text:  All I can say is that we were never really good with finances when it comes to keeping track. As long as we knew we had money to do things and pay things, we weren't really paying attention as much as like I never really cared what she was spending money. She never really cared what I was spending money on. And and it didn't get to that. Like I said, she didn't realize five or eight hundred dollars could be gone and her not even notice.