 you know but when we kind of got on the same page everything like it's like okay let's just get rid of all of this and let's just do it as fast as we can so joseph that was the most husband answer we didn't really have let's be clear candace told him not to do it again let's be clear and he didn't listen and he had a spreadsheet he was like no no you don't understand here's what's gonna happen and she was like i don't feel good about it he's like no no you don't get it and