text:  So that you can have a well-thought-out conversation that doesn't get caught up in the emotions of, well, I'm not doing that. Yes, we're doing that. No, we're not moving to Florida. Yes, we're moving to New York or whatever it happens to be. It takes a little bit of that edge off, and it allows them to have that freedom to have that conversation that's so important. And when they go home, they continue to have that conversation even then.