title: ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on '....' (65)
body: <p>This is the first time I am setting up a remote connection and I am doing this.</p>
  
  <pre><code>mysql -u user -password -h dbserver.dev.5bfed886-8150-4a8d-b0d5-4c7cffb5c54c.drush.in -P 11831 dbname
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  <p>I get this error back. </p>
  
  <pre><code>ERROR 2003 (HY000): Can't connect to MySQL server on 'dbserver.$ENV.$SITE.drush.in' (65)
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  <p>I have scoured the web I am not able to find a solution, I would appreciate any help. I apologize beforehand if any information is missing (I am a first timer). </p>