 there comes a time sometimes when you have to go to the hospital don't you where you can't stop you can't stay at home well that's right i mean sometimes if you have uncontrolled pain for example you will go to the hospital in some situations people the caregiver simply does not have the resources and the ability to take care of somebody and they end up dying in a skilled nursing facility if a if a it's an elder couple and there are no immediate relatives and that one of them