 And really evaluating that situation and go, okay. Not in the moment. No. Not in the moment. Outside of conflict, always. Not when we're feeling highly emotional. But just say, hey, kids, I get to show you how to do this. Let me ask you about that. Because I think my observation, again, all of us, not just moms. Dads have the same issue in a different way, I think. But we take...