1. A database query system for interactively creating, with a user, a syntactically and semantically correct query for a relational database having a plurality of tables, each of said tables having a plurality of columns and having a predetermined relationship to another of said tables, said system comprising: a conceptual layer manager for storing conceptual information about the relational database, said conceptual information including structural information concerning the identity of each of the tables and columns and the directionality and cardinality of the relationships between the tables; a query assistant user interface ("QAUI") presenting to the user a selectable table set of selectable tables from among the tables in the database, a selectable column set of selectable columns from among the columns of each of said tables in the database, and a selectable column operations set of selectable column operations on the columns, from which the user may select tables, columns, and column operations to construct a database query for said database in an intermediate query language, said QAUI further accepting from the user selections of tables, columns, and column operations; a query assistant expert ("QAES") coupled to said QAUI to receive from said QAUI the identity of each table, column, or column operation selected by the user, said QAES returning to the QAUI after each selection by the user an updated version of said selectable table set, said selectable column set, and said selectable column operations set, said QAES excluding from said selectable sets any table, column, or column operation which, if selected by the user, would, based on the then-current state of the database query and said conceptual information, produce a semantically incorrect query.