 because there's people out there that they have ruminated back here over. All you do is you think about everything wrong with your spouse, everything you can't stand. I'm telling you, if you would stop that, if you would cut that off and just start to ruminate on the things that you love about that person, I promise you, even now, even if it's a broken relationship, I'm telling you what, you can find some really good things to focus on that they do that you have totally overlooked because all you can think about is all these things right here.