 he felt like you know it's a third day like all his efforts in a way have you know been in vain um and in a way that you know uh unknown to him um i think tisha can explain to him at the day basically you know she didn't save a guy's number until i think she has a rule about six day rule uh just in a way she thinks you know the first 30 days you're just kind of establishing the rhythm of communication and after 30 days once you know have more consistent communication