 You don't let boys get into too much danger. You can present them with a potato peeler and you know at some point in time they'll be sword fighting with it or something and one of them is going to skin a finger. Not the end of the world. If you allow them to mess with like a deep fryer with hot oil, someone's going to the ER with third degree burns. You have to understand that here's a true statement. I didn't come up with this, but it's true.