 can break news like that to others i don't like doing that and i also don't want to sit in place to tell somebody that they can communicate with a ufo where they can do something because i'm i'm worried about my ethical response to that and how people are going to respond to that and also i want to leave them in a good place as much as i can um and so you try to do your best um and after i talked to people before people reached out to me online um and had conversations with them too right i