 as a godly wife, you know, I've, I've been doing your program for like 13 to 15 years. So thank you for all your help. I've got a house, a car and everything is fine on my end, but on his end, it is not. And I am not sure what is like my responsibility financially as a godly wife and what is how to get him to talk to me about finances. He won't do it with you. He, he,