 find out the clarity on that but i think that you can clear out a lot of the the just craziness of this by selling like you said you sold the trailer already do the same thing with this rv if you need to close the gap use that 18 000 that they have saved or at least keep a thousand of it but use the 17 000 to do that and then the three thousand dollars a month okay so tell me about the mother-in-law um tell me i hate to ask these questions but like timeline like what's the situation if she ends up you know being alone