text:  I thought the whole meeting was going to be focusing on Ron and what he did and that I was pretty sure the Bible said that that was grounds for divorce. So I was actually the harder person in the meeting, but the pastor was wise in drilling into me. He made me own my part. What did that feel like? Did you get defensive? I was ticked. What are you talking about? I'm not the one that did that. I can completely understand that.