u2014 if you look for it \u2014 whether he&amp;#039;s craving more. And if the issue is that he feels neglected, sticking by his side more often can help.  &amp;quot;Once he realizes that he no longer has to compete for your attention, he may be less likely to seek it from others,&amp;quot; says Douglas Weiss, PhD, author of Intimacy.  So here&amp;#039;s what we know: Some men are addicted to cheating. But mostly, men stray because something is wrong with their bond. Fix it and you significantly lower the odds of it happening again. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
<http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/a3514/why-he-may-cheat-again/?src=global_footer>