 Number two, the gift of uninterrupted time. That's tough, but not that tough. Shut your phone and give him your full presence. Solid quality time together. The gift of relevance. Ask your father for advice. Give him a call. Bring him into your life. Allow him to feel relevant and recognize how much insight he has to share with you. The gift of peace. Getting along with your siblings. Showing your dad that you're one unit. But the fifth one may be the hardest one. And this is the gift of forgiveness.