text:  well yes we were both executors and we were paying her bills which were quite expensive okay so you're so you were on the checking accounts anyway correct you had the ability to write checks yes i did oh you're fine yeah you're fine i mean theoretically the fact that you didn't uh you're you two are the beneficiaries uh there's nobody else so the only people that complain can complain about that or beneficiaries who are not getting money but you got money