text:  And, you know, the scripture is clear, you know, it's not a matter of if, but when the trial's coming, what are you going to choose to build on? And, um, you know, the last two choices are to communicate respectfully, which is so critical in a marriage relationship. And then lastly, to choose to bless abundantly. And so these aren't choices that happen once or twice. These are things that happen over and over and over again that really will strengthen the marriage now for 30 years.