 It's time. And if it's gone on for too long, that secret sin, that change behavior is going to require more time for the other person to trust. Okay, we've got to get to some help for folks. I mean, we are winding down. But you mention in the book seven choices that can keep couples together. So I think it would be easier for you to quickly list them and just highlight a couple as we go through quickly. And we'll put the whole list on Linus.