2. The non-transitory computer readable medium according to claim 1 , wherein sharing with the contact user, access includes providing anonymously in real time over the computer network an at least one tier of access information of a plurality of tiers of access information, based on a group of user defined rules, and sharing a third set of user personal descriptors with at least one of the individual user and the contact user, wherein the third set of user personal descriptors includes audio, video, text and still graphic representations, previously granted information, and wherein the third set of user personal descriptors is combined with the avatar to form a smart avatar, which defines a personality of the at least one of the individual user and the contact user.
2. The non-transitory computer readable medium according to claim 1 , wherein sharing with the contact user, access includes providing anonymously in real time over the computer network an at least one tier of access information of a plurality of tiers of access information, based on a group of user defined rules, and sharing a third set of user personal descriptors with at least one of the individual user and the contact user, wherein the third set of user personal descriptors includes audio, video, text and still graphic representations, previously granted information, and wherein the third set of user personal descriptors is combined with the avatar to form a smart avatar, which defines a personality of the at least one of the individual user and the contact user. 3. The non-transitory computer readable medium according to claim 2 , wherein computer executable instructions are executed by the provider computer processor causing the provider computer processor to perform the method further comprising: categorizing the at least one of the individual user and the contact user of the plurality of users listed in the globally accessible contact list, based on identifiable relationships between user personal descriptors and the group of user defined rules, to create a state diagram of user personal descriptor trees and stringing together a community of the individual users and the contact users.