text:  Yeah, Jim, I mean, I'm just going to get right down to it. I mean, Jody and I, you know, this was the girl I love. This is the girl I wanted to marry. You know, we had been both working in the marketplace. We finally got to the same city, Chicago. This was it. And we were together and there was just something going on inside of me, which wasn't healthy, which wasn't good. You know, I was doing some things that I shouldn't be doing. Jody probably would say, hey, she was not doing some things she could have been doing. You know, now we look back and we can see that. But, you know, I'll just go straightforward. And, you know, with both you guys, just be real honest.