 you know that's just what people in their early twenties do but your boys well taken maybe that does that maybe people will look at that in a different light yeah and again like i said i'm really surprised that that this stuff is being investigated more and i really have to give a lot of credit for bringing this out to the forefront because i have a granddaughter who actually was in the you know institution wise like this over behavior issues and now i have to really wonder what you know ever happened