 This is a nice way to look at this. When two people go for a long romantic walk together, but only one of them knows about it, that's called stalking. Makes me wonder about faith healers, why they don't work in hospitals. Just like you don't see psychics winning the lottery every week, right? I don't know if you can go with that or not. Hamburger helper only works if the hamburger really understands that it needs help, just like all of us.