text:  good coach. He's instilling something in him. He has a standard. You're not coming on his field. Do you bring me your report card? And guess what? They literally just simply perform in school so that they can perform for the coach. That's it. They, there, there, there is a buy-in that's necessary from a parenting aspect and perhaps parenting need to go to parenting. Parents need to go to parenting school to understand what their role is when their child becomes of school age. I mean, think about it. We're, we're, we're basically left to figure it out. And,