 And if you truly believe that and that's where we're going to stay, you're going to be fixated right there and it will be done. Because now, even if the other person is trying and changing, you won't even recognize it because you've already stated it and your mind is already made up. Because you are the owner. You've got a little victimhood based on everything they've done that you're not letting go of. You're the victim, but you're owning who you want to be and where you want this relationship to go. And you're owning your personality in that relationship. How you're interacting. How you come across in that relationship. You're owning that and you're saying, I'm done.