1. A method of adapting a speech system of a vehicle, comprising: logging speech data from the speech system; processing the speech data for a pattern of a user competence associated with an interaction behavior; processing the pattern of user competence for parameters and measurements; calculating at least one setting based on the parameters and measurements of the pattern; and updating an interaction sequence based on the at least one setting, wherein the updating comprises updating the interaction sequence to include more system initiative after repeated errors by the user or the speech system are identified, and updating the interaction sequence to include more user initiative after it is determined that the user learned an interaction pattern.