 and only for like a family i had my my sister had a 70th birthday party this weekend and my godson's wife who's expecting a child had a a baby shower um but i brought my daughter to it so i had to be up there and it was horrible to be back it stinks the same way it did when i left but you you you you are we've been training what 14 years now 14 years yes and i think i'm your best student