 In fact, I was talking, well, that's with a male friend of mine the other day, and we were discussing the fact that when somebody says, you know what, I guess I'm just not ready to date, just really means I don't want to date you. But isn't that okay? How do I put this? Isn't that a nicer way of saying it? Well, no, because here's what happens. Because what happens is then, because they found somebody else in the world of...