text:  My life is now destroyed because of what they did. Not owning your own peace. In other words, saying they chose their pathway. I'm now going to choose my pathway. We say, see all this trouble I'm going through because of them. And then they live in that environment because they have people that poo poo to them. Like, oh, it's so bad that your husband did. I get that. But now you're becoming a victim when you're a victim or a villain of something that's forced upon you. No matter what the scenario is, you're robbing yourself of happiness.