 What got him through that confusing time of life was the way his wife cherished him. In the midst of his struggle, she didn't antagonize him, belittle him, or unfairly compare him to other male family members, friends, or co-workers. She cherished him for who he was and reminded him of all the good he had to offer. Her support and encouragement helped Gary to move forward with strength and confidence into new opportunities. As the story illustrates,