8. A communication device that enables remote operation of a pleasuring device through a communications network, comprising: a communication interface; a lexicon that includes a plurality of user-selected words and phrases that have a corresponding action associated with each of the plurality of user-selected words and phrases, the corresponding action being performed by the pleasuring device; and a pleasuring device operation module that receives one or more text strings at the communication device from another communication device through the communications network using the communication interface, recognizes one or more words or phrases from the received one or more text strings, determines if the recognized one or more words or phrases are found in the lexicon, matches the recognized one or more words or phrases with the corresponding action, and signals the pleasuring device to perform the corresponding action.
8. A communication device that enables remote operation of a pleasuring device through a communications network, comprising: a communication interface; a lexicon that includes a plurality of user-selected words and phrases that have a corresponding action associated with each of the plurality of user-selected words and phrases, the corresponding action being performed by the pleasuring device; and a pleasuring device operation module that receives one or more text strings at the communication device from another communication device through the communications network using the communication interface, recognizes one or more words or phrases from the received one or more text strings, determines if the recognized one or more words or phrases are found in the lexicon, matches the recognized one or more words or phrases with the corresponding action, and signals the pleasuring device to perform the corresponding action. 12. The communication device of claim 8 , wherein a user at the another communication device controls the signaling of the pleasuring device in performing the corresponding action.