text:  to help people were in that situation, whether they're 19 or whether they're 59. Um, I will tell you the thing that I was telling that last caller, our 19 year old friend there. And, um, uh, that I, when you encounter fear, not if you encounter fear, but when you encounter fear on something, uh, there's, I guess there's several possible reactions, but two come to mind right now. One is, um,