 all right america we continue our conversation with dr dean beckloff and dr dean i want to ask you a question because i think a lot of people listening and saying you know this guy's really smart he knows what he's talking about how did you end up doing this were you a little kid and said you know one day i want to sit on another couch with a clipboard and you know interview people and help them through their feelings what was it like for you you know i started out my career as a school teacher and