title: How to manage concurrent Input/Output access to a XML file from multiple instances of an EXE, using Delphi.
body: <p>I have a command line tool, written in Delphi, which job is to insert a node in a XML file and then immediately exit. I need to make it possible several instances of the tool to be executed simultaneously and insert nodes to one and the same XML. </p>
  
  <p>To achieve this purpose I have introduced a simple file "mutex" - the tool creates one temp file before writing to the XML and then deletes the temp file after finished witing. So if another instance is executed, it checks for the presence of this temp file and waits until it is deleted. Then it creates again the temp file, writes to the XML and deletes the temp file. </p>
  
  <p>The problem is that this works fine only when 2-3 instances try to write to the XML file simultaneously. When there are more instances - some of them just wait forever and never append the node into the XML.</p>
  
  <p>Is there a better way to make it work with large number of instances running and writing to the XML at the same time?</p>