 oh that's crazy yeah I want you to start thinking in terms of stability or a better way to say this is let's start solving for peace let's don't solve for the get rich let's don't solve for the scam let's don't solve for the oh yeah then we can let's solve for peace you want to be counter cultural and bananas in today's world I'm going to solve for peace in my house and there's going to be some tension because once you get