 10 says, a wife of noble character who can find. She is worth far more than rubies. And the writer goes on to describe various attributes of that wife. Friend, whether wife or husband, we need to be true and honest and upright when it comes to being a spouse. If you're married, are you that kind of dependable spouse? But it's not just being a spouse with character. Any of us can be a person that has good character. No one's going to make us have bad character.