 What I should do is check in with them more. I try to do that more often now is check in. Okay, is everybody with me? Are we together? That's what we do with the Holy Spirit. The Holy Spirit doesn't force us to follow Him. It's our job to check in with Him constantly. Our job is to check in with Him and then follow His direction. The Holy Spirit does not force us to obey and follow Him. That would be a dictator. That's not the Holy Spirit. He loves us and He wants us to grow with Him.