text:  yeah so my question kind of comes more long term than short term so me and my wife were kind of thinking about buying a house like whenever we kind of get settled in with the economy and everything and we're just trying to think about it long term because she wants to be a stay-at-home mom which obviously like would take away her income and we've talked about it she would be open to doing a part-time job but probably not full-time you know with the kids and everything