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"Bet you know what kind of coworker you are&amp;amp;#8212;and friend and girlfriend and family member. But what kind of sex partner are you? To get to the bottom of your bedroom personality, read on, and never be in the dark again (well, unless you&amp;amp;#8217;re naked). You&amp;amp;#8217;re an &amp;amp;#8220;Indiana Joan&amp;amp;#8221; if&amp;amp;#8230; Sex is all about the adventure for you&amp;amp;#8212;the crazier the location the better. Your motto: Leave beds to the old folks. You never think twice about making the first move, even with a new partner. You&amp;amp;#8217;ve tried mile-high, reverse cowgirl, maybe mile-high reverse cowgirl&amp;amp;#8230;. How to make sex better: If you&amp;amp;#8217;re with a fellow intrepid explorer, you&amp;amp;#8217;re probably enjoying the kind of hookups that legends (or at least Penthouse letters) are made of. Fun? For sure. But if public play is the only kind of sex you&amp;amp;#8217;re having, you might want to check your motives. Are you thrill-seeking in order to avoid intimacy? &amp;amp;#8220;Variety is great&amp;amp;#8212;it heightens adrenaline,&amp;amp;#8221; says Logan Levkoff, Ph.D., sexologist and author of Third Base Ain&amp;amp;#8217;t What It Used to Be. &amp;amp;#8220;But meaningful, connected sex is important too, because as relationships develop, there will be times when going wild isn&amp;amp;#8217;t an option.&amp;amp;#8221; (Hello, eighth month of pregnancy, or even just a weekend at your parents&amp;amp;#8217; house.) &amp;amp;#8220;That&amp;amp;#8217;s when you&amp;amp;#8217;ll have to make it work in other ways,&amp;amp;#8221; Levkoff adds. If you always pounce on your guy, let him make the first move and set the tone for your romp. Or if you&amp;amp;#8217;re used to shouting and moaning, Levkoff suggests challenging yourself to be as quiet as a mouse. Surprisingly difficult&amp;amp;#8212;and sexy! Next: You&amp;amp;#8217;re a &amp;amp;#8220;Romance Addict&amp;amp;#8221; if&amp;amp;#8230; &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; You&amp;amp;#8217;re a &amp;amp;#8220;Romance Addict&amp;amp;#8221; if&amp;amp;#8230; Your bedroom is full of scented oils, fragrant candles and high-thread-count sheets&amp;amp;#8230;OK, maybe it looks a little like the set of The Bachelor. The idea of having sex at a dive bar turns you on about as much as the stomach flu. You&amp;amp;#8217;ve picked out the perfect honeymoon spot before you&amp;amp;#8217;ve picked out the guy. How to make sex better: There are ways to indulge your inner Cupid that don&amp;amp;#8217;t involve installing mood lighting. Consider a move as simple as steady eye contact for guaranteed connection, no accoutrements necessary. That said, we can&amp;amp;#8217;t think of a bigger motivator than sex to unearth a man&amp;amp;#8217;s hidden love of a floral duvet. &amp;amp;#8220;I know men can be turned off by all the frills,&amp;amp;#8221; says Margot M., 27, a graphic designer from New York City. &amp;amp;#8220;But for the few who have put on soft music and invested in a few votives, it has really paid off.&amp;amp;#8221; So be sure to let your guy know what&amp;amp;#8217;s in store if he gets on board the romance train, and then watch the throw pillows fly! Next: You&amp;amp;#8217;re a &amp;amp;#8220;Thinker&amp;amp;#8221; if&amp;amp;#8230; &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; You&amp;amp;#8217;re a &amp;amp;#8220;Thinker&amp;amp;#8221; if&amp;amp;#8230; You&amp;amp;#8217;re too shy to share your number-one fantasy&amp;amp;#8212;even with a guy you really love. You thought that whole Meg Ryan &amp;amp;#8220;Yes! Yes! Yesssss!&amp;amp;#8221; scene in When Harry Met Sally&amp;amp;#8230;was way over the top. You&amp;amp;#8217;re racked with worry if he doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t come. Did you do something wrong? How to make sex better: No one&amp;amp;#8217;s saying you have to install a stripper pole in your bedroom or start screaming and writhing like a porn star, but letting loose just a little&amp;amp;#8212;with someone you trust&amp;amp;#8212;can be oh-so-very worth it. What, you ask, is the payoff for acting out of character? He&amp;amp;#8217;ll get a better sense of what works for you. And you&amp;amp;#8217;ll get&amp;amp;#8230;more of what works for you! Start by saying, &amp;amp;#8220;It feels good when you [fill in the blank],&amp;amp;#8221; then move on to sharing one of your tamer fantasies, perhaps just a setting that turns you on. Says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., a sexologist and the author of She Comes First, &amp;amp;#8220;Fantasy goes a really long way in terms of helping people relax.&amp;amp;#8221; Added bonus: Sex will get better for him, too. If you&amp;amp;#8217;re more vocal, he&amp;amp;#8217;ll be more comfortable sharing every little moan. So there will be no more worrying about what he&amp;amp;#8217;s thinking. You know he likes it, just enjoy yourself! "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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