 no, this is not how church works. So I think when you bring your, the kids brought that perspective too. They're like, is this, is this how it is? Yeah. I mean, it became a show and we were a part of that show and we were contributing to that. But it was like from the mouth of babes. We're like, is this how it is? And you're like, well, you can navigate sometimes in yourself. You get the nuance and you make allowances for people or, but yeah, once you see it through someone else's eyes, it was like,