text:  The last analogy I wanted to touch base with you on was you talk about in the book being quite a daredevil jumping off high places into bodies of water. And you want to make sure certain things aren't debris fields aren't there. Speak to that analogy. And then what how does that fit with marriage and communication? Yeah. So the example I share is I was scaling the side of this cliff over. There's a river in Mount Rainier.