title: How to find a record that does not exists from a table based on other table value
body: <p>So i have two tables, this one is <code>books</code></p>
  <p><a href="https://i.stack.imgur.com/CR9cl.png" rel="nofollow noreferrer"><img src="https://i.stack.imgur.com/CR9cl.png" alt="books" /></a></p>
  <p>and this one is <code>payment</code></p>
  <p><a href="https://i.stack.imgur.com/OKNkj.png" rel="nofollow noreferrer"><img src="https://i.stack.imgur.com/OKNkj.png" alt="payment" /></a></p>
  <p>now i want to select if there are any records in <code>books</code> that have a similiar(<code>select * from a like a.field like '%blabla%</code>) <code>title</code> or even the same <code>title</code> but not exist in <code>payment</code></p>
  <p>i tried not exist but im not sure because the executing query process is very long so i thought it wasn't the case.</p>