 and for many of us, it comes with the death of a loved one or a diagnosis, and we are confronted. Time all of a sudden becomes a really precious thing, and I think after sitting in the interview chair and at a base for so many years, that has sort of steeped into my soul, and it's like every moment matters. Every time I get on the ground on my stomach with my kids matters. Every interaction I have with a stranger matters, and to Mary's experience that her life rippled out across 30 years