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prompter
If someone having second thoughts about something, what should I tell him/her to calm down?
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assistant
I think I would need more context to answer this question. However, they might be reacting appropriately to the realization that something is a bad idea. Could you tell me more about the situation?
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prompter
I've been engaged to my fiance James for five months now, but we plan to get married in three weeks time. Recently, James has been acting cold towards me, and I get the general feeling in which he is pulling away. I'm starting to get really worried. How can I reassure James in this situation?
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assistant
It sounds like you're feeling a lot of worry and uncertainty about the future of your relationship. It's important to take a step back and try to understand what is causing the tension between you and James. It might be useful to have an open and honest conversation with him about how you are feeling. You could also try to focus on connecting with him by doing things together that you both enjoy, or just spending time talking and listening to each other.