title: jquery validation rules
body: <ol>
  <li>My phone validation depends on a checkbox (no, don't contact me via phone). If this is checked, then I will not need run the phone validation. I googled around and found 'depends'
  function.</li>
  </ol>
  
  <p>I have </p>
  
  <pre><code>  $("#myForm").validate({
    ....
    rules: {
    phone1: {
      required: {
        depends: "!#pri_noPhone:checked"
      },
      number: true,
      minlength:3,
      }
  </code></pre>
  
  <p>It doesn't throw an error, but it still tries to validate the phone number. </p>
  
  <ol start="2">
  <li>Under the rules: how do i make sure that email and confirmEmail are the same? I have rules, and messages separate. </li>
  </ol>