 the weird feeling you get when somebody's either lying to you or cheating. And I told her, I said, you know what? We're not even going to go there. You already know that he is. And then from that, I start to just get a vibe about what's going on. And then with her birthday, I go, I probably started around here. But then afterwards, you don't leave them depressed because you tell her, look, this is how we're going to fix it. It doesn't always mean a breakup. Sometimes it means the universe is pushing you in a direction to be your own person.