title: silverlight 3 listbox item highlight versus selected
body: <p>I have a listbox and am attempting to select and item in code.  Sometime one item is highlighted, that is it is background is colored blue, but a different item has a square blue box around the it (no highlighting just an hollow outline of a box).</p>
  
  <p>Am I correct in saying one is "highlighted" and one is "selected" and do I have them correctly identified?</p>
  
  <p>Should this be happening... that is these 2 things being out of sync?</p>
  
  <p>Thanks
  Cody</p>