text:  because they want to make sure they got their spot there in the in the will. OK, you don't go you don't go, you know, you don't bat a thousand with your kids. If you have not demonstrated because we're all flawed and his flaws have been on the society pages for all of our lives. OK, you don't you don't bat a thousand with your children as adults that they still want to be around you unless you demonstrated the kind of empathy with them growing up at some point.