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"Let&amp;#x27;s talk fantasies on this Monday morning. Why not? Specifically, we&amp;#x27;re going to think about when they are harmless and when they might be a problem for your relationship.Recently, a reader wrote in with this question: &amp;quot;Is it healthy to think about having sex with a co-worker who you think has an awesome personality, enjoys same interests, is physically attractive, mentally stimulating, and spiritually engaging? If I were single, the answer would be yes. However, I&amp;#x27;m married.&amp;quot; While I generally think fantasizing is fine and can even be healthy for your sex life, I thought this might be a good question to discuss with an expert. So I asked Dr. Trina Read during a video chat to give her advice on the situation. See her response below: As Dr. Read says, fantasizing is healthy, but feeling guilty about it might indicate a larger problem. I wanted to expand on that, so I asked Dr. Read to elaborate on when a behavior like, even if there is no physical crossing of a line, becomes problematic to a relationship. She spelled out a good rule for a lot of behaviors that might feel inappropriate. This second video has her explanation: What do you think of Dr. Read&amp;#x27;s advice? Have you ever fantasized about a person other than your partner? Do you feel OK about it? Would your partner be angry or understanding? Other advice on fantasizing: *4 Tips for Embracing Fantasy in Bed *Reader&amp;#x27;s Dilemma: Should I Grant My Boyfriend His Threesome Fantasy? *Sex Challenge: Indulge in a Fantasy Videos courtesy of we-vibe.com"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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