 hardened and you're blinded to maybe things that are too close to your face whatever he shows you then repent of those things like that it's funny how that has nothing to do with talking to your wife right you're talking to god you're clearing the lines of communication between you and god then you can begin to see clearly what these logs actually are and you can go out strategically and pull those out uh some other ones would be like um confirming and clarifying meaning so that's important