text:  but my husband insists on doing them. It wouldn't be an issue if he was a great cook and cleaner, but he is a mediocre chef at best. And let's just say we have different sanitary standards. I've tried to talk to him multiple times and we have gotten into a lot of fights over these two topics. Do you have any advice on how to convince him to let me fulfill my duties as a wife? Thanks and God bless.