text:  She turns the TV up, and I tell her, where you're at in life, you've got grandkids, you've got great-grandkids, you've got family. She's energetic. She works out. She's definitely in her wiser years. The one thing we are preaching to her is, Mom, you've got to be able to do this. She goes, I am my own self. She won't do anything. She won't move to that next level. So I was going to ask you...