text:  that work to say, listen, this is an issue that we have dealt with, if that's what you're talking about. But we need to actually sit down, have some time, whatever that means, get the kids somewhere, set the stage. That's part of plucking out the logs. And in there, the two that seem contradictory, I know they're not, but I'd like for you to explain that. One is use your manners.