1. A system for aiding a user in making decisions with respect to products and services listed on the Internet comprising: a. a remote access device adapted to permit the user to input data and review results; b. a server in communication with the remote access device and the Internet, said server programmed to: i) capture user preferences input through the remote access device that relate to the user as evidenced by self selection and stated level of importance to create a decision aid; ii) summarize the user preferences input such that overall level-of-importance data is displayed for the decision aid through the remote access device; iii) display intelligent agent observations and coaching specific to the user preferences input and associated relevant output on the remote access device; iv) capture family and friends social media input from family members and friends designated by the user via the remote access device for the decision aid for which the user has granted review and comment permissions; v) display the family and friends social media on the remote access device; vi) collect additional content relevant to the decision aid from the Internet; vii) display the additional content on the remote access device; viii) collect data including providers and associated products and/or services based on the decision aid; ix) process the collected data to determine degrees of relevancy to the user based on the decision aid and create output data; x) display the output data in degrees of relevancy to the user on the remote access device.