text:  sometimes you gotta wear them on on the same day um and i think a lot of that too is you you kind of also got to get your priorities right right like at the end of the day like what what do i want the kids to take away from this and it may not be that they need to be the absolute best at shock and shedding like the thing that i want them to be you know to take away from this is that they were part of a good team and that they were part of people that cared about them and