text:  And if they want to fight you on it, you tell them, I'm not going to fight you. Guys, I'm not going to fight you. I love you, and I respect you, and I'm doing the next best right thing for me. And here's the deal. Choose guilt over resentment. If you don't and you keep paying into this thing that you know isn't a good use of your money, that keeps you from moving into this house just to make them happy, over time, every time they call you, you're going to get annoyed. Every time you get a text, you're going to go, ugh.