 and most of the time you kind of figure out what to do maybe you agree to split it one person pays this time one time the next but sometimes there's some real animosity that's built up because maybe you want the car you want the points and you think well i want to pay and this person is paying or maybe because you don't really care but you notice that the same person is paying over and over and over again and it just kind of makes you feel a little icky