 But really, you know that intimacy that's gained in a relationship is so so critical and we found that many couples are struggling in this area Yes, totally and you know and we've got to be honest about you know, there's past reasons There's hurt there's abuse that if that's happening to you now get the help that you need and and Slow down men and women to really get the help you need to move forward in this area we talk about choosing to persevere persistently and