text:  On the Our Spot podcast, New York Times bestselling author and famed spiritual life coach, Ayanla Van Zandt, digs deep into relationship issues. During intimate raw sessions, Ayanla inspires callers to do the work as she guides them toward healing with her signature no-nonsense approach. I wanted love so bad, or I just wanted someone so bad that I thought I could fix it. I would say, beloved, you are looking for love in all the wrong places.