title: Error: Handshake inactivity timeout in Node.js MYSQL module
body: <p>I'm using <code>node-mysql</code> and most of the queries. Working. some queries not working.
  I tried every version of Node (from 0.5...) until (5.6.0), I also tried (4.0) and (4.1), Nothing helps.</p>
  
  <p>I tried to change maually, and didn't work. I tried to change the <code>sequence</code> file to: <code>this._idleTimeout = -1;</code> and didn't help.</p>
  
  <p>I read the issues and GitHub, and nothing helped.</p>
  
  <p>I can try to fix it by myself, but I need more information. Where is the timeout, why? when? what is this type of message? Where is the timeout came from?</p>
  
  <pre><code>MYSQL_ERROR     { [Error: Handshake inactivity timeout]  
  code: 'PROTOCOL_SEQUENCE_TIMEOUT',   fatal: true,   
  timeout: 10000 }  
  </code></pre>