text:  They're surprised when he tells her how to dress and how to act and what she can and can't do, etc. And I'm just like, you know, would have helped if you picked up a book. I'm just saying, you know, get online, do a little quick search about what culture is like in the country in which you're in love and you're going there to marry the love of my life. So but Hispanic males do come from a very macho society.