て頂く、てもらう, に. Who does the action?


> あなたにとってWAO!!STYLEでの使命は？？
>
> WAO!!STYLEに関わる全ての人を幸せにすること、  
>  私を選んでくれた人の期待を超えることです。  
>  常に自分の満足ではなく関わる人の幸せを思う人間性をみにつけ、  
>  **私に任せたいといってもらえるようにならなければなりません。  
>  また私に結婚式をまかせていただけるお客様の期待に応え、**  
>  その期待を超えていきます。
>
> What is the mission in the WAO!!STYLE?
>
> Making everyone who sticks with the WAO!!STYLE happy,  
>  Surpassing the expectations of those who chose me.  
>  Acquiring the human nature of not thinking about your satisfaction but the
> always about happiness of others,  
>  Becoming able to be told "I want to rely on you".  
>  Moreover, Answering to the expectations of the clients who leave to me
> their wedding ceremonies and sorpassing those expectations.

I am confused with 貰う and 頂く.  
From what I know 貰う=頂く but less polite.  
The grammar with て頂く・てもらう is:

> 私が貴方に本を読んでもらう・読んで頂く

The reader is 貴方 and the one who is receiving the favour is 私.

In the sentences above it looks to me that に does not mark the one who does
任せる.  
Am I wrong?  
Also why is 私に任せたい?  
Shouldn't it be 任せて欲しい?




You generally have the right pattern with 〜て貰う and 〜ていただく, however the に in
the two cases doesn't connect directly with these verbs.

[code]

    私に任せたいといってもらえる
    
[/code]

In this case the person "able to receive" (もらえる) the action is the writer,
however the phrase "私に任せたい" simply means "leave it to me". I guess you can
think of it as the "私に任せたい" part being separate from the もらえる verb, i.e.

[code]

    (私に任せたい)といってもらえる
    
[/code]

So 私に任せたい is equivalent "leave it to me", except there is no word for "me" in
Japanese so you get 私 ("I").

[code]

    また私に結婚式をまかせていただける
    
[/code]

Same thing here. The "私に" is referring to the person who it will be left to,
entrusted to, not the いただける verb.

This is extremely confusing, but if you read enough of these type of sentences
you'll learn to differentiate from context (:




You generally have the right pattern with 〜て貰う and 〜ていただく, however the に in
the two cases doesn't connect directly with these verbs.

[code]

    私に任せたいといってもらえる
    
[/code]

In this case the person "able to receive" (もらえる) the action is the writer,
however the phrase "私に任せたい" simply means "leave it to me". I guess you can
think of it as the "私に任せたい" part being separate from the もらえる verb, i.e.

[code]

    (私に任せたい)といってもらえる
    
[/code]

So 私に任せたい is equivalent "leave it to me", except there is no word for "me" in
Japanese so you get 私 ("I").

[code]

    また私に結婚式をまかせていただける
    
[/code]

Same thing here. The "私に" is referring to the person who it will be left to,
entrusted to, not the いただける verb.

This is extremely confusing, but if you read enough of these type of sentences
you'll learn to differentiate from context (:

