 well, you can be familiar in a sense that it's causing isolation in your marriage, or you can have a familiarity where you can walk into a crowded room and you can look for your wife and you can make eye contact with her and cast her, you know, some sort of smirk or a glance or a wink or something that, you know, is going to speak to her. That's built over time. And so the same thing happens in terms of communication.