text:  And I actually think by telling kids you're so fragile, we can't tell you the score of the game. It's so destructive to your well-being to know that you lost 7-1 in some soccer match that I can't tell you at 8 years old. What you actually do is say winning and losing is such a big deal that you're not even prepared to handle it. You got to say, look, kid, you got your butt kicked today. That doesn't mean that you're less of a human being. It just means that you got some stuff. We've got some stuff collectively to work on.