 if they do it well if they do their jobs well then there isn't a need for a big government um you know if families take care of their own we don't need welfare state we don't need just so many so many organs of bureaucracy and so the family competes with big government basically for autonomy for control of itself for self-direction for the control of society and so therefore anyone who wants to have a big government micromanage other people's affairs the family is a natural enemy