Marriage and divorce During the Directory, almost all the structures and rules of Paris society had been swept away, but no new structures and rules had yet been created to replace them. The brothers Goncourt meticulously described the period on their Histoire de la société française pendant le Directoire. Caste and rank mattered far less; all the old titles and forms of address had disappeared, along with old customs and social conventions. Men no longer took off their hats when talking to women, and people of different ranks spoke to each other as equals. Society no longer met in private, in the houses of the nobility, but in public, at balls, restaurants and public gardens. As the Goncourts said, "social anarchy" reigned in Paris: "everyone met with everyone." Government ministers could be seen walking or dining with actresses, bankers with courtesans. "Liaisons were easy", the Goncourts reported, "marriage less so." The old system of marriages arranged between families based on fortune, profession, and social condition was less common. Marriages were no longer controlled by the church, but by the new civil code, which described marriage as "nature in action." Marriage was seen as a temporary, not a permanent state. Children born outside of marriage were given equal status concerning inheritance and other legal matters as those born to married couples. Divorce was much simpler, and could be requested by either the husband or wife. In one period of fifteen months, 5,994 civil law divorces were granted in Paris, of which 3,886 were requested by the wife. Of 1,148 divorces granted on the grounds of "incompatibility of humor", 887 were requested by the wife. The new system also led to a large increase in the number of children born outside of marriage and not wanted; in 1795 four thousand unwanted children in the Department of the Seine were turned over to foundling hospitals.
marriage and divorce during the directory almost all the structures and rules of paris society had been swept away but no new structures and rules had yet been created to replace them the brothers goncourt meticulously described the period on their histoire de la société française pendant le directoire caste and rank mattered far less; all the old titles and forms of address had disappeared along with old customs and social conventions men no longer took off their hats when talking to women and people of different ranks spoke to each other as equals society no longer met in private in the houses of the nobility but in public at balls restaurants and public gardens as the goncourts said "social anarchy" reigned in paris "everyone met with everyone" government ministers could be seen walking or dining with actresses bankers with courtesans "liaisons were easy" the goncourts reported "marriage less so" the old system of marriages arranged between families based on fortune profession and social condition was less common marriages were no longer controlled by the church but by the new civil code which described marriage as "nature in action" marriage was seen as a temporary not a permanent state children born outside of marriage were given equal status concerning inheritance and other legal matters as those born to married couples divorce was much simpler and could be requested by either the husband or wife in one period of fifteen months 5994 civil law divorces were granted in paris of which 3886 were requested by the wife of 1148 divorces granted on the grounds of "incompatibility of humor" 887 were requested by the wife the new system also led to a large increase in the number of children born outside of marriage and not wanted; in 1795 four thousand unwanted children in the department of the seine were turned over to foundling hospitals