1. A system for managing messages, the system comprising: a processor; a hardware user interface communicatively coupled to the processor; a hardware display communicatively coupled to the processor; a message queue component, operative on the processor, that manages in a virtual queue a plurality of messages received from first and second services of a plurality of services, at least one message being associated with a user relationship centric meta-attribute, wherein the first service and the second service are different ones of email services, messaging services, voicemail services, social networking services, an operating system, or a device service; and a software display module, operative on the processor, that causes data relating to messages managed by the message queue component to be displayed in the hardware display, based at least on the user relationship centric meta-attribute of at least one message, wherein data associated with a specific person or specific category of persons is displayed and display of other data associated with a plurality of other persons or categories of persons is suppressed until the data associated with the specific person or the specific category of persons is viewed, and the other data associated with the plurality of other persons or categories of persons is displayed after the data associated with the specific person or the specific category of persons is viewed, wherein the user relationship centric meta-attribute comprises information identifying one or more specific persons or specific categories of persons that have a specified relationship with a user of the system.