text:  into our own personal unconscious to figure out what's in there, what drives me, why do I feel the way I feel, why might I feel the way that I feel, because certainty can be elusive in these matters. Did that help? Yes, yes. I think there's a, the psychological term for that is projection, right? So we, sometimes we find things about another person really annoying, but those are actually the things that annoy us about ourselves, right?