What is the difference between ぶつ, 叩く, and 殴る?


I have found a question regarding these words here:

[たたく versus ぶつ in a JLPT
question](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/questions/3769/%E3%81%9F%E3%81%9F%E3%81%8F-versus-%E3%81%B6%E3%81%A4-in-
a-jlpt-question)

Which mostly deals with idioms, however.

So far as I understand it 殴る means somewhat violent beating and punching. What
about the other two?

There are questions like this on the Hinative and the other Japanese sites,
but I'm having trouble comprehending the answers and making a good distinction
between the synonyms. Here are similar threads if these are of any help:

<https://hinative.com/en-US/questions/6180065>

<https://okwave.jp/qa/q5155677.html>

[http://mixi.jp/view_bbs.pl?comm_id=2748&id=10547445](http://mixi.jp/view_bbs.pl?comm_id=2748&id=10547445)




  * 叩く is a neutral word that can be used also with inanimate objects, such as a button, a drum, and a keyboard. It's not necessarily violent nor strong, so you can safely say 手を叩く ("to clap"), 肩を叩く ("to tap/massage one's shoulder").
  * 殴る is a definitely violent and offensive verb meaning attacking someone with a fist or a blunt weapon. It's usually used with animate objects, but someone really mad may do 画面を殴る, 壁を殴る, etc.
  * ぶつ is relatively uncommon among the three, and is almost always used with animate objects. It's not necessarily that violent, but implies a strong hit, anyway. For example 親父にぶたれた sounds more "educational" to me than 親父に殴られた. You can also say 転んで膝をぶった.




  * 叩く is a neutral word that can be used also with inanimate objects, such as a button, a drum, and a keyboard. It's not necessarily violent nor strong, so you can safely say 手を叩く ("to clap"), 肩を叩く ("to tap/massage one's shoulder").
  * 殴る is a definitely violent and offensive verb meaning attacking someone with a fist or a blunt weapon. It's usually used with animate objects, but someone really mad may do 画面を殴る, 壁を殴る, etc.
  * ぶつ is relatively uncommon among the three, and is almost always used with animate objects. It's not necessarily that violent, but implies a strong hit, anyway. For example 親父にぶたれた sounds more "educational" to me than 親父に殴られた. You can also say 転んで膝をぶった.

