title: createMessageComponentCollector allow only opponent discord.js@v13
body: <p>i'm try so hard for createMessageComponentCollector(MessageButton), But I don't know what code would allow the opponent to be able to press it alone.</p>
  <p>someone know, please help me!</p>
  <p>Here my code:</p>
  <pre class="lang-js prettyprint-override"><code>        const filter = m =&gt; m.customId === 'accept' || 'decline' &amp;&amp; m.author.id === member.id
          const collector = interaction.channel.createMessageComponentCollector({ filter: filter, max: 1, time: 30000 });
  
          collector.on('collect', async (m) =&gt; {
              if (m.customId === 'accept') {
                  await m.deferUpdate();
                  return await m.editReply({ content: `ACCEPT!`, embeds: [], components: [] });
              } else if (m.customId === 'decline') {
                  await m.deferUpdate();
                  return await m.editReply({ content: `DECLINE!`, embeds: [], components: [] });
              }
          });
  </code></pre>