 then this should help put things into perspective for you. In Matthew 5.3 it says, Blessed are those who recognize they are spiritually helpless. The kingdom of heaven belongs to them. Do you feel helpless in your broken situation? Do you feel like there isn't anywhere to turn? You need to be spiritually dependent on God. Brokenheartedness usually stems from putting our trust in man and having our desires be on something other than God.