 Yeah, this was a conviction that just as a young husband and looking back, you know, any guy would say this, right? Look back and say, man, I can't believe the guy that I used to be. And I used to be pretty harsh. And we've never had, we don't call each other names. We don't have kind of a lot of vitriol, but you have your own way as a husband, right? You can be overly harsh.