 Before she makes plans with her friends, establish some family rules for social and extracurricular activities. Kids don't always have all the facts when it comes to alcohol and other drugs. So talk with your child about the risks of underage drinking and substance use. And be clear and consistent about your expectations. For tips on how to begin the conversation, visit underagedrinking.samhsa.gov. Because when you talk, they hear you. This message made possible by Hoosier Uplands.