 frustrating that some of us have been saying this about pornography for uh for years and we've been shouted down and mocked and everything oh let's look poor it's just it's just images on a screen what's the big deal it's just a fantasy oh what do you mean porn harms harms harms women oh that's silly that's ridiculous um and now when a 19 year old pop star starts saying that people take it a little bit more seriously that's a pessimistic angle of it but