title: Use jQuery to remove tabindex everytime it is added to an element
body: <p>I feel dirty even asking this question.  But here it is:</p>
  
  <p>I am using jqxGrid from jqWidgets.  It adds <code>tabindex="1"</code> automatically to its grid.  No mater what.</p>
  
  <p>And it puts it back if you so much as mouse over the thing.</p>
  
  <p>Crazy stuff.  I am hoping that there is a way to remove it, but I found a jqWidgets question asked about <a href="https://www.jqwidgets.com/community/topic/removing-grids-tabindex/#post-97995" rel="nofollow noreferrer">this 4 years ago and it got no responses</a>.  </p>
  
  <p>I know it will probably kill performance (and frankly I will probably not use it).  But my frustration has me asking anyway...</p>
  
  <p><strong>Is there an event I can catch, so I know when <code>tabindex</code> is added to a specific element (and then remove it)?  (or even better block it)</strong></p>