1. In a computing environment a method of processing messages the method comprising: at a first entity, receiving from a second entity a first offer of a first message to process; determining to not process the first message; as a result of determining to not process the first message, so indicating to the second entity; as a result of determining to not process the first message, storing an indication that the second entity offered a message, the indication including an indicator correlated to the second entity; and subsequent to indicating to the second entity, using the indication, indicating to the second entity availability to process a message.