 and the pastor said well that's interesting does the bible say to trust one another and i said i don't think so and he said that's correct and then he said um what does it say i said well to love one another and i was like oh okay and he goes so you don't need to worry about that like why do you think it says that i said well probably because we're not trustworthy and he's like yeah you're absolutely right you know none of us really truly are and he said by the way who do you think you're supposed to trust