text:  stop it be be gracious be kind and and take that step and do that extra step so i spent 20 years as a scout master in the boy scouts of america and this is that's where i ended up playing that game and learned some of those lessons but uh one of the things they talk about when you go out in the mountains was leave it better than you found it right so we were out one day and we showed up at this beautiful campsite well there'd been a big kegger party the night before and it was a complete mess