text:  Yeah, I'm just listening to this, Danielle. And Dave's right, you have a marriage problem. And I think this guy is exhibiting behavior of a guy who doesn't want to be married to you. And I do think the counseling is the way to go because we've got to get an objective environment where he can't hide and he can't bully with some statement. But I am afraid that he doesn't want to be married, period.