 Or do you think I'm doing a good job just as a young adult? Let him have that conversation, but don't use this as a proxy. Otherwise, you're going to make yourself bonkers doing that. Yeah, yeah. And please, really, don't expect for you to be the solution. If it is, it's wonderful, but it's highly unusual. And the only possible way with the people closest to you is to not tell them what they're doing wrong, but instead just tell them about your story.