1. A system for mode changing of a mobile communication devices in a vehicle, comprising: a driver identification module that obtains an identification of a driver of the vehicle; a communication system that communicates with the mobile communication device when the mobile communication device comes into close proximity with the communication system, wherein the communication system obtains an identification of the mobile communication device; storage that maintains an association of an identification of potential drivers to an identification of mobile telephones; and a processor that receives the identification of the driver and the identification of the mobile communication device, determines from storage whether the identification of the mobile communication device is associated with the identification of the driver, and when the identification of the mobile communication device is associated with the identification of the driver, then sends a mode change command via the communication system to the mobile communication device to force the mobile communication device to change a mode.