text:  I tease people and say, you know, if you go somewhere, you go to a fundraiser and you have, say, a bowl of chili and you paid ten dollars per person for that chili. If it's terrible, you don't go up to the person and say, I want my money back. What you tell them is we are so glad we could support your fundraiser. You throw that chili in the trash because you didn't like it. And then you go out to dinner.