text:  So those things need to get cleared up. I just right now, based off what John asked you, based off of what you said, it feels like you're running away from something. And a house should be something that you run towards and you're happy about and you both want to do it. And it's not like this thing that you do out of panic or fear. It's a thing that you do out of this is the next right step for our family. And you can take your time and you have think things through and there's choices. And right now, it just feels like somebody pulled the fire alarm and he's like, what?