1. A system for providing a plurality of services to premises over communication networks, the system comprising: a primary server executing a server software platform, the primary server coupled to a wide area communication network and having one or more server processors, a server storage device, one or more server communication interfaces, the primary server receiving a plurality of data packets through one of the one or more server communication interfaces; and one or more secure access nodes, each of the one or more secure access nodes coupled to a wide area communication network and coupled to a premises communication network, each of the one or more secure access node having a secure access control module executing a node software platform and one or more service modules, each executing a module software platform, wherein each secure access control module includes one or more node processors, a node storage device, and one or more node communication interfaces, the secure access control module receiving the plurality of data packets through one or the one or more node communication interfaces, and each one of the one or more service modules includes one or more module processors and a module storage device; wherein the server software platform includes server deep packet inspection engine, a server rules generation engine, a server rule check and notification generation engine, a server service segregation engine, a server communication software application, and a server service adapter software application, wherein the server rule generation engine includes implementing a first fuzzy logic algorithm and the server rule check engine includes implementing a second fuzzy logic algorithm; wherein the node software platform includes node deep packet inspection engine, a node rules generation engine, a node rule check and notification generation engine, a node service segregation engine, a node communication software application, and a node service adapter software application, wherein the node rule generation engine include implementing a third fuzzy logic algorithm and the node rule check engine includes implementing a fourth fuzzy logic algorithm; and wherein the module software platform includes a module communication software application.