text:  Yeah. So how did you absorb that? How did you embrace what he was saying rather than just reject it? Yeah. At moments I was really mad and I probably did. I know there was one time, you know, where he'd asked even about our relationship prior to getting married. And had we had sex before marriage? And I remember, you know, I said, well, yes, but he's the only person. And I can't say, you know, none of my friends could say the same thing here. You know, and I was it was my little self, you know, trying to be a good person. Yeah.