text:  for you to recognize what you're good at your own personal strengths absolutely you want to serve with your strengths so i mean that can help build self-esteem but then to be helping others always gives you that warm fuzzy place in your heart and it also is an opportunity as you said for to look at where you're at in life and to be grateful for the blessings that you do have and to go forward and share the blessings that you have with others so