text:  Most people don't really even care. They don't care. So you changed your hair and you hated it. Nobody's going home at night and not getting sleep because they think, oh, your hair is horrible. I can't sleep. They don't really care. Yeah, they don't care. Their life's over. And they change it the next day. But if you force yourself not to change and you get stuck in that rut, you never experience those opportunities. So here's the harder parts with that. If your personality is that way and you get married, we see tremendous struggles 7 to 15 years into marriage.