text:  It's the calm. I can't even think of the word. When they send in the stories and stuff, I always look for someone who reminds me of her. Someone who just says the word that I'm like. You know, it's an amazing thing because, you know, to lose a loved one and to lose a child is the most horrible thing in the world. I have two kids. To lose a child and through your grief to be able to set something up to help other children is such a selfless act. It is. I mean, it really, truly is.