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" I hate the idea of going down on a guy. What can I do to get over my aversion? What do you think is the cause of your &amp;quot;fellatio phobia&amp;quot;? Is it a bad past experience, or perhaps a fear related to not having much, if any, experience? Generally when women are reluctant to go down on a guy, they fear the discomfort (psychological or physical) of gagging and/or tasting/swallowing semen. Let&amp;#039;s get to the bottom of both of these. Fear of gagging: A lot of women think that deep-throating (putting the entire penis in your mouth, which can cause gagging) is the key to giving a guy ultimate oral pleasure, but that&amp;#039;s a myth. What you do need to provide is a combination of pressure and friction: pressure at the base of the penis, friction at the head. In fact, the majority of men will say that the most sensitive part of their penis is the underside of the head, known as the frenulum, so you don&amp;#039;t have to take more than that into your mouth to stimulate the vast majority of nerve-endings.  Some women also worry about a guy thrashing and thrusting, which can cause him to thrust his penis too far in your mouth, causing you to gag. To prevent this, make a ring with your thumb and index finger and squeeze firmly at the bottom of his penis, which creates the pressure that men crave. That should settle him down because it maintains arousal, but if he&amp;#039;s still thrashing, use your other hand to hold the shaft as you move your mouth up and down over the head of his penis, creating that feel-good friction.  You don&amp;#039;t have to keep him in your mouth the whole time either. Mix up your technique by providing different types of stimulation: suck and lick the head, run your tongue up and down the length of his penis, even nibble \u2014 very gently \u2014 along the shaft. Experiment and see which moves your guy responds to. Fear of tasting/swallowing semen: You don&amp;#039;t need to swallow or even come into oral contact with semen for a guy to enjoy the experience. What you do need to do is provide consistent stimulation up to and through his orgasm.  Ask your guy to let you know when he&amp;#039;s about to climax, so you can move your mouth away from his penis before he peaks. But be sure to maintain pressure at the base with one hand, while you continue the friction by wrapping your other hand around his shaft and head, squeezing slightly, and moving that hand up and down, slowly and rhythmically, through his orgasm. When he&amp;#039;s finished \u2014 his pelvic contractions will stop \u2014 make sure he&amp;#039;s experienced every last drop of pleasure by placing your thumb on the underside of the head and squeezing. Or, you can take him back in your mouth at the tail end of his climax, or simply lick the underside of his penis. You&amp;#039;ll know he&amp;#039;s totally satisfied when he stops you. Like women, men quickly reach a point of oversensitization once they&amp;#039;ve experienced orgasm. So try to pinpoint the cause of your aversion, and try these techniques. But, realize that the real secret to giving great oral pleasure is your own sense of comfort and confidence, and enjoying the experience. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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