 I think it was his masseuse. He was afraid to admit he might be handsome, otherwise it would imply that he was gay or something. I've learned many things from you over the years, but one of the things that I really learned from you was the idea of the ideal. There are things that are the ideal, and you don't have to shave them off to mean that other people can exist in the world. You should have the ideal of something, whatever topic we're talking about. You have the ideal.