text:  You asked why I wrote this book, and I think another reason is because communication is, I think, the linchpin for marriage, right? If you can communicate well, you can get through almost anything. It's typically why divorce occurs, a lack of communication. Yeah, and so if you're not communicating, eventually that turns into bitterness, turns into anger, it turns into affairs and things because you're not actually working through things. You're not going to your spouse in the covenantal context that God's given you. So I think if men – you asked who's in charge of it. This is why I wrote the book for men –