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"If there&amp;#x27;s an It Guy of the porn world, it&amp;#x27;s James Deen. Despite the fact that his piercing blue eyes and boy-next-door good looks have landed him mainstream roles (Deen costarred with Lindsay Lohan in The Canyons, out now), he says porn is less &amp;quot;scummy.&amp;quot; Intrigued? So were we. We asked: What has your line of work taught you about men and women? GLAMOUR: Let&amp;#x27;s get right to it, James. What would you say to women who think porn is creepy and don&amp;#x27;t want their boyfriends watching it? JAMES DEEN: Adult films are packaged with an intended purpose, which is to play on someone&amp;#x27;s inner desires. They&amp;#x27;re a product, just like soda or potato chips. So, you know, if you don&amp;#x27;t like soda and potato chips, don&amp;#x27;t buy them. Someone who doesn&amp;#x27;t want to see an adult film shouldn&amp;#x27;t have to see one. GLAMOUR: OK, but what about women who are, say, health nuts and are concerned their boyfriends may be overdosing on junk food? JD: I feel like people often ignore compatibility. If a woman is a health nut, maybe she should date a health nut. GLAMOUR: Some women fear porn will make their guys develop unrealistic expectations about women&amp;#x27;s bodies. JD: When guys view adult films, it&amp;#x27;s because they&amp;#x27;re trying to satisfy a masturbatory point in their brain. They just want to indulge in that fantasy by themselves. They aren&amp;#x27;t thinking, Man, I wish my girlfriend looked like that. They just want to look at Jenna Jameson&amp;#x27;s big boobs bouncing around. In fact, men who view adult films are more likely to have an unrealistic expectation of themselves than they are of women. Most dudes can&amp;#x27;t have sex for 45 minutes! GLAMOUR: What have you learned about women from doing porn? JD: That every person is an individual; every woman likes different things.You don&amp;#x27;t have sex to someone. You have sex with that person. GLAMOUR: I think people have this conception of porn being scuzzy, but I love that you&amp;#x27;re coming from porn and saying, &amp;quot;No, these people are civilized; they&amp;#x27;re thoughtful.&amp;quot; JD: Working in the adult-film world, we deal with people&amp;#x27;s personal boundaries&amp;amp;#8212;a lot. If someone says they aren&amp;#x27;t comfortable doing a scene, everything ends. Everyone is respectful and professional. We listen carefully to one another because we understand we&amp;#x27;re dancing on these taboos. GLAMOUR: What&amp;#x27;s your own love life like? Is it hard to date as a porn star? JD: My love life is fantastic! I&amp;#x27;m up-front about my career, so a girl is not going to date me if she is not OK with what my job entails. As I&amp;#x27;ve gotten older, I&amp;#x27;ve gotten more into commitment. On camera I have a lot of sex, so I don&amp;#x27;t need to have a wandering eye when I&amp;#x27;m not at work. GLAMOUR: So being a porn star makes you a perfect boyfriend&amp;amp;#8212;funny! What&amp;#x27;s &amp;quot;romexting&amp;quot;? You tweeted that recently. JD: When you send loving, flirty texts instead of like, &amp;quot;Baby, I want to bang you really hard&amp;quot;&amp;amp;#8212;that would be sexting. Romexting is like, &amp;quot;I love you. I want to take you on a fancy trip to Paris and hold your hand at the Eiffel Tower.&amp;quot; GLAMOUR: You realize you&amp;#x27;re still saying it in the sexting voice. JD: Yeah, of course! You&amp;#x27;ve got to say it in the sexting voice. To read more from our September issue, download the digital edition or pick a copy of Glamour on newsstands now."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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