 Talk about tone being a big deal or, you know, my wife, she'll say things. And if I don't confirm what she means, like there's been times I'm completely on a different page. She thinks I can read her mind. Sometimes I can. It's fairly common. Right. And so I confirm that meaning and clarify. That's that's a huge log that you start getting out of your communication log jam so that you can start to actually talk about these things again.