 And it becomes a manipulation and all that kind of stuff. Like, you know, well, only when we have a big fight is when I yell at you and say, it's my money. Yeah. But other than that, I say, it's our money. You know, and it's like, yeah, if you're going to play that, that's a power play. It's a manipulation play. And then that's when you find out what's in the heart. That's right. Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. So when someone is saying something, you need to listen because it's coming from inside of them.