text:  I was just with a pastor friend of mine in Atlanta. 20 years ago, they were so excited because his wife was giving birth to their first baby. That was before they would, actually 25 years ago now, and they hadn't done the Lamaze, they were still the old school, and he wasn't in with her. He couldn't wait, and they walk out and say, I'm sorry, but the wife and baby died. There's no valley deeper or darker than that, folks.