text:  And I remember flying over to take care of it. I came back home and I walked in the door and my wife with a smile on her face shut the door calmly behind me and said, sweetheart, isn't it nice? You're in our home now. And what just happened is outside the home. Wonderful. She wasn't discounting it. She was helping me realize that there's other things that are a value in my life. I don't have to let that define me. That's right.