Is the conditional, volitional, AND passive form of verbs used?


I found myself wanting to write something analogous to "if you want (some する
verb) done to you"

I know the passive form of する is される.

I know that the volitional form of an ichidan verb is stem + たい. This brings
me to されたい.

I know that the ば form of an い adjective drops the い and adds ければ. Hence:
されたければ.

Whew. I looked this up on Google and found over 41,000 results, but that seems
low for what I would assume would be an extremely common construction. My
hypothesis then is that this is grammatically correct, but unnatural in most
cases.

Is there a more natural way to construct the meaning of "if you want something
done to you" in the general case?




> "if you want (some する verb) done to you"

As the other answerer says I think you can use 「して欲しければ」. There are a few
variations:

> 尊敬して欲しければ  
>  尊敬して欲しいなら  
>  尊敬して欲しいのなら  
>  尊敬して欲しかったら ← casual  
>  (These are more literally like "If you want (me/someone/others) to respect
> you")

Of course you can also use 「されたければ...」, which is literally like "If you want
to be (done~~)". There are a few variations:

> 尊敬されたければ  
>  尊敬されたいなら  
>  尊敬されたいのなら  
>  尊敬されたかったら ← casual  
>  (Lit. "If you want to be respected")

* * *

As a side note, されてほしい would be "want (someone) to be (done~~)." For example:

> もっと評価されて欲しい作家 A writer that I want to be more highly regarded  
>  早く逮捕されて欲しい I want (someone) to be arrested quickly




> "if you want (some する verb) done to you"

As the other answerer says I think you can use 「して欲しければ」. There are a few
variations:

> 尊敬して欲しければ  
>  尊敬して欲しいなら  
>  尊敬して欲しいのなら  
>  尊敬して欲しかったら ← casual  
>  (These are more literally like "If you want (me/someone/others) to respect
> you")

Of course you can also use 「されたければ...」, which is literally like "If you want
to be (done~~)". There are a few variations:

> 尊敬されたければ  
>  尊敬されたいなら  
>  尊敬されたいのなら  
>  尊敬されたかったら ← casual  
>  (Lit. "If you want to be respected")

* * *

As a side note, されてほしい would be "want (someone) to be (done~~)." For example:

> もっと評価されて欲しい作家 A writer that I want to be more highly regarded  
>  早く逮捕されて欲しい I want (someone) to be arrested quickly

