 what they're dealing with, understand how to communicate, how to, you know, effectively be the best support. And, you know, I remember for my mom, I had it all planned out and I informed her in our first gathering of, Mom, I got this all planned. You're going to move on this date. And she just looked at me like, you're absolutely crazy, right? But I thought I was doing the right thing. And actually what I didn't do is I didn't give her the opportunity