text:  have a relationship with jesus but that this area is an area that we i certainly struggle with i can't speak for every guy but i think generally the guys i know and talk to about this we all kind of struggle with how we express ourselves in tone and in tenderness or lack thereof regarding our wives and i think that illustration i mentioned a moment ago is really indicative of the problem right when your wife calls you at work and you're going yeah what do you want what do you want what do you need and she's going hey i'm not your business colleague stop talking to me like