 I'm a better person in many ways than I would be if I did not have kids looking up to me and modeling themselves after me. I'm still not a great person, but certainly better than the alternative. It's not a coincidence, I think, that people are giving up on kids in our culture. And they're also giving up on everything else. 10 million open jobs that nobody wants to take, workers dropping out of the workforce, grown adults living at home with their parents, and so on. We aren't seeing that people forgo families and then go out into the work world and obsessively pursue their ambitions.