 Everybody has their troubles, but it seemed like he genuinely loved her. The couple had an on-again, off-again relationship. And when they finally divorced in 2009, Tyler kept trying to get back with her. Listen to this. This is a letter he wrote to Shelly. Shelly, my love, congrats on your first full day of teaching. My love for you grows like a wildfire. I'm polishing myself for you.