 you've finally found something that you think is going to be the breakthrough moment. And with this plan, it is a watershed moment, right? But you have this wake of all the other things you've done and tried and got bought in for, buy-in from your spouse that didn't go so well. And so they're seeing a trail of, like, failed mishaps. And you're like, no, this is the one. This is the one. Like, I think a lot of people needed to hear, like, how do I navigate that conversation? Because