text:  Well, I can't relate. And I'm glad of it. Duncan and I have been courting for seven weeks now and my heart still races when he says my name. You sound like Cathy. And I still say to you both, love is a passing fancy. Beauty, compassion and adventure are far higher values. But love is all those things. Love means losing your independence, ideas and strength for another. Yes, there is sacrifice in love, but that's what makes love so beautiful. And that I cannot do. Well...