To what extent is 御目出度う御座います used? Is it considered bad form?


Relatively recently - probably in the last few months or something - I've
noticed the much more Kanjified version of おめでとうございます - 御目出度う御座います. Personally
I think this looks cooler than the strictly kana version, and it's also a
little more "grown up"-looking. Since it is both cooler and less childish, in
my eyes, I started using it.

However I've noticed that, no matter who I write that to, they always reply
back, if anything, with the [strictly] kana version. This doesn't matter their
age, sex, whether they're a native speaker of Japanese, or anything else. In a
way, it almost looks like Japanese people are very subtly trying to correct
me.

So is using 御目出度う御座います the equivalent of using phrases such as, "Hast thou
need of mine art?" Or is it still considered acceptable Japanese? In other
contexts, I have occasionally seen 御 getting used, where something like お or ご
would be more common, so I know that one specific Kanji should be okay.
jisho.org also does not list the Kanjified phrase as "archaic", so...is this
ever really used?




御目出度う御座います is one of old-fashioned ways to write the phrase おめでとうございます (now
usually in all hiragana), that could already look strange to modern eyes. It
is a spelling style that you make use of kanji as much as possible, which is a
characteristic of the Edo period convention unlike today's (cf. [Why are a
high proportion of basic Japanese words written in
hiragana?](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/24068/7810)). While those who
in some traditional trades prefer this style, it may look unnecessarily
pompous if not "bad" to use everyday.

  * 御: the keigo prefix お-, ご-, and み- is sometimes seen in kanji, as you said, but its active uses tend to be limited to old fixed words or phrases. It is not a primary option you use to write daily messages.

  * 目出度(い): it is a traditional ateji for the word めでたい (< めでる "celebrate" + -たい "want; -worthy"). The kanji is etymologically irrelevant but associated with 目が出る "have good future/fortune". It was especially common to put kanji with "good meaning" (嘉字) for good words. (度 was a standard way to write auxiliary -たい because the kanji has an on'yomi たく which is the same with its adverbial form.)

  * 御座(る): it was originally a samurai class word (武家言葉) which is thought to be the spelling pronunciation of an old keigo 御座します【おまします】† "be present". Now rarely written in kanji being a general keigo verb.

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† As an aside, it is a single word as a whole, not related to modern keigo
auxiliary -ます.




Most native speakers can read 御目出度う御座います without difficulty, and it's not an
"archaic" expression like _thou art_. Still, it's a rare ateji expression that
can be used only in limited situations. If used inappropriately, it just looks
childish, stupid and inconsiderate to the eyes of native speakers.

Please keep in mind that using too many kanji does not make you look
intelligent. Actually it can make you look like a weeaboo, [a biker
gang](https://japanese.stackexchange.com/q/60877/5010) or a [chunibyo
patient](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ch%C5%ABniby%C5%8D) who's trying hard
to show off your ability. Don't do unconventional things unless you know what
you're doing.

