 you know be a runner and get if they want something from the refrigerator they'll go get them a cookie or something so many families have little children involved but if it's if it's a issue that is of concern then the hospice social workers should be able to provide services right and uh yeah that might even be good for the kids in some cases because it kind of teaches about the cycle of life i guess doesn't it yes and that's of course the way all deaths used to happen