 versus the parent. Okay, so are you asking me what I would do? I think just because you have adult children, if you think I'm kind of on the right track, do you feel like that my... I think your concerns are valid, but not enough of a concern. I didn't hear anything here that gave me such pause that I would not leave the kids the money. Oh, I'm not saying not leave them money. I'm saying all of it. I don't need to leave it to charity.