text:  So, you know, you don't want to say, well, you remember 14 years ago. Right. This is what you said to me. What? So, I mean, that's a discipline, right? Oh, yeah. Yeah. But so often those types of things that are truly not really forgiven at that point, if you're still harboring it against them. And so you need to set the stage, I think, as a husband to do that.