 Such an interdependency upon one another that the other person is like God in their life. And they feel like, well, I couldn't possibly do without them. What would I do without that person in my life? And here's the problem. God wants us to live a life that is surrendered to him. And oftentimes we're afraid of that. Suppose this happens and suppose that happens. Why would God possibly? Surely God wouldn't ask me to give this up.