text:  If you're having to pull from savings to overpay bills, you don't have enough money to just have said, hey, you buy whatever you want. I'll buy whatever I want. And if you're a husband, and I'm just using that because it's here, but it includes wives too. If you think I don't have to ask anybody because this is my house, then you do not have a marriage. No. You don't have a marriage. You're not building something together to move everybody forward. You're a selfish child. You've got to work together to build a future. And, man.