text:  I mean, we've been married for 17 years and I love my wife more than anything. She's my best friend and I honestly have no idea why I got into it. I think that's part of the counseling that we're going through. Good for you. I'm trying to understand. Good for you. I'm proud of you. I just know that I don't want to lose that. Okay. I'm proud of you on that, man. You're going to have to work through the money side of it and you're going to have to follow the baby steps and pay it off. Hang on the line. We'll send you a copy of Total Money Makeover and help you on your journey.