 Yeah, marriage takes two. So if you've got, there's a lot that can go into it. Now, if a husband is at a standstill and he is trying to communicate, his men around him are saying, hey, you're seeing this clearly, that's maybe a different conversation. But in many cases, it's just, yeah, you haven't quite tried everything. You had a pretty powerful illustration about compounding communication in the book. That 30-day thing, I was like floored by that. Explain what the correlation was. Yeah, so the question is,