 it's time. And if it's gone on for too long, that secret sin, you know, that change behavior is going to require more time for the other person to trust. Okay. We got to get to some help for folks. I mean, we are winding down, but you mentioned in the book, seven choices that can keep couples together. So I think it'd be easier for you to quickly list them and just highlight a couple as we go through quickly. And we'll put