 yeah you don't have time for that anymore too old for that stuff now don't have time for games yeah there's like there is an element for me at my my stage in life where it's like if you can't know all of me then you shouldn't be my friend and that's okay like that's like that I'm fine with that it's just that's how I live so I have no problem like with the concept of somebody looking at a profile and reaching out and being like look I I your your profile is amazing like I love that level of honesty but like I don't usually get butterflies like