text:  you know, passing age, like there's no like immediate urgency behind it, but you just never know. And in my experience, like there's things that you want to take care of, like just good conversations with you and your spouse and the immediate, and she's like a state planning. I'm like, yeah, you know, wills and trusts. If you were to pass away. And as soon as I talk about passing or death, the immediate response is, I don't want to talk about it. I don't want to talk about it. I don't want to talk about it. I do not want to talk about it. So it's a clear avoidance. So what are you avoiding?