text:  I wouldn't really discover the answer to that question for many years, but now I know. Now, I'm not suggesting that every young man move out of their parents' house to live in a motel and work at a small-town radio station. There really are no more small-town radio stations anyway. And nobody's suggesting that every young man should go on a cross-country trek where they ask out cashiers at random gas stations. That may not be your adventure. So go have your own.