 no kidding you can just say hey i thought i might die and my first thought was to call you mom heck yes yeah i thought he was going to call her for some tip to get himself out of the gym well honey here's what you have to do either that or you could you know that's that time where you could say listen mom if i get out of this would you probably promise to make my favorite dinner tonight can i come over yeah right that'd be really cool yeah that'd be nice um