text:  who took his life and here are his parents but Chris Svetter and I think of these outstanding individuals but when something bad happens to them it's within the family of law enforcement or with the family within the family but not the rest of us and we need to spread that because it should be with all of us when we lose someone especially to this so let me have you Phil let's bring in Brent and Paula and just welcome them into our studios Brent and Paula thank you so much for being with us today