1. A method for enabling remote operation of a pleasuring device through a communications network, comprising: receiving one or more text strings at a first communication device from a second communication device through the communications network; recognizing one or more words or phrases from the received one or more text strings; determining if the recognized one or more words or phrases are found stored in a lexicon that includes a plurality of user-selected words and phrases that have a corresponding action associated with each of the plurality of user-selected words and phrases, the corresponding action being performed by the pleasuring device; matching the recognized one or more words or phrases with the corresponding action stored in the lexicon; and signaling the pleasuring device to perform the corresponding action.
7. The method of claim 1 , wherein at least one of the first and second communication device is one of a computer, a personal computer, a portable computer, a server, a portable MP3 player, a satellite radio receiver, an AM/FM radio receiver, a satellite television, a portable music player, a wireless radio, a wireless telephone, a portable digital video recorder, a cellular telephone, a mobile telephone, a personal digital assistant (PDA), and a device having a combination of the above.