text:  feckless and it's very weak to do this and so i hope people understand that i'm telling you this just so you know that how much stock i put into what carol's saying because i really understand what she means putting your neck out for someone when you don't know them you're like i don't really know is this really worth it do i want people to be able to look back on my columns and my tweets and point to it and say well you defended him and look at all this