(意志形)〜ようとする + とか=ようとかする?


> 「それと、あくまでキスするのは今日の夜一二時だからね？士道に逃げられたりしたら困るから、無理に唇奪 **おうとかしないでね** ？」

Is the bold part a combination of (意志形)〜ようとする and とか (so that the とか is used
in place of と)?




Yes there is とか in this sentence. The basic meaning of ～とか is "things like ～".
But its main role here is to soften the sentence by signaling the speaker is
aware that it's unlikely. 唇奪おうとしないでね without とか can sound like a serious
request, but with とか, the sentence sounds more like a half-joke.

明鏡国語辞典 has this explanation:

> ### とか
>
> 〔若者ことばで〕断定の調子を避けてやわらげる。  
>  「まだ用意━できてない」「さすが山田さん━言っちゃって」「いやだな━思わない？」  
>  ▶ 伝統的な言い方では、ほぼ「など」「でも」に当たる。

とか has replaced と in the last two examples. "嫌だなとか思わない?" sounds milder than
"嫌だなと思わない?", as if "I guess?" or "maybe?" were added.

[なんて](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/43769/5010) has a similar function:
唇奪おうなんて思わないでね? / 唇奪おうなんてしないでね? (the latter is less common)




Yes there is とか in this sentence. The basic meaning of ～とか is "things like ～".
But its main role here is to soften the sentence by signaling the speaker is
aware that it's unlikely. 唇奪おうとしないでね without とか can sound like a serious
request, but with とか, the sentence sounds more like a half-joke.

明鏡国語辞典 has this explanation:

> ### とか
>
> 〔若者ことばで〕断定の調子を避けてやわらげる。  
>  「まだ用意━できてない」「さすが山田さん━言っちゃって」「いやだな━思わない？」  
>  ▶ 伝統的な言い方では、ほぼ「など」「でも」に当たる。

とか has replaced と in the last two examples. "嫌だなとか思わない?" sounds milder than
"嫌だなと思わない?", as if "I guess?" or "maybe?" were added.

[なんて](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/43769/5010) has a similar function:
唇奪おうなんて思わないでね? / 唇奪おうなんてしないでね? (the latter is less common)

