 And that's why it's important to have a good mom and dad at home. So a boy can learn how to be a man and learn how his relationship with women should go. Cause she see how mama treat him and mama treat daddy. So a man, a young man can see what he want to replicate in his wife and family. And he know what it's like to be a man because a man lived in his house. And the same thing with a woman, a woman who's a, who knows how to treat a husband. And a lot of times, and this is what happened to the black community.