text:  I would go all in and try, but you get to a certain point here where this guy either has to decide to heal his destructive behavior because he wants to be married to you, and at some point you guys are going to have to combine everything to finally be unified. But that's down the road. This is a dumpster fire, and I hate that for you, but I want you to at least know that. You don't have enough money to bail him out. No, stop it.