text:  I'm, I'm vested in this relationship. You can't ask me my opinion, but you know, it's, it's that what I've seen is kind of like what, what Mike said when they finally both retired, you know, they had built a house two doors down from us. So I am the favorite son-in-law, but they built a house two doors down from us. And as soon as they built that house, my father-in-law was like, you know what? I want to buy a house in Florida and we've been in Florida. And so they did the, the back and forth, the Florida thing for a while. And eventually it,