A limerent person may overlook red flags or incompatibilities. Tennov notes that the bias can be an impediment to a limerent person wishing to recover from the condition, as another of her interviewees says:I decided to make a list in block letters of everything about Elsie that I found unpleasant or annoying. It was a very long list. On the other side of the paper, I listed her good points. It was a short list. But it didn't help at all. The good points seemed so much more important, and the bad things, well, in Elsie they weren't so bad, or they were things I felt I could help her with.
A limerent person may overlook red flags or incompatibilities. Tenn,ov notes that the bias can be an impediment to a limerent person wishing to recover from the condition, as another of her interviewees says:I decided to make a list in block letters of everything about Elsie that I found unpleasant or annoying. It was a very long list. On the other side of the paper, I listed her good points. It .was a short list. But it didn't help at all The good points seemed so much more important, and the bad things, well in Elsie they weren't so bad, or they were things I felt I could help her with.