text:  It was, he had it in his name and then... Oh, they just transferred it to your name. It's in both of our names currently, but I'm the payee on it. Forever? Yes. Okay, go ahead then. What's your question? So last week I received a call from my ex-husband and he said he wanted to make me an offer that he thought was going to make me happy and what he wanted to do was to pay me out of the annuity and give me $100,000 now and then to stop the spousal support.