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"Are you a grudge couple? Some couples barely argue at all. Some couples argue all the time. But I would make the argument that how often you bicker isn&amp;amp;#8217;t the point. It&amp;amp;#8217;s how long you stay mad. (Cheryl asks: do you tune your guy out?) There are lots of rules about this. Most of the people I know (me included) have a standing order in their relationships: no going to bed mad. But if he does something that pisses you off, and it&amp;amp;#8217;s 9AM, is it really that much better if you guys are still angry at 5PM? It&amp;amp;#8217;s like this theory about being in shape: it&amp;amp;#8217;s not what your heart-rate is, it&amp;amp;#8217;s how long it takes you to get back to your resting heart-rate after exercise. A fast recovery time is a sign of physical health. I&amp;amp;#8217;d argue fight recovery time is a pretty good gauge of couple health. What do you think? Do you hold a grudge? Could you be with someone who does? What&amp;amp;#8217;s your sign of relationship health? Photo: Jupiter Images More Ways to Get Glamour You could win $50,000 just for registering for or logging in to Glamour.com! Sign up for Glamour.com&amp;amp;#8217;s Style Tips of the Week and Beauty Tip of the Day newsletters! Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Follow us on Twitter!"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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