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"There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak.com (read more about them here), for their take on this dating conundrum: Q: A guy I was seeing just told me he loves spending time with me and likes me a lot but doesn&amp;#x27;t want a serious relationship. Is that possible? Can this be true? I&amp;#x27;m totally heartbroken. Yep. Not only possible, but highly likely, especially if he has been badly burned before. Guys get serious when they are ready and it can take some time, indeed it can take forever. You have three choices: Stay with him and keep it a bit of light fun. Sort of the default option here, and not what you really want, but at least you won&amp;#x27;t be lonely. You also will not move on, but that is entirely up to you. Stay with him and hope he gets serious. It is possible that his feelings will change as you see each other more. The old expression &amp;quot;Familiarity breeds contempt&amp;quot; has it&amp;#x27;s counterpart in &amp;quot;Familiarity breeds love.&amp;quot; It happens. You could try to make it happen, but he&amp;#x27;ll not appreciate that at all if he notices. He will notice if you try to manipulate him. Leave him. Your heart is already broken. Have a damned good cry and go find someone else who will treat what you offer with the respect it deserves. I am making no suggestions as to which course you should choose, as I know nothing about your relationship. I am sure our fine readers will be able to provide guidance from experience. --Written by Mystery Man for guyspeak.com Which option would you pick in this situation? More from guyspeak.com: * We were best friends, but now he has a girlfriend. Why doesn&amp;#x27;t he want to hang out with me anymore? * When we met, I was with someone else. Now I&amp;#x27;m single and he won&amp;#x27;t commit. What gives? * My work friend says he wants to grab drinks, but does he really mean he wants something more? * Friend GuySpeak on Facebook and follow them on Twitter. More Ways to Get Glamour Visit Shopglamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter. Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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