Help with translation ああじゃないこうじゃない


I was watching a Japanese news clip, one person on the street says:

<https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pgY1BPzNQqY> 15:39-15:47

今日はしんどいなと思って、(夕食は)お弁当屋さんでと思って、いっぱいのってるものをみんなで、ああじゃないこうじゃない言いながら食べたいなと思って。

ああじゃないこうじゃない: It is not like this, it is not like that. 言いながら食べたいなと思って: I
think I want to eat while saying

But how do I put them together? I can't figure out what the person is trying
to say.




ああ and こう are often used together to refer to unspecified trivial things (like
"this and that" in English, but usually ああ comes first in Japanese). See:
[What does まわりであーだこーだ mean in this
sentence?](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/18708/5010) So
ああだこうだ(と)言いながら食べたい would just mean "I want to eat (this bento) while
chitchatting (with my family)". The actual topic is unspecified, and it may or
may not be the bento itself.

She actually said じゃね (slangy contraction of じゃない) twice in this interview,
but did you notice she pronounced them with a rising intonation? So the
literal meaning of this part is more like this:

> ああじゃね？ こうじゃね？  
>  Isn't it like that? Isn't is like this?

This means she wants to talk about something fun and constructive with her
family, not try to deny everything.

