Replying to お帰りなさいませ in a hotel setting


Recently I was in Japan and stayed at a certain hotel for a few days. I was
surprised to see the level of customer service that I received. There were
many cultural differences that surprised me, but the one thing I wasn't sure
how to react was to all the お帰りなさいませ I received when I got back to the hotel.

I was born in Japan, but living in America for the majority of my life, I'm
used to replying when someone says something to me. My mom told me that it's
very uncommon for people to reply in such situations but I could not stop my
habits. I thought about what would be a good thing to say since ただいま would be
strange, as the hotel is not my home. So I came up with お疲れ様です。 as my reply.

Does that sound strange and if so are there better phrases I could've used in
that situation? Or should I have just kept my mouth shut and said nothing at
all?




You do not need to say anything nor are you even expected to in that kind of
situation. Many, if not all, Japanese indeed do not. I myself usually just nod
or bow lightly at the clerk without a word or nod while saying どうも without
enunciating it.

Saying ただいま sounds strange to me unless you reside in the hotel and you know
the clerk very well. お疲れ様です may be said by some if not by me, and I cannot
actively recommend that you say it. Again, you can say it with no problem if
you already know the clerk personally.

In a ryokan, however, a whole different set of customs are followed, in that a
far greater amount of conversation takes place between the staff and guests
than in a hotel. I will not get into that here, though.




You do not need to say anything nor are you even expected to in that kind of
situation. Many, if not all, Japanese indeed do not. I myself usually just nod
or bow lightly at the clerk without a word or nod while saying どうも without
enunciating it.

Saying ただいま sounds strange to me unless you reside in the hotel and you know
the clerk very well. お疲れ様です may be said by some if not by me, and I cannot
actively recommend that you say it. Again, you can say it with no problem if
you already know the clerk personally.

In a ryokan, however, a whole different set of customs are followed, in that a
far greater amount of conversation takes place between the staff and guests
than in a hotel. I will not get into that here, though.

