1. A method for managing a messaging component in message oriented middleware, the method comprising: establishing working memory in shared memory of the message oriented middleware executing by a processor of a computer for use by the messaging component; detecting a change in the messaging component; determining if the change corresponds to an addition of an object to the message component and, on condition the change corresponds to an addition of a new object to the message component, creating a token in the working memory, but on condition the change corresponds to a deletion of an existing object from the message component, deleting a token from the working memory, and on condition the change corresponds to a change to an existing object of the message component that is not a deletion of the existing object, applying a change to an existing token in the working memory; observing the working memory to detect changes in one or more tokens in the working memory; and, in response to detecting a change to one or more of the tokens in the working memory, applying by a rules engine and a messaging engine management rules to the tokens in the working memory in order to direct management actions in the messaging component, wherein the rules engine and messaging engine further ensure that tokens in the memory correspond to but are separate from objects in the messaging engine by placing a message on a queue, inserting a token corresponding to the placed message in memory, and linking the token to the corresponding message.