text:  Just a communication issue. I mean, if you sat down with your wife tonight and said, honey, look, we have to map our way through this in a way that we can agree to so we don't kill each other. And we make enough money to pay these bills. We just need to get aligned on how to do it. Would you sit down here and help me write this out and us be in agreement? And neither one of us raise our voice. Could you not do that?