 but what was fascinating was this rabbi when he was talking about the rabbi realized that you know that he might have actually got the location of these things he started kissing him on the cheek because he was so excited because he said you don't know what this is this is the dowry so it brings us back into this whole marriage picture again and so anyway i just just wanted to throw that in i know it's kind of a little bit off to the side but keep going because what you're saying is just amazing