 let's be clear and he didn't listen and he had a spreadsheet he was like no no you don't understand here's what's going to happen and she was like i don't feel good about it he's like no no you don't get it and this is a classic classic then he was like you want to take fpu again you talked to candace if you talk to sharon ramsey she'll tell you i did the exact same thing just it's okay it's all right okay so when you're sitting at the kitchen table who wins the the great debate in your home private school versus public school