 So when you had a son, you loved on him. You gave him affirmations. You know, oh, you're so sweetie. I love you. You cuddle with him. You gave him compassion and love and security and all of those things. And moms with boys, you cater to him. You made sure you cleaned his clothes. You did all this stuff. As he's growing up, he get nurturing and love from mama. He get discipline and direction from dad, nurture love from mom majority of the time.