 and uh four weeks after they were married he was gone for seven months and can't and can't even talk about where he was totally top secret missions right and so um because the green beret seal teams and those kinds of folks go places and most people don't know they're there so matter of fact that's the whole goal is nobody knows they were there they're in and out and mysterious things happened and then they come home and so um you know that kind of stuff so that that's uh