text:  It's overwhelming. It's overwhelming. Breathe a second. Okay. Take a breath. Take a breath. All right. So here's what we got to do. Are you guys ready to turn your life upside down to keep from feeling this way? I am. I feel so lost. What about him? Because I think he is too, and I just need to get out of this. I make him about around close to $9,000 a month, and all of those money goes to the bill. It goes to car payments.