 sit on the floor or if that's not really physically possible for you sit on as low a chair as you can tolerate and just put your hands down put the toys down and let your kitten come to you let your kitten choose to be touched because when they when you start off that way you prove that you're trustworthy even though you're a giant and your kitten trusts you and will love to be touched by you now do you think you should put your cat in another room for a few days until he feels a little bit more comfortable and then let him explore the house