title: The OleDbParameter's name obsession
body: <p>Since the <code>OleDbParameter</code> does not use named parameters (due to its nature),
  why is it that the .NET <code>OleDbParameter</code> class expects a name? <code>(string parametername ...)</code> </p>
  
  <p>All constructors require a parameter name, and I'm never sure what name to give it; my name is ok? or my grandmothers name?</p>