text:  And so, you know, how much time is the real question? And for us, you know, we had marriage difficulty, you know, in the first year. So it didn't take us as long to kind of move forward once we were willing to commit ourselves to the Lord. And we saw him making these changes that we couldn't make in ourselves. But a couple may be listening that it's, you know, many years of a real difficult situation, unforgiveness. Maybe it's even infidelity or it's a problem with pornography or whatever the case is.