 One of the things that is so difficult is when you're talking to a counselor and they say, well, the next time he says that or she says that, try this. Say, honey, like, I think I'm hearing you, but where does this come from? Why do you feel that way? And you're going, oh, that'd be brilliant. Then when it happens, you're going, what are you thinking about? Why are you saying that to me? It's your fault.