text:  Yeah, this was a conviction that just as a young husband and looking back, you know, any guy would say this, right? Look back and say, man, I can't believe the guy that I used to be. And I used to be pretty harsh. And we've never had – we don't call each other names. We don't have kind of a lot of vitriol. But you have your own way as a husband, right? You can be overly harsh with your wife or you can – and so the conviction I came to is that, yeah, my wife is tough, but she shouldn't have to be tough on account of me. She shouldn't have to be – I shouldn't be the reason that she is –