 Samantha to be my safety net yeah no life and then I have I mean and then honestly Samantha the the car loan for the son and that's going to be a really hard conversation but it's but it is a hey we're either transferring the loan in your name son or or I don't even know I wouldn't even do that I think I would just sell it I mean I would get to a point where you're like no no I say listen honey you got you got 90 days to get your button gear with this car and uber eats and everything else