text:  Every time your mom calls, and they don't deserve that. It's not fair to them. That's because you didn't put up a boundary. Can I add one in? Yeah, go for it. If you think that they're going to act a fool over this, give it back. That's fair. Yeah, they've given it to me, so I don't think they're going to act a fool over it. You do. You think they're going to. There's going to be some pushback, I'd say. If you think it's enough that it has the ability to mess up Thanksgiving, give it back.