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"Um, isn&amp;#x27;t anyone having sex anymore? Not as much as we want to be, say researchers. Well, that&amp;amp;#8217;s no fun! Here&amp;amp;#8217;s how to get your mojo back. It&amp;amp;#8217;s no surprise that most men in long-term relationships say they aren&amp;amp;#8217;t getting enough action, a recent study by Anthony Smith, Ph.D., a health sciences professor at La Trobe University in Melbourne, Australia, found. But it turns out women want more sex too. Of the 42 percent of ladies who said they weren&amp;amp;#8217;t happy with their sex life, two thirds said the problem was simple: too little nooky! So if you want more and he wants more, what do you have to do to get it? Answers ahead. Tell Him How to Get You Going If &amp;amp;#8220;Wanna do it?&amp;amp;#8221; doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t exactly light your fire, let him know what does. &amp;amp;#8220;Research shows women don&amp;amp;#8217;t like being flat out asked for sex,&amp;amp;#8221; says Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., a sexuality researcher and professor at Indiana University in Bloomington. So if there&amp;amp;#8217;s a trick that gets you hot and bothered (a passionate kiss, a butt pinch, a load of just-washed dishes), it&amp;amp;#8217;s your job to make sure he knows what it is. Don&amp;amp;#8217;t Hold Out for the Perfect &amp;amp;#8220;Scene&amp;amp;#8221; Admit it: There have been times you&amp;amp;#8217;ve thought about making a move but let something frivolous stop you. &amp;amp;#8220;We say we want more sex, yes,&amp;amp;#8221; says Herbenick, &amp;amp;#8220;but I think what women really want is more ideal situations for sex.&amp;amp;#8221; Those worry-free, candlelit moments can be rare, so remember that the best sex is often the unexpected, imperfect kind. Focus on Quality &amp;amp;#8220;If you&amp;amp;#8217;re having really fun, pleasurable sex,&amp;amp;#8221; says Herbenick, &amp;amp;#8220;you&amp;amp;#8217;ll make the effort to do it again, instead of feeling like, Well, it&amp;amp;#8217;s been five days, so we probably should do it now.&amp;amp;#8221; So when it&amp;amp;#8217;s Sexy Time, put down the iPhone and be 100 percent present. Before you know it, you&amp;amp;#8217;ll be scoring the satisfying sex you&amp;amp;#8217;ve been lusting after. Let&amp;#x27;s chat honestly: Are you having as much sex as you want to be? If not, would you try these tips? Get more from Glamour&amp;#x27;s December 2011 issue right here! Photo: Chris Cramer"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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