text:  instantaneously. And we're sharing meaning. I can know you because you're telling me something. You can know me because I'm communicating something. In marriage, it's the same way. I think the challenge is we either take that for granted or we're not sending signals that are really meaningful and not communicating well what we actually mean. And so we talked about in the book, sifting through the signal and the noise, being high fidelity communicators,