1. A method of providing virtual multi-station video conferencing connecting a plurality of IP videophones located at different sites, comprising the steps of: modifying at least a first IP videophone by providing a virtual n-way conference module (VNCM) in said at least first IP videophone, wherein said VNCM is configured for enabling virtual n-way conference capability to said first IP videophone by connecting ‘n’ IP videophones selected from said plurality of IP videophones, and for displaying selected participants on said ‘n’ IP videophones, said VNCM being able to select participants for display, based on defined selection criteria.