How to join a noun and a verb


How does one join a noun and a verb? Example:

友達に行かせるのは初めて **で** 最後にするわ - This is the first and last time I will let my
friend force me to go

I used で to join the noun 初めて and 最後 in the example above, but it doesn't
sound too right because で is used to join nouns only. Question is, what is the
correct word to use here?




初めてで最後 may be grammatical but doesn't make much sense to me. The expression
you need is **最初で最後**.

  * [ALC: 最初で最後](https://eow.alc.co.jp/search?q=%E6%9C%80%E5%88%9D%E3%81%A7%E6%9C%80%E5%BE%8C&ref=sa)
  * [これが最初で最後になると思います。って英語でなんて言うの？](https://eikaiwa.dmm.com/uknow/questions/10431/)

> ～するのは最初で最後にする。  
>  I'll make this the first and last time I ～.

(But judging form the English version, you probably wanted to use causative-
**passive** 友達に行かせられるのは / 友達に行かされるのは.)

