 for college by my parents grew up poor they didn't have the money they they they work two jobs my mom the prison guard my dad a family court probation officer in a waiter on weekends to send all of their children to catholic schools and i was not going to take the little money that they might have that i didn't think they had at all especially cuz i work since i was eight as a paperboy wash dishes at twelve i've told my story a million times you're probably sick of hearing it i don't blame you if you are