 you can get stuck into thinking like not I should have left earlier but more so like what is wrong with you why you driving so slow you're killing me over here I've gotta get somewhere and I'm gonna be late cuz a you no not because of me no because of you and I think that's why people get angry at complete strangers who are just sharing the road with them so I think what you're saying is really good advice Jill Robin pain I want you to hang on we're gonna take a quick pause right here and now when we come back