 There are no absolute right and wrongs that apply to all people at all times, and so everybody wants their own personal exception. We've got to be willing to bring it up, and I think a lot of people succumb to what one of my friends calls cocktail party pressure. Basically, we'll get disinvited from society, and we don't want to be judgmental. A lot of pastors won't bring it up in the pulpit because we know that there are plenty of women in most church audiences