 But I don't think it was the right thing to do. I don't blame you for not wanting to deal with that drama every day. Emotional drain and all the chaos. It's easy for you to go and start another family and not even look back. Your life would be more peaceful. And some men, that may be the right thing to do. I don't know. But if I can encourage any man that's in that situation, you just got to chip away at it, man. Just a little bit at a time, man. Eventually it will go your direction.