text:  It kind of works. It's working against her because she's apprehensive to reach out because she knows that likely I'm going to say, OK, but we just got to monitor this. And if we do this and it's a conversation that she probably likely doesn't want to have. So the alternative is avoiding the conversation and then getting yourself in a bit of a corner that you could have avoided just by facing the music. And sometimes that music is a little bit loud and sometimes it's a song that you don't want to hear. But you got to listen to it. Stay with us.