text:  So at the end of the week, I flew from San Francisco to New York. A friend of mine picked me up, and I went to my mother's house until I could find a place to live a couple weeks later. And I'm unpacking my sea bag, and this has really been weighing on my mind. And as I'm unpacking my sea bag, I said to my mother, why didn't you tell us we were Jewish? And she said, what?