title: how to control an embedded <iframe> (any) video?
body: <p>I would like to be in full control over Embedded videos, just as like as i can control my owned videos.</p>
  
  <p>By "control" i mean by commands, such as -</p>
  
  <pre><code>iframeId.play();
  iframeId.pause();
  iframeId.currentTime();
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>I've seen its possible with YouTube videos, they share they're API.</p>
  
  <p>But is it possible with any flash video i embed?
  can i find it's API somehow?</p>
  
  <p>if i cannot, can i work on any other solution (to control embedded vids) in any other way? how?</p>