title: .Net sync menu item with toolbar button
body: <p>I'm creating a .Net3.5 Application (c#) and I want to write a generic code that 
  synchronizes certain properties between toolbar buttons and menu Items that have the same purpose. For example setting a button as disabled should set the respective menu item as disabled. My idea is to hold in a dictionary the lists of "paired" controls.
  Any ideas?    </p>