 was close enough and you know if if you're in in another room and somebody does that you're not going to hear it so i knew it was at the top of the stairs it was that close so i slowly turned back around and i'm just thinking in my head what do i do what do i do i don't want to scare my son and i just get back into my normal position and all of a sudden he whips his head around and he goes you heard it too and i said i did and we just both ran out of the house and