text:  I got myself involved in a relationship outside of our marriage at work, downtown Chicago. It wasn't a good situation. In that first six months. In that first six months. That's amazing. It was the crack. I mean, it was, you know, there was many things that were going on. You know, Jody's speaking and, you know, being really humble. I mean, she had a great opportunity coming out of college. I mean, she just, her business career just skyrocketed. And, you know, I was doing well in the business world, but it wasn't moving that fast. So there was a lot of these little things that I couldn't even have verbalized them back then.