text:  What are some examples to solve it? So often we can overlook this, but just pray. Pray. Ask God to help you. Reveal areas in your own heart where you've been hardened and you're blinded to maybe things that are too close to your face. Whatever he shows you, then repent of those things. It's funny how that has nothing to do with talking to your wife, right? You're talking to God. You're clearing the lines of communication between you and God.