text:  is the civility of their culture so you're talking interpersonal yes you're standing on the subway and you're people give up their seats for a lady if you're pregnant they get out of the way so you can sit down they uh they talk very little in public they don't use their phones on the trains or the buses wow yeah they don't use their phone you don't see anybody talking on their phone okay in fact i saw very few people that had earbuds in