 he's very grateful uh... you know that that god spared his life and it's not right that a man died a five a firefighter father a husband that day uh... but i think that my father-in-law feels that very deeply and that's what that whole scene was about and i i'll tell you watching it there in the audience you know you know that their cameras on you joe i couldn't help it i i well dot by dot emotional about it and i i am right now because