 i can go down to the bank and get the money right now and i'm like well you can but you also can't get screwed by gift tax your advice was correct yeah i just i i wanted to see what the relationship was because it does feel presumptuous in in many ways to be like hey just give me some give me my inheritance in advance like that i i could no you didn't he didn't bring it up though yeah he didn't bring it up yeah i'd say granny i'm not comfortable doing alone if you and mom want to talk about a way that this