text:  That's built over time. And so the same thing happens in terms of communication culture in your home. Right. So either your shared language is going to be fostering a healthy communication culture. That's going to be something that your kids are going to observe. They're going to want to because it's building life. Or you can have a shared language that is, you know, negative or or, you know, you're walking on eggshells all the time because you're always waiting for the next explosion to happen type of thing. So I'm not sure if you're going there with that. But, yeah, couples can share language in many ways and they can share culture and certainly build it together.