 one credit card max go straight to another one over what course of time how how how long did it take you to acquire this debt it was over a year bro i'm having a hard time with it same i'm having a hard time with it like so i mean are you married i i am i'm married and i have kids and uh and that was that was the hardest part was uh once i realized how bad it was and i i i did you you would know man you alex you would know