text:  And that's hard work, and that's a lot of pain. There's a comedian I saw that was saying, hey, if men were the ones that could give birth only, there'd be like six of us. Because I see only six men that would be brave enough to actually have a baby and all that pain that endures. So back to the churches and the pastors and how to discern and things like that. So what is a pastor's reaction? When somebody comes in and asks these questions, how can a pastor react?