title: visualvm intellij "Failed to create JMX connection to target application" profiling not working
body: <p>I am trying to use visualVM for profiling a simple java application that I am debugging with Intellij. I start the application to debug, open visualVM, and I can see my application in the list. I can open it; however, I am unable to use sampling or profiling for my application. Other applications, such as Intellij, can be profiled just fine. When I check the visualVM logs I see:</p>
  
  <p>INFO [com.sun.tools.visualvm.jmx.impl.JmxModelImpl]: connect(2749)
  com.sun.tools.attach.AttachNotSupportedException: Unable to open socket file: target process not responding or HotSpot VM not loaded</p>
  
  <p>more information:
  Operating System = Mac OS X version 10.9.1 running on x86_64
  Java; VM; Vendor = 1.7.0_51; Java HotSpot(TM) 64-Bit Server VM 24.51-b03; Oracle Corporation
  Intellij IDEA = 13.0.2</p>
  
  <p>if anyone has this working, please let me know how you got it. I would like to use the Intellij VisualVMLauncher as well if I can get it going.</p>