 and let God take care of the rest. And so this was the beginning of my conversion from in that next stage. And so I'm calling my friends. I'm like, Bill, Steve, Jim, what makes you guys such great husbands? They're like, get a pen. And I'm like, I'm taking notes in these conversations. Then I called their wives and I'm like, Jane, Jill, Sue, what makes your husband so great? They're like, they're not that great.