text:  I don't need to process things in this way. I don't need to, you know, and some of that's still true. But for the sake of loving my wife, I can learn a skill that will allow us to flourish. I can learn not to just fall into whatever my basest tendencies are in terms of under communicating or reading into things the wrong way. And so it's a skill that can be learned. And I encourage men to do that and to do it and to master it.