Is using 笑 to mean "lol" feminine or gender-neutral?


On Facebook, you see 笑 getting used a decent amount to mean "lol". To my
American eyes, using something that literally means "smile" - and even looks
semi-subconsciously kind of like an advanced emoticon of somebody winking
their eye - comes across as being more feminine than the clearly gender-
neutral "lol". But that may not be the common consensus, and it is apparently
the only real equivalent to "lol" in Japanese.

Are guys generally supposed to use this? Are there any restrictions like that
on this character?




I think there are a few things in the same ballpark as 笑 worth discussing:

  * `（笑）`, which strikes me more as "Heh." than "lol";
  * `笑`, which feels like "haha" or "lol";
  * `ｗ`, which IMO doesn't really have a parallel in written English, but is the equivalent of smiling or slightly giggling while you say the sentence outloud; and
  * `ｗｗ[…]`, which feels like "hahaha[…]".

They all feel quite gender-neutral to me. Of course you don't seem as serious
if you're laughing (with （笑） seeming the most serious of them all to me), but
I don't really think that makes any of them feminine.

(This is honestly just my own impression of them, which could be wrong.)




I think there are a few things in the same ballpark as 笑 worth discussing:

  * `（笑）`, which strikes me more as "Heh." than "lol";
  * `笑`, which feels like "haha" or "lol";
  * `ｗ`, which IMO doesn't really have a parallel in written English, but is the equivalent of smiling or slightly giggling while you say the sentence outloud; and
  * `ｗｗ[…]`, which feels like "hahaha[…]".

They all feel quite gender-neutral to me. Of course you don't seem as serious
if you're laughing (with （笑） seeming the most serious of them all to me), but
I don't really think that makes any of them feminine.

(This is honestly just my own impression of them, which could be wrong.)

