text:  And, you know, maybe you have a widow, and now she's going to have to provide for her family also, even though the husband's job is to provide. So sometimes some of those roles can overlap slightly, but you don't want to usurp the role and take over the role that somebody else is supposed to be providing. So that's something that should be taught in the church. But just at a basic level, if your pastor can't determine very easily what's a woman or a man,