text:  And when he gets to heaven, he's like, God, why didn't you save me? And he's like, bro, I sent you an airplane. I sent you a boat. I sent you a guy to come get you. And you said no to all of it. So anyway, and listen, if you're, if you're buying toys and I'm sure that's four wheelers, guns, guitars, grills, whatever that, yeah, those are, those are purchases that you need to sit down and talk through with your spouse. And, um,