 the families that become involved with the doom brook services they're obviously a big part of that and the bravery to take that step to say i want to be part of a parenting class or i want to be part of a home visiting service or just anything to become a better parent a lot of times it's a lot to say i could be a better parent and i'm a parent and i can say that every day there are ways that i can be a better parent in every moment yes sarah what do you want to add to that please