text:  But when you say certain things that are kind of like out of the blue, it's like, wow, you really have a problem with that. Otherwise, why would you just even up and say that? There you go. And I'm like, the fact that he's saying it's your fault for staying home, not it's your fault. I mean, it would really help if you could make more money. But if you say staying home, you're indicating that you don't think she's doing much while she's at home and she's not making enough money either. So that's problem number one. You guys need to get on the same page. Number two is now he's over here saying it's impossible for him to spend spend less.